Losing her slowly

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We are being in a relationship for 3 years ,we arent married yet but we have plans of getting married.But recently she started spending time with a new guy who just joined the office ,she is saying its just friendship.I'm confused
 
Don't freak out. Don't show up that you suspect something. Just watch closely to investigate the case. With women, is never about what they say but what they do and how they behave...
 
You should post this on reddit.com/r/relationshipadvice

Secondly, in my experience, men & women don't just "become friends" and start spending time together if that's their intention.
 
just check her messages if she deletes them dump her. if she say you don't trust me? why should i show you dump her to. she might be getting the D every day from this guy.
Smell her p*ssy lol
 
We are being in a relationship for 3 years ,we arent married yet but we have plans of getting married.But recently she started spending time with a new guy who just joined the office ,she is saying its just friendship.I'm confused

Hi denzimmer. I'm sorry to hear you're in this situation. You must be hurting quite a lot, and feeling a lot of confusing emotions.

Obviously I have very little information to go off on, and I don't know anything about your girlfriend, however my initial reaction is this is a bad situation.

It is not uncommon for people to find a new partner (and establish it as a relationship) before ending things with their current partner.

It sounds like your girlfriend is currently setting this guy up to be her new partner.

She may not be physically cheating on you, yet, but there is probably some sort of emotional cheating going on.

If you started spending time with another woman, and going out for dinner with her, would your girlfriend think that's fine, or would she freak out?

I know you probably feel like it's the end of the world right now, and that you'll never find anyone as good as your girlfriend, but I promise you, with 100% confidence, that in a few years (assuming you break up because of this guy) you will have a low opinion of her as she cheated on you and then left you for another guy.

Question:

When you first started dating her, did she have a boyfriend?
 
He is dropping her home late night and she is going out for dinner with him.she says he is just a friend
why are they going out to dinner? Is it just them two?
Work? Personal? other???

If she can't be truthful with you, means she doesn't trust you.

pretty bad flags already, then again dont know her to know if this is a norm for her

has this happened in the past?
 
Dude it's simple if you love her and she's yours, don't give up on her be brave and get her heart back, (by all means like for real).
If you don't give a shit, give up and find yourself another girl, but there's no point in wondering about it unnecessarily.
Be a fucking man
 
Red flag my G, tell her she can go be with that guy. Men and Women are not just friends, that's BS. She is getting ready to dump you, I think you should just tell her that if she goes out with that dude again it's unacceptable and you are ending the relationship. And when you say this I want you to mean it, if she really isn't planning to dump you, she will accept this and not go out with this dude. If she doesn't respect you, she will continue doing this to you because she thinks you got no balls to leave.
 
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Dude it's simple if you love her and she's yours, don't give up on her be brave and get her heart back, (by all means like for real).
If you don't give a shit, give up and find yourself another girl, but there's no point in wondering about it unnecessarily.
Be a fucking man
Man he better leave this chick, plenty of fish in the sea. She is emotionally checked out of this relationship
 
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