Need advice asap…
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Hahaha now that would be very good but unfortunately my wording wasn't the clearest. I should have perhaps said single female friends you have in common.
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+1 rep for Blink 182.
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Hey you. Where are you going with your post count?
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Now reading this thread is much more enjoyable.
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One time I wanted to steal my friend's girlfriend. He said it's not his girlfriend, so it motivated me a little bit, ignoring the fact that he was just ashamed to talk about his feelings openly.
Then she was wrecked because I went too far.
Another day I was in a relationship and kinda wasted $1200 on a virtual girlfriend. She broke up with me when she's found a boy in the real life. I was wrecked for months afterwards and became an alcoholic few years later. Well, not an alcoholic like drinking everyday, but abusing alcohol for strong feelings of euphoria and being able to socialize even with people like my own enemies.
Years later I was arrested. And my thoughts are like this: first breakup is like being busted for the first time. It's stupid as hell, but once you realize what's happened, you'll take care of your freedom.
I told myself to never look desperately for a girl again. And I will not seek anyone's attention unless God clearly lets me know it's the time to get into a close relationship. But I think it won't happen in less than 10 years.
I think since that moment I've been just wrecking myself. I am an alcoholic, a drug addict and so it comes very difficult to me to live like before that relationship. The only thing that is left in my life is this community. And a therapy I started - 5 years late. For those 5 years I was following patterns that just don't make common sense.
I could go on for hours how bad it is, but I started to recover. No alcoholic drink since weeks and many people supporting me.
I have developed a phobia for mirrors. I thought everyone experiences this, but it turned out I can't look myself in the eyes. I realized I am a piece of rag that is going the pathway of a demoralized human. My thinking was completely rewired during the last year of 2021.
You can say it's going harsh on oneself. But no. It's choosing between the path of dishonest instant gratification addict and normal, more predictable life.
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A thread got moved that I had posted in twice. I gave up then. I’ll try to leave it at 111 next.
Mirror phobia hey? That last time I looked in one I offended myself
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The time is ticking. I lost my sense of personality.
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My time is definitely ticking. Where do you go to find another one and what type would you like? You could go for being particularly stupid like me.
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I want to become an american rapper. So I'll go meet some young CEOs.
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Yeaaah, definitely. If you want girlfriends, you definitely need fame.
So now we have to chase fame next to money. Time to start a youtube channel.
Always wearing the coolest clothes in the hood. Buying the expensivest champagne. Talking only good occurences. Always smiling at everyone.
This life of a single is the best thing on the planet!
*famous and business girlfriends
So now we have to chase fame next to money. Time to start a youtube channel.
Always wearing the coolest clothes in the hood. Buying the expensivest champagne. Talking only good occurences. Always smiling at everyone.
This life of a single is the best thing on the planet!
*famous and business girlfriends
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Young CEO girls, I like how you are thinking. I guess fame does make things easier but is not a necessity.
I would imagine a good looking chap like you could win some over with a fun personality and some confidence.
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You need to move on just doing something (busy activity) to start forgetting her, you can find another girl, there are plenty of girls in this world. If you keep concentrating on your sadness, it doesn't help you anything, you need to bounce back. You can work on your routine or find new activities to make you busy, then you will start move on forgetting her slowly
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Well, you get the very first girlfriend.
You feel like you were lucky.
And yeah, the first one is always by luck.
Then something goes wrong.
But why?
Cause it was luck.
Thousands of people become millionaires.
But they go down to zero within months.
Why?
Because it was luck.
You were lucky mate.
Don't base your future on luck.
Find a match that best fits you.
And one that will be a friend with you even if you are no longer close to each other.
I think I must start those e-mail campaigns cause writing that way is entertaining.
You feel like you were lucky.
And yeah, the first one is always by luck.
Then something goes wrong.
But why?
Cause it was luck.
Thousands of people become millionaires.
But they go down to zero within months.
Why?
Because it was luck.
You were lucky mate.
Don't base your future on luck.
Find a match that best fits you.
And one that will be a friend with you even if you are no longer close to each other.
I think I must start those e-mail campaigns cause writing that way is entertaining.
