Need advice asap…
- Thread starter xJacob
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- Jun 20, 2013
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This is not a relationship advice forum, but get new GF, it always helps.
- Nov 26, 2018
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Music. Blink-182. Marvel Cinematic Universe film marathon. Do a pushup.
xinase3501
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- Apr 17, 2021
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Enjoy your freedom.. I have been married for MANY years and I can tell you I miss my freedom to get any girl I want at anytime just for fuc*ing. I mean you cannot eat the same food everyday you need variety.
xinase3501
Banned - Inappropriate behavior
- Apr 17, 2021
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She dumped you for a reason. Ask her what it was and do not repeat that with your new girl.. Plenty of fish in the sea.. She is not made of gold.. Grow up and move on mate.
Thomas-Coleman
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- Jul 4, 2021
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Get a new.
It depends on many things for you yourself for what will work such as
rebound
sex with someone else
simply time
Do something you find exciting or fun for example I like going snowboarding or walking ferrets
I can't remember it's name but you go inside a giant Ball then run downhills you may enjoy that
Listen to music
Watch a TV show such as say Bojack or Rick and Morty or friends depending on your preference
Aleksandar916
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- Nov 29, 2017
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First of all, it's okay to feel numb. You're normal.
I can promise you that the feeling will pass.
You will be sad and miss her, but it's all part of the grieving process. Time will heal it, you will find someone new and move on.
Chances are, years from now you will cringe remembering yourself crying over this.
One thing I would advise you to do - total removal of her from your life, at least until the grieving ends.
Do not call her or stalk her on social media. That slows the inevitable process.
Do what makes you happy now (except for calling her)
Things that will surely help:
1. Focus on something. Find something new to get your attention, whether it's a new girl, a puppy or a new website you will be super excited and focused about.
2. Physical activities. Hit the gym or just take walks.
Cheers buddy and heads up!
- Sep 23, 2015
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I'm sorry to hear this. Was this just out of the blue? Any idea why?
My advice would be to focus on yourself, think of all the things that you are a beast at and remember that she stayed with you for 18 months, so there must be some good stuff about you.
Use this as motivation to do better and to go after other goals. Your schedule just cleared up (I assume since you are now single), so go hustle at something, work on your bod and get in better shape, shoot for a bigger monetary goal. There are so many girls out there, I promise there is a better one or at least one that is better for you.
Enjoy the single life for now!
My advice would be to focus on yourself, think of all the things that you are a beast at and remember that she stayed with you for 18 months, so there must be some good stuff about you.
Use this as motivation to do better and to go after other goals. Your schedule just cleared up (I assume since you are now single), so go hustle at something, work on your bod and get in better shape, shoot for a bigger monetary goal. There are so many girls out there, I promise there is a better one or at least one that is better for you.
Enjoy the single life for now!
- Sep 23, 2015
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Oooh... this too! Just go no contact. Block her ass, don't text her, don't even respond to her if she texts you. Just be a dick, but without being rude. Make sure she understands that she's not a priority in your life at all. Don't tell her she's not a priority, but let your actions speak for themselves. It's easier said than done, but if you can do this it will 100% throw her off balance and possibly make her question her choice.
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It's important to let yourself feel the pain and the numbness in order to heal again. There are a few certain factors that you can do to speed up the process of healing after a failed relationship. If you talk to a lot of girls and go on a few dates (no matter what the outcome will be) you will feel way better. Also, talk to your friends and family and hit old friends up. After a breakup, its basically now your time to shine.
Hit the gym, do the things that you were afraid to do when you were in the relationship and don't be afraid to post it on social media as well. Don't try to make her jealous and don't even think about texting or calling her. You will make yourself look like a wet blanket and the chances of her having any respect for you will drop to 0%.
Hit the gym, do the things that you were afraid to do when you were in the relationship and don't be afraid to post it on social media as well. Don't try to make her jealous and don't even think about texting or calling her. You will make yourself look like a wet blanket and the chances of her having any respect for you will drop to 0%.
side-hustle
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- Jun 29, 2021
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Having split up with my wife of 17 years last year i know it can be difficult.
The first initial week will be the hardest but just ride the wave. It soon gets easier and you do adjust to your new norm.
The way i saw it i have two choices.. I could sit and wallow and think the world was against me or do something positive for ME.
I decided to put my time and effort into a career change and started training to become a dangerous goods lorry driver which i did.
I also joined a gym and started getting myself fit again which is something i neglected for too long.
So my advice, use this time to REALLY focus on what you want to achieve. Build your online empire, learn something you have always wanted to do, get fit, enjoy your freedom.
The first initial week will be the hardest but just ride the wave. It soon gets easier and you do adjust to your new norm.
The way i saw it i have two choices.. I could sit and wallow and think the world was against me or do something positive for ME.
I decided to put my time and effort into a career change and started training to become a dangerous goods lorry driver which i did.
I also joined a gym and started getting myself fit again which is something i neglected for too long.
So my advice, use this time to REALLY focus on what you want to achieve. Build your online empire, learn something you have always wanted to do, get fit, enjoy your freedom.
clock
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- Mar 19, 2012
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Is it you first one? That was the toughest for me, after the first they become a breeze. Whatever you do, do not text her, call her, contact her in anyway. You might be hurting inside but on the outside you need to act like you don't care.
Do you have any shared single female friends? If you do, try and hit on her or go out and get laid with some other pick up. It's good for you that she sees you have moved on quickly.
Do you have any shared single female friends? If you do, try and hit on her or go out and get laid with some other pick up. It's good for you that she sees you have moved on quickly.
God of Gaypal
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Don't stop those who want's to go and don't stop those who want's to come. keep enjoying. best of luck
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Ohh, I´d love to hangout in your friend circle, seems like a lot of fun .. in my boring circle, we don´t have shared single females, but it is an interesting concept, to share the girls between us .. ,-)
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