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BentMo
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I meant that I wasn't looking to my wallet/pockets to save food money.. If I wanna go to the restaurant with my GF, hell I'll go and fuck about the rest..
I love life, and I love living..
In my opinion, money is just a way to buy some freedom, I'm not saying that I use 100% of my earns on buying stuffs, not at all, but I can spend 70% of what I earned this month just because fuck, I can die tomorrow and there is a balance between saving 90% and saving 20%..
I love life, and I love living..
In my opinion, money is just a way to buy some freedom, I'm not saying that I use 100% of my earns on buying stuffs, not at all, but I can spend 70% of what I earned this month just because fuck, I can die tomorrow and there is a balance between saving 90% and saving 20%..
Kurama2909
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Try to meet people, lose your fear of things. Later only memories of when you were young will remain. Man, life is about living. Greetings and encouragement from Argentina
From the Netherlands. House and appartment prices are going through the roof here, it's insane. The goal to get a house without mortgage would be a lot easier if I moved abroad.Where you from dog?
Balkans. Central Europe.
Im from a very homogenous country where everybody talks walks and thinks the same xD
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Get a Lambo (rental also good to go), and do GOLD DIGGER Prank in the street....hope you will pick 2-3 gawls 
and enjoy your life.....
and enjoy your life.....
RoyalCobra777
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I would suggest start going to a gym. Not sure if you already do this, but make healthier food choices. Improving your body will improve your confidence and as you focused on your business, now it's time to focus on your social skills.
t2van
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@Scorpion Ghost Told you before man, you need to set another target or goal and aim for that. As for spending money ideally you want to try and spend 5-10% of your monthly income on your self so you can control spending and learn to actually "treat" or "buy" something for yourself without regrets.
You can't take it with you at the end of the day and there's no point learning to have fun later on in life by then it's too late.
As for the friends and girlfriend thing.. just tell her your friends are in the army or moved away if needs be send me your number when your on a date and I'll message you every 5min asking how it's going - you can tell her then that's your friend contacting you BUT I just moved away if you end up getting married ill jump on the plane and come to your stag and wedding
Nice to actually get to page 2 without someone telling you, you need to meditate on the issue.
You can't take it with you at the end of the day and there's no point learning to have fun later on in life by then it's too late.
As for the friends and girlfriend thing.. just tell her your friends are in the army or moved away if needs be send me your number when your on a date and I'll message you every 5min asking how it's going - you can tell her then that's your friend contacting you
BUT I just moved away if you end up getting married ill jump on the plane and come to your stag and wedding Nice to actually get to page 2 without someone telling you, you need to meditate on the issue.
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Yeah, easier said than done. Who should i get laid with?
post in HAF looking to get married some marriage agency guy will contact you
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Actually, in terms of meeting people this is probably a good idea.
Having said that, it would quickly get very old for me. I haven't worked for anyone in a very long time, and if I can help it I don't plan on working for anyone ever again.
Well, I guess that's where I'm trying to get at. But all these years I felt like I was in the hole. First worrying about paying bills and where my next meal is coming from, and then worrying about where the hell am I gonna live some day... rented apartment? Fuck me! So then I saved and saved, to get even more secure in my food/bills payments, and to hopefully buy an apartment.
Then I want a car, okay got that too. Then I need to upgrade my wardrobe a bit. Okay that's not too expensive, I don't shop expensive. But I need to upgrade my wardrobe, I got clothes I've been wearing for 10 years probably. I still need to upgrade my wardrobe some.
Next is the apartment. I need everything. A bed, a fridge, a washing machine, air conditioning, heating, everything. I have nothing. So that's gonna be an expense.
I guess when it's all said and done and I got that safety net behind me, maybe I'll feel more comfortable spending on living. Get out of this survival mode.
Ah the whole memories thing. I get it, but it's like, what am I gonna do with memories when I'm living in a cardboard box? I'd rather be with no memories waking up in my anatomic bed, in an apartment that belongs to me where there's no landlord and no bullshit.
Ultimately I guess I'm hoping I get to have both. First the money, then the memories. And I did the money thing. I'm faaaar far far from rich, but I got a few dollars.
But I also started early. I got my first job when I was 12 years old, was working offline regular shitty jobs non stop from 14 to 23 years old. Had girls, did drugs, had an STD, got arrested, had an accident that almost killed me, had friends, went to clubs, parents divorce, was an immigrant for 14 years, all of it. By the time I was 23 I was done, and I kinda landed on this 'make money online' thing. I pretty much stayed in bed for about 2 years. Then I bought a computer chair, and got out of bed
Point is, I had a lot of living and memories when I started, and I guess that held me, the good and the bad memories. But now, it's been too long, it's not holding me anymore.
Oh shit, I can imagine. So why don't you move abroad then? Besides, isn't Holland gonna be under water in a few decades? Unless you're a fish, it's gonna be a hard time
Get a Lambo (rental also good to go), and do GOLD DIGGER Prank in the street....hope you will pick 2-3 gawls
and enjoy your life.....
I'm not Bill Gates over heaaaaa
Besides, I feel like I'd feel like a total douchebag in a lambo
Yeah I've been eating healthier and exercising lately, for the first time in 7 years.
That's all fine and good, but it only goes so far. It would appear I'm human and I have a need for social interaction.
Sucks, I wish I was a computer
Yeah actually those single moms start popping up left and right. I have noticed that.
If you ever get the chance get a young single mom to play around with for a while. Freaks I tell ya
If she got daddy issues it's a plus, trust me
Don't get caught...
@Scorpion Ghost Told you before man, you need to set another target or goal and aim for that. As for spending money ideally you want to try and spend 5-10% of your monthly income on your self so you can control spending and learn to actually "treat" or "buy" something for yourself without regrets.
You can't take it with you at the end of the day and there's no point learning to have fun later on in life by then it's too late.
As for the friends and girlfriend thing.. just tell her your friends are in the army or moved away if needs be send me your number when your on a date and I'll message you every 5min asking how it's going - you can tell her then that's your friend contacting you
Nice to actually get to page 2 without someone telling you, you need to meditate on the issue.
I don't like bullshitting man. I like to lay all my cards on the table when I interact with people. Telling a girl my friends are in the army or moved away or anything that's not truthful, well, I don't do that, fuck you
But thanks for the offer, I do appreciate it haha
I don't meditate. Making money does it for me. Although, used to be any small or large "Notification of Payment Received" would get my blood pumping... probably something like someone who cares about that sort of thing getting likes on their Facebook or Instagram posts. What's the word I'm looking for... not testosterone... the chemical in the brain that makes you feel good...
Okay had to google it. Fucking dopamine. I think every order, every payment, gives me a nice dopamine spike. But after 7 years and now that I'm not hungry anymore, the hit isn't as strong anymore. And if there is such a thing as dopemine resistance, I got it now haha
Good idea, yes. But maybe I don't do that
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Thanks guys for the company. Was feeling rather shitty last night.
idealu
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You need to go out dude, seriously, that's your issue. I was in your situation about 6 years ago, same like you.
The issue is, you are confortable at home, you got used to it. And you like it.
Get a shitty job, in a bar or restaurant something, where you get collegues and make some friends first, they you will surelly get into an antourange and find a girl.
This is how it works...
The issue is, you are confortable at home, you got used to it. And you like it.
Get a shitty job, in a bar or restaurant something, where you get collegues and make some friends first, they you will surelly get into an antourange and find a girl.
This is how it works...
alpacalover
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So what about switching your focus on yourself? Start doing some sport, bike, running + gym. Change your diet and all the other things like girls and other stuff come to your life naturally. Good health and a adequate condition, decent physique give you a mental confidence and toughness. Then everything somehow go easier.
jake lionar
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1st You solution is to get married, yes it is time for uu to have a wife and kids playing arround they will change your view of life...We go 7 years back. Im sleeping well dressed and well covered cuz its cold and i dont wanna turn on heating so as to not spend unnecessary money on electricity. Every time i exhale some steam comes out of my mouth. Maybe its not called steam... You know, smoke-like thing...
Today, in about 3 months i should be movong in my 55 2m / $55.000 apartment. I have enough savings to stop working today and give myself $600/mo, and live like that for 5 years without making a cent. The average salary in my country is like $300/mo, just to get some perspective. I got a nice car, about $3.000 worth, and i got a coupla computers and lap tops, about $3.000 worth. I have my business that makes me money every month, and i have a shit ton of digital assets (websites, domains, social pages, emails), which if i decided to sell would probably bank me... I dont know... Lets say at least $10.000+
On the other hand, i have no friends, no social life, my social skills are super suspect, and i havent had sex in like a year. I dont wanna go to a prostitute, and tinder and badoo are not working out for me anymore for some reason. And im getting older, closing 31 in a month.
So... why am i telling you all this? I dont know...
I feel like im almost done. Im secure. My apartment is almost ready, and barring and unpredictable fuck ups, ive secured shelter for myself for life. Yay
But then, like, now what. I dont have the same motivation to work like i once did. I do my work and i go through the motions and everything, but its not the same, im not hungry anymore.
But on the other hand, my existance has been so focused and revolving around money for a very very long time, that i cant really spend any money because im fucking terrified of losing it. Because it goes fast, and shit runs downhill. I can literally have a slow week and i find myself losing the motivation to eat, do anything costly. Its weird.
So i dont know. Just one of those days.
imagine you are 50 years old and you have a son who is 1 - 5 years old that stupid man you need to see yuur sons grown in front of you becoming man ...etc
that the first thing you need to knew.
second thing is that we, most of us 'IM' onliy thinking about money how to get money what to do with money, and never asked the question why im here on this plannet at first place, what is the purpose of my life, the reason why is because we forget to rememebr there is a GOD who created us for one reason to worship him only, you keep talking about losiing money.. what about losing your life dont uu think about that ? you keep talking like you r going to live for ever... so bro just try to get back to ur sense..
having money is good but to think of it as the key for happines is wrong...
And dont tell me uu dont believe in GOD 'atheist' cause that is some big bullshit.
anyway bro i hope you find your happiness
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jake lionar
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One day you will get it
HustleTong
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You have BHW. And the Lounge. what more could you ask for?
pj777777
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I'd suggest getting out of your comfort zone and start mixing with real people.
Easy way to do this is by setting a goal of x amount of small wins each day.
Talk to people in the street eg ask for directions, ask about a product in a shop.
Start off with people who may like a quick chat eg the elderly, unattractive (incidently physically less attractive people sometimes have much more attractive hearts) etc and keep doing this until it becomes habit... things will fall into place from there.
Easy way to do this is by setting a goal of x amount of small wins each day.
Talk to people in the street eg ask for directions, ask about a product in a shop.
Start off with people who may like a quick chat eg the elderly, unattractive (incidently physically less attractive people sometimes have much more attractive hearts) etc and keep doing this until it becomes habit... things will fall into place from there.