Mr.Sinatra
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Are you by any chance German ?
I don't enjoy anything
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adalbertmgrm
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I don't know what you mean, man. You can be more specific (open) we're just arguing here. It's like an idea club.
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Until 2013 I was so stucked to work that nothing could move me. I had my divorce in 2015 but first came my daughter. Shes 4 now and shes the reason of my life. Literally I would die or kill for her. I don't know your age... Mine is 38. Marriages might suck but parenting? Glorious! A real bless!
Without my daughter probably I would be a very depressive person. After her I cannot measure my happiness with life.
Without my daughter probably I would be a very depressive person. After her I cannot measure my happiness with life.
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What's your country? I love Sweden but when I was living there I felt miserable everyday. No wonder people drink too much and high rates of suicide.
adalbertmgrm
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You're talking about the feeling of a father. Nice anyway. Even really nice. These feelings are important. Because it's nice to love someone, to love their children.
Why are people getting divorced? Do you have any idea about that? Marriages are not as permanent as before. Why do two people say they love each other and then divorce?
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Im a IM working 90% of the time with adult content and close to girls providing sex services. My ex-wife never could manage to accept this. But we had a good house, good cars, travelling a lot.
After all my job was not the issue. We are different! Now Im living with a person who knows my job. It's hers as well.
But we are alike. Same taste in music. Movies. Sex apettite. Try to find people like you.
You're not alone. But first of all... Breath the Air, go to gym. Dont you EVER keep your life under a blanket and lights out. (L)
adalbertmgrm
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thank you. constructive speech! No. I'm not pessimistic. I just stopped enjoying ordinary things and waiting for happiness. But I still think it's nice to plant a flower in the garden and feed a dog. But, What I mean is communication. Sometimes people feel lonely because everyone is interested in cliché. What I'm really looking for is love and conversation. This is very rare now. Most people don't know that.
Actually, I asked you something else. In general, divorce has increased in all modern societies. Even those who love each other are leaving. So this caught my attention. I've been researching them on the internet lately. Even marriages aren't reliable. I'm just curious and I want to know why.
deal with it
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subscribe to sadhguru in youtube
you will be fine
you will be fine
watsonovedades
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people are not dumb, you are just paying too much attention to them
Well every human being in this world has a purpose in life which he is here for a role to play, if you are feeling not satisfied with life that surely means you are not doing what you meant to be here for maybe what might give you satisfaction is doing social work help others in 3rd world if possible or in the same country you are even start from your neighbours then move to the next block the best way of feeling content is when you help others and you actually succeed in it that smile is priceless and i think that is what you are missing.
adalbertmgrm
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Maybe. This is an opinion. But not ridiculous. Beautiful... Thank you for contributing to this discussion, my friend. I read everything written and try to evaluate. (but I disagree with some of them)
Well as you just called me a friend so anytime you need some ears you should kmow where i am !
Ninja Turtles
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The whole life is all about the same scene. All you need to find out your own way to enjoy it.
Kikerinka
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Your mind is your greatest enemy. The smarter you are, the more true this is.
Because while you can use your brain to solve problems, create interesting stuff and comprehend the world (at least on a superficial level), most of the time your (smart) brain is (ab)using you--telling you all kinds of stuff that just make your experience here on Earth terrible.
You are not your mind. 99% of thoughts you have every day are useless, and harmless.
The key to solve your problem is NOT finding new friends, or having children, or finding purpose, like some people suggest here. That's just temporary solution, until your mind will convince you that you need another thing (or person), and you'll just stay locked in the spiral of emotions (sometimes positive, but mostly negative)...
The key is to stop identifying yourself with your mind. And to try to liberate yourself from ego. Once this happens, all the "problems" you have now will cease to exist.
Recommended reading for you: Eckhart Tolle. You'll thank me later
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Because while you can use your brain to solve problems, create interesting stuff and comprehend the world (at least on a superficial level), most of the time your (smart) brain is (ab)using you--telling you all kinds of stuff that just make your experience here on Earth terrible.
You are not your mind. 99% of thoughts you have every day are useless, and harmless.
The key to solve your problem is NOT finding new friends, or having children, or finding purpose, like some people suggest here. That's just temporary solution, until your mind will convince you that you need another thing (or person), and you'll just stay locked in the spiral of emotions (sometimes positive, but mostly negative)...
The key is to stop identifying yourself with your mind. And to try to liberate yourself from ego. Once this happens, all the "problems" you have now will cease to exist.
Recommended reading for you: Eckhart Tolle. You'll thank me later
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Mr.Sinatra
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Brother stop being online, go out!
In this age we have almost everything accessible with few touch of buttons..
Most important is health..
My favorite quote is an arabic one:
healthy mind in healthy body
Get the hell out, exercice
Go for a run sweat..
Stop sitting browsing the internet.
Do not take this personally but you need to stop what you are doing to yourself.
I am speaking from a personal experience.
Be safe.
Ragchowdary441
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Enjoy the life dude and make some meaning to it. Everyone can enjoy their own life by knowing whats he/she doing.
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visit a psychotherapist ASAP