I don't enjoy anything

Hm... not a good sign. ))

Be Positive ))

So adorable thread. And there is a solution: Money
And thats why we all here.

Most of people will enjoy discuss this subject but they are againts each other POV and get angry, frustrated, bitchy etc.
I think the people you talking about called NORMIE.
- People, mostly teens and young adult are not empty and boring, just look like that beacause we dont really knows each other, we dont talked enought to break the ice. Why someone have an icewall next to him, and dont let you break it?
1. He/She think the same about you, cant see the energy in your eyes, dont get atracted with your clothes, dont like your hair, you remind her to a person she dont like, you remind him a bully, a nerd, a drugdealer or whatever he dont like.
1.2. That ice created by culture, politics and economy. He dont want you to push him down, she worry about what others tell about her after she meet the punk guy, the guy who black or racist, most of them have an ideology what is fake.
1.3 When you have a charisma or personality, you can break the ice and get people to talk about what they really enjoy to talking. But this walls so strong sometimes, and finally he/she was crying, when they become honest (im still a virgin just fake it, my mothers gona be dead we have no insurance, i dont know how to tell my BF/GF i dont like them anymore etc). You need much time, or that good personality to let them discuss about what they really enjoy talking. You need to break any politics, religion with that personality (Like Far Cry 5 Joseph Seeds)

And why you need money? So much people enjoy this but they dont have time to think about it, only when you travel with them or take the launch break together.
For example i had 20 minutes before walk my dog and go to sleep, because wake up early next day, so i had time to write this comment. Belive me i more enjoy when next day someone pick me up, and give me my job yearly payment.
I will say OK, we can go anywhere you want. And i think most of people enjoy this to, or we can find the compromise: We move to California, you can bring your 2 kid, brother, parents and the dog. So you need to give freedom.
Some people gona say: "What we do that far?" "I like my current living place!", but you just only need to wait for their better days, when they are ready to change their mindset, because some people only stubborn, and you need to outplay them (and you can do that with money). I will like to continue my sentences, but have to go.

At the end: when evryone start thinking like that is become dangerous, i dont want it and they dont want it to, so its okay.

I recomend you a chanel- a rational guy, who talk about our best posibilities, investments, people, etc
Economic Invincibility

Just find a girl that you like to fuck and she likes to fuck you too, you will never get bored. Friends come and go, as they enter a relationship you will probably never see them that often or not at all, you will end up alone and depressed.

nakamura said:

You think too much. About others, their behaviour or even about the whole society.

Find something what makes you happy and do this. You don't need to party, meet girls and so on. Focus on yourself, do something meaningful. By myself I would prefer to improve my business at friday night than going to a bar and drink beer. This has nothing to do with being depressed or bored, its just a mentality difference.

95% of my friends are living the average life. 9-5 work during weekdays and on weekend party and drinking. Every week. In the other hand, they can't understand how can I afford to travel all the time or drive nice cars. Now, is it me who is strange, because I am thinking bigger? Don't let anyone judge you. Your life, your decisions. You don't need to play the average guy, if you are not the average guy.

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very well said

Sherb said:

If it smells like shit everywhere you go, you might want to check your shoe.

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Truth.

OP, You seem to have created a thought construct in your head that gives you seemingly legitimate reasons why your social life isn't good.

Those reasons obsolve you of responsibility and at the same time nicely feed your ego by making you feel more important and more special than anyone else. It's called rationalizing. In reality, you probably have the opposite qualities of those you would like to believe about yourself, because you seem very judgmental, among other things.

As someone already said, most of this is caused by overthinking and being stuck in your head, which funny enough is probably caused by lack of socializing.

Op, you are the one the aliens kidnapped... moving on

You think like the many of us here, and it makes you the normie here, like your friends who are the Normie for 9-5 peps

What I am trying to say is, stop bitching and do what you are supposed to do

You can do anything and everything, everything is within you!

Follow the Infinite Intelligence every second of every day and you won't feel like this anymore. The further you stray from your path the less fulfilled you feel. In simple terms, this means that you should wake up every day and follow your hunches. Sometimes that means fighting learned behaviors. The Infinite Intelligence can be used for monetary gain, sure, but its real power is in finding your path and leading a fulfilled life.

And for the love of fuck stop feeding your ego by harping on the perceived flaws of others. If you do that, you're no better than those who you perceive yourself to be above.

Total Noob said:

Follow the Infinite Intelligence every second of every day and you won't feel like this anymore. The further you stray from your path the less fulfilled you feel. In simple terms, this means that you should wake up every day and follow your hunches. Sometimes that means fighting learned behaviors. The Infinite Intelligence can be used for monetary gain, sure, but its real power is in finding your path and leading a fulfilled life.

And for the love of fuck stop feeding your ego by harping on the perceived flaws of others. If you do that, you're no better than those who you perceive yourself to be above.

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What's infinite intelligence? Is that even a word??

You just described the misery that is existence. Welcome to the club of nihilists, you are one of us now. But don't be pessimistic! It is liberating, because nobody has a place in this world, no one is special, nothing matters in the long run, we humans are just animals among millions of others. Someday we will all die and be forgotten. So enjoy your life, you only have one. A must-watch video:

I just want to say, I enjoyed reading this thread....already lot of good discussion, don't think I need to add another twist to what's already been said.

ninja21 said:

What's infinite intelligence? Is that even a word??

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It is a word. It's called many things, but I prefer Infinite Intelligence as I think that term is the most profound. The Infinite Intelligence has led me to post in this thread, and for you to read my post. The Infinite Intelligence is constantly pushing and pulling the universe in ways that a puny human brain can have no hope of ever understanding. If you follow where the Infinite Intelligence guides you, fulfillment awaits. If you don't -- if you trust your own minuscule brain more than the absolute power of the Infinite Intelligence -- misery awaits, regardless of how objectively successful in the realm of humanity you are.

"Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill is an introductory guide to understanding and harnessing the Infinite Intelligence. If you feel like the OP, you really need to read this book right away.

Seek discomfort bro.

Learn to not feel lonely when being alone. That's the trick. I've been there buddy but try to find like minded people. This world, especially the people on it can suck

It seems you have depression with an existential crisis...

Is there something you still enjoy or all that this life has to offer seems "empty" to you?
I was in the same place one year ago... I was dead inside, nothing gave me pleasure and I had no emotions.

How do you overcome it? Well, subliminal audios helped me a lot.


Specifically, one to be happy and love life. I listened it from a Patreon page who charges $5 monthly.

Always remember this:

Life is empty and everything that humans do is meaningless... That's not true... Also not lie...
Just a PERSPECTIVE.

Our life has the meaning that we decided to give it.

Probably you were happy dating women, going out with your friends, and everything else that now does not make you feel anything... So you have to recover your old way of seeing life and you'll feel again.

Regards.

Not knowing the purpose of life, and enjoying it just like animals do, is the main reason for this emptiness and depression you're feeling.

In a nutshell, you're not practicing the role you're created for.

In our Holy Book (Qur'an) that state is stated clearly.

[23:115]. Did you think that We had created you only for play, and that you would never be returned to Us?

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[20:124]. And whoever turns away from My remembrance - indeed, he will have a depressed life, and We will gather him on the Day of Resurrection blind."
[20:125]. He will say, "My Lord, why have you raised me blind while I was [once] seeing?"
[20:126]. [Allah] will say, "Thus did Our signs come to you, and you forgot them; and thus will you this Day be forgotten."
[20:127]. And thus do We recompense he who transgressed and did not believe in the signs of his Lord. And the punishment of the Hereafter is more severe and more enduring.

is this a depression? Should I go to a psychiatrist or psychologist? Can you tell me why this is necessary? Just to be compatible with people, right? Or to swallow an antidepressant pill and stop thinking about it all? Fine, but why? Is sadness a terrible thing? Maybe I need to be upset for a while. If sadness was a very harmful thing, nature or God would not have created it. Perhaps sadness and all these questions will make us more sane. Maybe this is something everyone should experience. I want to question her and find out why. Maybe it's the expression of my own self. Maybe it reminds me of humanity and spiritual values. Don't tell me I'm not compatible! If you're looking for compatibility, look at the flock of sheep.

If this is a claim of wisdom, yes I am wiser than them. What are they doing? Eat, make money, have sex and listen to music. LOL You've got the meaning of life. Admit that you feel lonely when you get tired of all this. But try not to get bored, or you'il be upset lol. Most people are like robots. If there were no such stupid and unconscious people around us, then maybe we could understand each other better. Maybe we could have made clearer communications. What do you say, man?

adalbertmgrm said:

I'm alone, gentlemen. Yeah, I got some friends. I see them whenever I want. But that's not the problem. It all sounds like an idiot to me. I'm sick of all the meaningless talk! Everybody has a phone in their hands and they are always after a woman to fuck.

Even women seem meaningless to me. You ask why? Because I know this game, man! Always the same scene! Go and make love to her. But that doesn't make me happy. Man-woman relationships are no different than bargaining, it's ridiculous. Everything comes to me routine. And very pointless.


People are so simple now. Eat, play sports and go to the party. Go and have sex. Okay, but how happy would that make you? Look around, how many people are really talking to you? All memorized things and memorized plans.


There are people around me, but I feel lonely.

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Know how you feel, never forget there are others who share your thirst for high level thought. Finding your niche and the right folks to be around is key.

You don't have a meaning in your life. I would start with reading the sidebar: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

Help Desk said:

Know how you feel, never forget there are others who share your thirst for high level thought. Finding your niche and the right folks to be around is key.

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Thank you. That's a great comment. Other people say it's depression. Because they don't know that feeling sad sometimes can be a good thing. Sorrows sometimes save people from illusions. Yeah. I'm sorry. But I know myself. I'm not having a nervous breakdown. Something is happening around me and I don't want to adapt to it anymore. And that's when I feel lonely. Then all this is an illusion. Happiness and the meaning of life is not there.

mhtro said:

You don't have a meaning in your life. I would start with reading the sidebar: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

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I know that, actually. Still an interesting point of view. It is useful to evaluate ideas.