laur.laurix
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OMFG....we don't fucking care.....this is a IM forum not a pitty me forum....get a shrink and GTFO.
My gf left me after loooong time :(
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ZhenSEO
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Wow thats cold bruh.
But seriously you need to get a grip. You are an adult now. I unds the feeling, whole world crashing down on you.
You need to get used to the feeling of being alone. Being comfortable being alone. Go and take up some self improvements, catch up with old friends, basically keep yourself busy.
Time will heal all wounds trust me. Been there done that.
Like the previous members who commented they are actually right. You wanna know what is the biggest revenge? Having a better life without her. Yes i said it.
I mean think about it, when you are successful and rich, you driving past her and her boyfriend in a lambo, while they are waiting at the busstop.
Then you casually stopped your car and pretend "hey hi jessica long time no see, hows life? Blarblar.. oh hes your bf? Thats great i feel happy for you two"
After that you end off a conversation and drive away with grace...
The burn feeling that will emit out of her is.... "damn why didnt i stick to him, i chose wrong "
So get a grip. Picture that in your mind.
Oh ya ps: thats one of my source of motivation for working hard now haha. Like i said, been there done that.
LGNDFRVR23
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My man, you gotta move on, like you said 6 years in a relationship is thing but for her it was pretty easy to dump u and move on, so you weren`t meant to be together. So my advice, you gotta hustle, focus on your goals and enjoy life. Well, coming from a 21 year boy this sounds a bit like some cheesy fifties+ thing for this centyrt but since last year I managed to get my own house 100k worth being supported by my gf. We both worked hard and tried to overcome ourselfs. My points is to find someone you feel comfortable with, have fun with, do all the crazy stuff and also hustle like motherfuckers toweards same goals. Trust me, being positive will only bring you good people around you and you`ll can overcome any dificulties .
Wish you all the best,
Chris
Wish you all the best,
Chris
Oren Ginzach
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TrueWow thats cold bruh.
But seriously you need to get a grip. You are an adult now. I unds the feeling, whole world crashing down on you.
You need to get used to the feeling of being alone. Being comfortable being alone. Go and take up some self improvements, catch up with old friends, basically keep yourself busy.
Time will heal all wounds trust me. Been there done that.
Like the previous members who commented they are actually right. You wanna know what is the biggest revenge? Having a better life without her. Yes i said it.
I mean think about it, when you are successful and rich, you driving past her and her boyfriend in a lambo, while they are waiting at the busstop.
Then you casually stopped your car and pretend "hey hi jessica long time no see, hows life? Blarblar.. oh hes your bf? Thats great i feel happy for you two"
After that you end off a conversation and drive away with grace...
The burn feeling that will emit out of her is.... "damn why didnt i stick to him, i chose wrong "
So get a grip. Picture that in your mind.
Oh ya ps: thats one of my source of motivation for working hard now haha. Like i said, been there done that.
I am going through that as well
Always hard.. just try to stay strong , day by day
Perrybeard82
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Finally we found a use for the Baba spam threads due jump on the around 7am GMT. And there's a witch doctor that specializes in getting lost love back
Floramargarate
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i'm so sorry
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i'm so sorry
me is sorry for you
Perrybeard82
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Hate it when people bump threads just to get there comments up so they can send PM's ect for some reason it always make me think there up to something lol I'm too suspicious at times I think
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You can always find another woman but you can never recoup time.
Something to understand here: Finding the right woman is like finding the right business model online. Not everything you touch will turn into gold. You're going to have failures. You're going to lose money. Most of the things we try online will never work out. Marketing is all about testing.
I feel for you..
I'd be upset about the years wasted doing my best to keep the relationship alive. I have been there myself a few times.
For a fact, men spent more effort in keeping the relationship alive than women do. Women can always find a richer man - someone who provides the security they're after. But how about men? What happens if and when you get sucked dry by a woman? You can't really go out there and find a rich chick.. I mean you can but it's much harder for a poor guy to find a rich lady than the other way around.
But we are also at fault. We show our lifestyle, our cars, our material possessions - so what the hell should we expect? What type of person will this behavior attract? BINGO! A gold digger - someone who wants the things we provide but NOT US.
That's why you see lots of wives of professional athletes stick around even though they know their men committed infidelity. It's all about the money.
We are all influenced by our friends, including your lady. Most of us don't want to admit it but it's true. Who you spend time with is who you become.
Most relationships these days are artificial and in many cases benefit based relationships. Gone are the times when Mary loved John, no matter what. John wants the hot chick, so he can show off in public. John wants someone who improves his self-image. It's really stupid. Get someone average looking but someone with brains, good morals and someone really likes you. Looks get worse over time. A good character only gets better.
You certainly can find a good woman these days.. just be prepared to date 100+ women because 95-99% won't be any good. The game has gotten tougher. It's harder than ever to beat the game, to find a woman with conservative values.
Most women aren't worth having a relationship with anyway. And I mean like 95%+ of women. They don't respect our time or work yet expect to be treated like a first lady. Something just doesn't add up.
Women gained a lot of strength through the media and all this feminism stuff going on. I'm not saying that they shouldn't have gained it but it's how they respond to it. We, men, are being thrown under the bus.
We make our own beds, though. Life is all about choices. You chose what you have right now. Think about that for a second. Be it positive or negative — you manifested it!
In the west, if you're a man who get divorced these days (which represents 50-60% of men depending on country), you lose everything. You're lucky if you get reasonable visitation rights and just lose 50% of what you built after marriage. How stupid is that?
I'm seriously contemplating to adopt a child so I never have to worry about being thrown under the bus by a female.It's a pretty good option. Could be the least expensive, least troublesome..
I'm just blown away by how brainwashed we have become, most of it is the fault of Hollywood and social media.
It's even worse if you have money. It's very hard to find someone who values the REAL YOU, and NOT your money. You just can't tell her how much you have until you've been married for some time. If you tell her about your monies upfront, I think there's a 100% chance that she'll go after it even if she is a good person. Money changes people. Money opens doors. Money gives people options to choose from. She's going to want most of it. There's this entitlement/equality mentality.
Date plenty of women and form friendships. If you see that one sticks around after months of dating, and you didn't provide her much, then you can trust her a bit more. And yeah, she shouldn't have been f*cking around with other guys. Trust her a bit more only if you see stability in performance. I mean, loyalty.
The easiest thing to find these days is the wrong woman. It's never been easier than now!!
The best women are the ones with conservative values yet are interesting enough to have a meaningful conversation with. That's probably less than 5% of all women I met. Forget the ones who need flashy things to be happy. So, women who are able to talk about a lot of stuff, not just what handbag they will buy next.
Humans got sexual, emotional and spiritual needs. If you just hit 2 out of 3 then you're screwed. You need to hit 3 out of 3 to be fulfilled.
Good luck!
Something to understand here: Finding the right woman is like finding the right business model online. Not everything you touch will turn into gold. You're going to have failures. You're going to lose money. Most of the things we try online will never work out. Marketing is all about testing.
I feel for you..
I'd be upset about the years wasted doing my best to keep the relationship alive. I have been there myself a few times.
For a fact, men spent more effort in keeping the relationship alive than women do. Women can always find a richer man - someone who provides the security they're after. But how about men? What happens if and when you get sucked dry by a woman? You can't really go out there and find a rich chick.. I mean you can but it's much harder for a poor guy to find a rich lady than the other way around.
But we are also at fault. We show our lifestyle, our cars, our material possessions - so what the hell should we expect? What type of person will this behavior attract? BINGO! A gold digger - someone who wants the things we provide but NOT US.
That's why you see lots of wives of professional athletes stick around even though they know their men committed infidelity. It's all about the money.
We are all influenced by our friends, including your lady. Most of us don't want to admit it but it's true. Who you spend time with is who you become.
Most relationships these days are artificial and in many cases benefit based relationships. Gone are the times when Mary loved John, no matter what. John wants the hot chick, so he can show off in public. John wants someone who improves his self-image. It's really stupid. Get someone average looking but someone with brains, good morals and someone really likes you. Looks get worse over time. A good character only gets better.
You certainly can find a good woman these days.. just be prepared to date 100+ women because 95-99% won't be any good. The game has gotten tougher. It's harder than ever to beat the game, to find a woman with conservative values.
Most women aren't worth having a relationship with anyway. And I mean like 95%+ of women. They don't respect our time or work yet expect to be treated like a first lady. Something just doesn't add up.
Women gained a lot of strength through the media and all this feminism stuff going on. I'm not saying that they shouldn't have gained it but it's how they respond to it. We, men, are being thrown under the bus.
We make our own beds, though. Life is all about choices. You chose what you have right now. Think about that for a second. Be it positive or negative — you manifested it!
In the west, if you're a man who get divorced these days (which represents 50-60% of men depending on country), you lose everything. You're lucky if you get reasonable visitation rights and just lose 50% of what you built after marriage. How stupid is that?
I'm seriously contemplating to adopt a child so I never have to worry about being thrown under the bus by a female.It's a pretty good option. Could be the least expensive, least troublesome..
I'm just blown away by how brainwashed we have become, most of it is the fault of Hollywood and social media.
It's even worse if you have money. It's very hard to find someone who values the REAL YOU, and NOT your money. You just can't tell her how much you have until you've been married for some time. If you tell her about your monies upfront, I think there's a 100% chance that she'll go after it even if she is a good person. Money changes people. Money opens doors. Money gives people options to choose from. She's going to want most of it. There's this entitlement/equality mentality.
Date plenty of women and form friendships. If you see that one sticks around after months of dating, and you didn't provide her much, then you can trust her a bit more. And yeah, she shouldn't have been f*cking around with other guys. Trust her a bit more only if you see stability in performance. I mean, loyalty.
The easiest thing to find these days is the wrong woman. It's never been easier than now!!
The best women are the ones with conservative values yet are interesting enough to have a meaningful conversation with. That's probably less than 5% of all women I met. Forget the ones who need flashy things to be happy. So, women who are able to talk about a lot of stuff, not just what handbag they will buy next.
Humans got sexual, emotional and spiritual needs. If you just hit 2 out of 3 then you're screwed. You need to hit 3 out of 3 to be fulfilled.
Good luck!
Floramargarate
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Quality bumping skills guys.
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me kiss you no worri my dear :*
loukeyzee
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I've been there I did some crazy things for love only to realize I was dealing with a person who somehow didn't match me despite the attraction and bond we had. Things didn't work out, I realized in a way I wasted time & money. However i can't say it was a total waste of time because it was that failure that slapped me in the face, woke me up and has me living with high vibes and motivation to do well for myself and those around me.
Failure is the universe teaching you lessons, it's up to you to evalute them and learn.
To this day I thank the girl who fucked me over because it made who I am becoming.
Mediate, Manifest & Make Money.
Failure is the universe teaching you lessons, it's up to you to evalute them and learn.
To this day I thank the girl who fucked me over because it made who I am becoming.
Mediate, Manifest & Make Money.
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