I've been given a seriously weird job offer....

[Reaver]

So just because he has money, he thinks he can buy a woman and a family? How about you actually set aside the time to meet a quality woman and come to a consensual agreement to have a child/marriage. It's not something "wealth" can buy.

How dare you sir. This man that we can't prove exists has millions of dongs to spend. He has every right to buy a family.

 

[Kuldheep89]

many hypocrites replies....

when it is US, UK or european countries with russian mail bride, vietnamese bride and so ons.... or like matchmakings with filipinos and such... they be like "yeah it okay" no new about it.

but when it is china man wanting to marry white woman (doing consensuallys not forcing she can say no to proposals like op already stating 'and possibly marry the woman too if it is agreeable to both parties.' ) or like INDIA matchmaking or arranged marriage.... "THIS IS HUMAN TRAFFICKINGS!!!! WTF!!!" "WOMEN RIGHTS!!!" "ILLEGAL!!!!"

sads double standards

hypocrites wanting appearing righteous but with own blind prejudices and judgements....

 

[creator09]

Sounds like one of those emails where Nigerian Prince left you 1.000.000.000.000 and all you gotta do is respond to pick it up.

 

[Reaver]

many hypocrites replies....

when it is US, UK or european countries with russian mail bride, vietnamese bride and so ons.... or like matchmakings with filipinos and such... they be like "yeah it okay" no new about it.

but when it is china man wanting to marry white woman (doing consensuallys not forcing she can say no to proposals like op already stating 'and possibly marry the woman too if it is agreeable to both parties.' ) or like INDIA matchmaking or arranged marriage.... "THIS IS HUMAN TRAFFICKINGS!!!! WTF!!!" "WOMEN RIGHTS!!!" "ILLEGAL!!!!"

sads double standards

hypocrites wanting appearing righteous but with own blind prejudices and judgements....

Wtf?

Who said they were OK with mail order brides? No one on this thread even mentioned them, yet you're calling people hypocrites for a viewpoint you can't even confirm they have.

Stop trying to start shit.

 

[Kuldheep89]

'good' comebacks but readers who reading threads with NO BIASES can sees...

helping sleeps at nights~~~

movings on~~~

 

[iModBot]

'good' comebacks but readers who reading threads with NO BIASES can sees...

helping sleeps at nights~~~

movings on~~~

Serious question.

Do you actually read the content you put on BHW before you press "post reply"?

Do you think it helps discussion on the forum, or do you think it just annoys people?

I feel like you are deliberately trying to cause friction here, I'm interested in your opinion of how you see yourself.

Thanks

 

[Kuldheep89]

Serious question.

Do you actually read the content you put on BHW before you press "post reply"?

Do you think it helps discussion on the forum, or do you think it just annoys people?

I feel like you are deliberately trying to cause friction here, I'm interested in your opinion here.

Thanks

hi mod.... no i not causing friction cos this is what op saying... let me bold it to shows

...and possibly marry the woman too if it is agreeable to both parties.
white woman who is interested in being paid to either carry and give birth to a baby for him (in China), or if interested marry and relocate permanently.

isnt this consensuals??? guy from china isnt asking to kidnapping or anything but asking to help seek.... it is like matchmaking, no?

but most replies are hints of racisms... all saying it is trafficking, illegal,and suchs

Plus there is no way in hell I am marrying someone from China.

doesnt this sound offensive??? imagine if i were to saying "there is no way in hell i am marrying someone from US" doesnt that sounds aggressive and uncalling for? user could just say 'i won't be interesteds' instead....

Wtf?

Who said they were OK with mail order brides? No one on this thread even mentioned them, yet you're calling people hypocrites for a viewpoint you can't even confirm they have.

Stop trying to start shit.

cos everyone suddenly all saying this is illegal and suddeny this user start giving sarcasms of 'using millions of dongs' and so on... isnt that insensitives??? they all pointing all this out but no pointing issues like russian brides, mail order brides, surrogating mothers (like asking indian women to helping be surrogates), but they no saying this illegal or anything???

im not trying to create friction dear mod brother... but isnt this like everywhere on internets? examples: blacklivesmatter? muslims saying why western media no publishing terrorist attacks at middle east but only at western countries???

im not trying to cause friciton but pointing the double standards.... it may soudn offensive ,yes, and i sorry but i just cant tolerating the double standards

maybe i not understanding properly of what people saying cos of mine poor english.... or maybe im being oversensitives.... but this is really sads.... if a minorities or newbies make comment similar to this he gets ban and flames.... but if it is prominent race or senior members it is acceptables.... why???

during mine degree course we also do volunteering work as part of university course.... i was helping some lower class villages on health... some women as young as 30 yrs olds surrogates cos they need money cos they poor.... but because the people (from UK) who paying her suddenly last minute dont want the baby... she have to raise baby up herselves.... cos of that poverty and poor and no one want marry her cos she already have child... isnt that sad??? but no one pointing this out as illegal or anythings cos they see us as minorities... imagine if the surrogate mother is UK, US, westerns.... everoyne be like "WTF!!!" "HEARTLESS" "THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES!!!!"

calling me too sensitives or stupid but after volunteering and observing all these... it made me relaly sad of society double standards

 

[Impulse]

hi mod.... no i not causing friction cos this is what op saying... let me bold it to shows



isnt this consensuals??? guy from china isnt asking to kidnapping or anything but asking to help seek.... it is like matchmaking, no?

but most replies are hints of racisms... all saying it is trafficking, illegal,and suchs


doesnt this sound offensive??? imagine if i were to saying "there is no way in hell i am marrying someone from US" doesnt that sounds aggressive and uncalling for? user could just say 'i won't be interesteds' instead....




cos everyone suddenly all saying this is illegal and suddeny this user start giving sarcasms of 'using millions of dongs' and so on... isnt that insensitives??? they all pointing all this out but no pointing issues like russian brides, mail order brides, surrogating mothers (like asking indian women to helping be surrogates), but they no saying this illegal or anything???

im not trying to create friction dear mod brother... but isnt this like everywhere on internets? examples: blacklivesmatter? muslims saying why western media no publishing terrorist attacks at middle east but only at western countries???

im not trying to cause friciton but pointing the double standards.... it may soudn offensive ,yes, and i sorry but i just cant tolerating the double standards

maybe i not understanding properly of what people saying cos of mine poor english.... or maybe im being oversensitives.... but this is really sads.... if a minorities or newbies make comment similar to this he gets ban and flames.... but if it is prominent race or senior members it is acceptables.... why???

I've noticed that since you've joined you have been making numerous posts and threads that were obviously started to bait arguments. You aren't the only person that does that here, in all fairness, but ultimately this seems to be the only thing you are contributing to BHW.

I don't feel like getting into why OP's scenario seems immoral to me (but seriously, why would he be hiring some random person instead of a dating agency if he was being completely legitimate?) but I would hardly say it's fair to call people racist for saying that they think it is similar to trafficking.

Also, your accusation towards @alwaysinvisible is particularly hypocritical, given that you've already been warned for racist remarks. (EDIT: I have removed that part from her post now as it was a bit iffy)

 

[Kuldheep89]

I've noticed that since you've joined you have been making numerous posts and threads that were obviously started to bait arguments. You aren't the only person that does that here, in all fairness, but ultimately this seems to be the only thing you are contributing to BHW.

I don't feel like getting into why OP's scenario seems immoral to me (but seriously, why would he be hiring some random person instead of a dating agency if he was being completely legitimate?) but I would hardly say it's fair to call people racist for saying that they think it is similar to trafficking.

Also, your accusation towards @alwaysinvisible is particularly hypocritical, given that you've already been warned for racist remarks. (EDIT: I have removed that part from her post now as it was a bit iffy)

maybes cos he no want pay agency fees??? and in Asia (INDIA, china, korea, japan, suchs) rely connections more thans strangers... it is fact.... cos they trust own peoples.... that why op say he chinese friend ask him on behalf of businessman... friend > friend > friend

now think of russian brides and suchs (filipinos, asian brides, korean brides, suchs)... they go agency.... these peoples see cataloging of photos of russian girls.... they just pick.... arrange meetings... meet few times then marries.... isnt that the same??? regardlesss both case are consensuals... excepting for china businessman you dont pay agencies

i know SEO issued warnings to me because of photo which i paint a gang member black to presenting her.... but i explains that during that photos post i mentioning that it is jokes and being equals... like in this case... alwaysinvisible post iffy comment as joke but only gets edited off... or neon posting comments that i go feed cows, being microsoft tech support, and harassing me in profile posts.... but me photo with already small disclaimer saying no racism intendeds but get warnings... regardless i accept the warnings cos i respect mod decisions

now if you many peoples always say i only contribute hate... then okay i wil lstay out of lounge and only posts in other sections helping others.... but i will still create threads but no replying or posting in lounge then

im not posting hate but posting from fair view and judgement from all sides.... the only different is i putting minorities and even angry peoples perspectives... i dont know how to putting this correctly cos my english poor

EDIT... maybe the bigs difference is though im newbie i dare speaking up even against vips thats why i now have many enemies and maybe some mods blacklist me... other newbies no speak up thats why they only get bully till they have enough post count to be senior members to be let off... again it comes down to chart i share recently as jokes

guess its true

 

[r3L4x]

Hello, post to my pm, I have 7 dating websites, one of them is Find millionaire, you cannot imagine how much man is getting attention that posting images in luxury car.

You just need to have his pictures, real pictures that is posted in cars or houses, then we will just type in description about what you told here and I will give to him vip, I can say that in 2 weeks he will get his wife.

 

[Impulse]

maybes cos he no want pay agency fees??? and in Asia (INDIA, china, korea, japan, suchs) rely connections more thans strangers... it is fact.... cos they trust own peoples.... that why op say he chinese friend ask him on behalf of businessman... friend > friend > friend

now think of russian brides and suchs (filipinos, asian brides, korean brides, suchs)... they go agency.... these peoples see cataloging of photos of russian girls.... they just pick.... arrange meetings... meet few times then marries.... isnt that the same??? regardlesss both case are consensuals... excepting for china businessman you dont pay agencies

i know SEO issued warnings to me because of photo which i paint a gang member black to presenting her.... but i explains that during that photos post i mentioning that it is jokes and being equals... like in this case... alwaysinvisible post iffy comment as joke but only gets edited off... but me photo with already small disclaimer saying no racism intendeds but get warnings... regardless i accept the warnings cos i respect mod decisions

now if you many peoples always say i only contribute hate... then okay i wil lstay out of lounge and only posts in other sections helping others.... but i will still create threads but no replying or posting in lounge then

im not posting hate but posting from fair view and judgement from all sides.... the only different is i putting minorities and even angry peoples perspectives... i dont know how to putting this correctly cos my english poor

I'm also not saying that you can never post or reply to anything. I'm pointing out that it is against the rules to post inflammatory content that is obviously intended to provoke arguments and flame wars. But it would be appreciated if you thought about what kind of reactions you are attempting to get when you post on the forum. I wouldn't be bothered if it didn't appear to be your only purpose, but that's definitely the impression I'm getting.

 

[iModBot]

maybes cos he no want pay agency fees??? and in Asia (INDIA, china, korea, japan, suchs) rely connections more thans strangers... it is fact.... cos they trust own peoples.... that why op say he chinese friend ask him on behalf of businessman... friend > friend > friend

now think of russian brides and suchs (filipinos, asian brides, korean brides, suchs)... they go agency.... these peoples see cataloging of photos of russian girls.... they just pick.... arrange meetings... meet few times then marries.... isnt that the same??? regardlesss both case are consensuals... excepting for china businessman you dont pay agencies

i know SEO issued warnings to me because of photo which i paint a gang member black to presenting her.... but i explains that during that photos post i mentioning that it is jokes and being equals... like in this case... alwaysinvisible post iffy comment as joke but only gets edited off... or neon posting comments that i go feed cows, being microsoft tech support, and harassing me in profile posts.... but me photo with already small disclaimer saying no racism intendeds but get warnings... regardless i accept the warnings cos i respect mod decisions

now if you many peoples always say i only contribute hate... then okay i wil lstay out of lounge and only posts in other sections helping others.... but i will still create threads but no replying or posting in lounge then

im not posting hate but posting from fair view and judgement from all sides.... the only different is i putting minorities and even angry peoples perspectives... i dont know how to putting this correctly cos my english poor

EDIT... maybe the bigs difference is though im newbie i dare speaking up even against vips thats why i now have many enemies and maybe some mods blacklist me... other newbies no speak up thats why they only get bully till they have enough post count to be senior members to be let off

You did report a post this week for racism because a member of the forum said they don't like the way India play cricket.

Your conduct on the forum is a bit strange. You seem to be very happy to dish it out to people but as soon as they answer back you cannot handle it.

If you really want to stay on here I think you will benefit a lot from reading more and posting less until you fully understand the culture and vibe of the forum.

 

[Kuldheep89]

I'm also not saying that you can never post or reply to anything. I'm pointing out that it is against the rules to post inflammatory content that is obviously intended to provoke arguments and flame wars. But it would be appreciated if you thought about what kind of reactions you are attempting to get when you post on the forum. I wouldn't be bothered if it didn't appear to be your only purpose, but that's definitely the impression I'm getting.

You did report a post this week because a member of the forum said they don't like the way India play cricket.

Your conduct on the forum is a bit strange. You seem to be very happy to dish it out to people but as soon as they answer back you cannot handle it.

If you really want to stay on here I think you will benefit a lot from reading more and posting less until you fully understand the culture and vibe of the forum.

okay... i understands... sorry mods... didnt want to waste your times about my posts....

okay i will stop fast posting... like i told i know seo mod... i will think before posting.... this time not even reply that will making quarrels...

sorry again

 

[Mrkoco]

Hahaha...... Really had a nice time reading through this mess!!

 

[William McCall]

do not do it !!

 

[maamli92]

Oh guys like that do exist... but do cross check if he is legit
if he is, the are many millionaire matchmakers working across the industry... try to match him with some of them and take your cut. I would do that

 

[Reaver]

Theoretically he may not exist but who cares? That doesn't undermine the derogatory ACTIONS of buying a family. Technically, he can do whatever he wants but that doesn't mean eyebrows won't be raised when something as serious as this is put into a "sex trafficking" perspective. Don't hound people for providing their opinion. You don't have to agree with me but don't try and undermine my opinion. Obviously, people are going to do what they want with their money. It doesn't make it "justified" or "legal."

First off, calm down. My post was 200% sarcasm. So get off your soap box.

Second of all we're talking about an entirely differemt culture. As many people have commented in this thread, this is normal to them. You may think it's wrong but they don't see anything wrong with it.

Third, this is a consensual relationship. It was explicitly stated in the OP. It is no different than someone marrying someone else strictly for money. That happens all the time.

It may be wrong of him to buy a family but isn't it equally wrong for a consenting adult to allow themselves to be bought in exchange for wealth? Or is it OK for the consenting adult bc they're consenting so who gives a fuck?

 

[Nickel]

Well, as long as it's legal why not ?

Yes of course it is 100% legal..nothing this guy is asking for is even remotely illicit but seems a lot of people are confused on that point.
As for the "why not"...I don't want anything on my conscience if something goes wrong.

...... I'm a pretty open minded, non-judgmental person, but that's just straight up lazy. Go meet a woman the way you're supposed to. P.S. This sounds like sex trafficking and it is highly illegal.

Do you understand what sex trafficking is? Human (sex) trafficking is slavery..kidnapping, use of force or coercion upon an individual..it is a heinous and violent crime and nobody here is even remotely suggesting/condoning such a hideous thing.
As for being non-judgmental..you can't have it both ways. "It's just lazy"...and, "the way you're supposed to" are your own moral judgments. It's ok to have them..I share your sentiments too in terms of my own preferences but projecting upon others and holding them to our standards is something we should learn to avoid. Where two consenting adults are engaged in activity that hurts no one else..what exactly have they done wrong?

 

[terrycody]

TerryCody, thanks for this reply brother..yes I have Chinese friends and they are great. I really admire Asian cultures despite the rough relations of our respective gov.'s sometimes.
My friend is trustworthy and a good fellow, and he told me basically the exact same thing you have said. His friend spends all his time making money and knows nothing about social hook-up platforms or marriage services. He only speaks Chinese and I think that is also part of his concern that he could not navigate these waters without some help from somebody comfortable with western culture to aid him.
My friend also speaks English so he offers to act as an intermediary if this thing proceeds.

It is true that cross-culture barriers are tough to overcome but it seems to me like this is more of an arrangement of convenience than a shot at a loving relationship.
The rich businessman gets his son-daughter he wants and possibly a wife who he lavishes money on for the exchange of, *ahem ..."wifely duties" from time to time. I think a lot of extremely wealthy people end up in relationships like this where they have the trophy wife on the arm, and the wife usually happy as long as the Platinum card is working. Far be it from me to judge this.
In terms of some Russia/Ukrainian women, this sort of offer might even be viewed as a dream come true...and for him it might be as well. It's this idea which keeps me thinking about this weird job offer.

Yeah, exactly like you said bro, nevermind a lot of trolling in this thread, I still think this offer is doable, like you said, you find the girl, the girl who want the money or if she even want to marry with a Chinese rich man, thats cool bonus right?

The real barriar here is language, if this girl can speak Chinese, WOW, then perfect, but hard to find, because who can speak Chinese are those foreign students or teachers and in a normal case, they may like to find her own man not arranged by others like this.

All in all, a tough task, hope you can find one for him lol.

if any help I can do for you, just PM me

terry

 

[affiliate world champ]

It is one of the way some makes money in Ukraine, Belarus and Russia.
Someone who is pretty talkative starts to drink with a foreigner and after some time/shots find some some girls in the club to join the party
Some of that guys are not Pimps and girls are not prostitutes - they are really random girls.
So you worth help your Chinese friend - earn some easy money and invest in your dream startup