Hi Guys/Gals I could use some advice/input on this. A friend of mine came to me a couple days ago with a job offer that is a bit out of the ordinary. In fact it's definitely a weird deal...or maybe not..I dunno. This friend of mine is from Bejiing China and I have know him for 2 years, he is a good and trustworthy guy so I know he is not pulling my leg about this.. He tells me he has a friend (also in Bejiing), who is a multi-multi-multi millionare type and wants to find a female to have a baby with..or she has his baby for him I guess is the idea. He is a 50 year old male businessman and his primary goal is to have mixed race baby...and possibly marry the woman too if it is agreeable to both parties. Right off the bat I think.."why do you need me for this?" and start suggesting our Romeo simply hit up the online dating places and do this himself. Well...it seems this guy is supremely wealthy and would just like to hire somebody to bring forth the prospects so he can choose...and he is willing to pay handsomely for this ..shall we say customized service. The only specifications he has is that she be a "white woman" and I guess that is where I entered into he picture.... since I am an american guy they presume I will have some ladies I can go ask for this sort of thing(?...LoL). By "white" I'm told that means she can be American, European, Russian Romanian, Ukranian etc. any type of white woman who is interested in being paid to either carry and give birth to a baby for him (in China), or if interested marry and relocate permanently. My friend assures me this person is not a weirdo of any sort and is a very decent person but just doesn't know how to go about setting this sort of thing up for himself. They have even now sent pictures of the fellow to me and wanting to know what my fee would be to play matchmaker to this scenario. So the past two days I am thinking all about this. I know to some this must sound just horrible and despicably sexist...some rich guy looking to buy a woman like he buys a sports car etc...and I do share some of those sentiments.. On the other hand this guy maybe is just approaching this arrangement like a business deal since his whole life is entirely business oriented and socially he knows no better way. Thousands of online sites act in a similar fashion, brokering marriage arrangements every day and since both parties are happy with the outcome it is a win+win situation for everybody involved. Whatever the case, I am having to decide if I accept this proposal to act as matchmaker in this or not. If I accept I will no doubt make a nice bit of money, but this is much more than just an easy payday in terms of my responsibility. Any possibility that the woman in this arrangement could be mistreated/trapped/abused/tricked etc. is absolutely worrisome to me and I would consider it my full responsibility. I would have to be personally involved on a level including legal contracts/travel arrangements etc. in this to assure no such thing could possibly occur. At this point i just don't know what I should do. It's a dilemma for sure. Best case scenario, I unite two people who give each other what each wants (for him a baby and possible wife, for her-money and life of luxury..possibly a good husband). Worst case scenario...? Any suggestions...opinions?...advice? What would you do in my position?