@illfounded21
I have to agree with you on this.
It is
very frustrating to witness people having double standards in real life, as well as on an online forum.
However ironic it may seem (that the 2 members whom you highlighted) have appeared
to change their attitudes within a day or so, it is life....
Sooner or later, the truth always comes out, and to be honest, you or I or anyone for that matter cannot change that.
We can ask them to re-examine their own conscience, thats all, the rest is up to them.
As they mature, I am sure they will stand up to their principles and convictions,
but to appear as if they are "above all else" and what I call "shadow bullying" - (a bit like cyber bullying)
they are the ones to be pitied, not the victims as such.
It takes a brave victim to admit that they have been bullied in the first place,
and courageous of them to stand up and say "it is wrong", but alas,
ultimately it is the bullies that need to change their attitudes and convictions. Trust me.
I have also read several posts from the 2 members concerned, and I agree they have been good contributors on the whole.
It is just a pity that the alpha male in them drove them to post as they did in that other thread,
and become almost hypocritical now.
In conclusion, I think that it is better for all to come to some form of "agree to disagree",
since quite often when cultures clash, it is the oppressed ones who try to have the louder voice,
until they come to their senses and chill a little.
We will then ALL be able to move forwards, together in harmony, and with a common goal.
Thanks for highlighting this apparent U turn by the 2 honourable members, and I guess I will finish
this little rant by using the title of an old song.....
"What a Difference A Day Makes"
edit: apologies to the OP, although appearing a little off topic, it needs to be said though due to its relevance.
thanks for your understanding