Women

My most recent foray into relationships is best characterised by Billy Joel's "Uptown Girl". She couldn't handle Downtown and went back to the gated community from which her dragon ass lurked in the first place!

"Uptown Girl"

Billy Joel.

"Uptown girl
Shes been living in her uptown world
I bet she never had a back street guy
I bet her mama never told her why

Im gonna try for an uptown girl

Shes been living in her white bread world
As long as anyone with hot blood can
And now shes looking for a downtown man
Thats what I am

And when she knows what
She wants from her time
And when she wakes up
And makes up her mind

Shell see Im not so tough

Just because

Im in love with an uptown girl
You know Ive seen her in her uptown world
Shes getting tired of her high class toys
And all her presents from her uptown boys
Shes got a choice

Uptown girl

You know I cant afford to buy her pearls
But maybe someday when my ship comes in
Shell understand what kind of guy Ive been
And then Ill win

And when shes walking
Shes looking so fine
And when shes talking
Shell say that shes mine

Shell say Im not so tough
Just because
Im in love
With and uptown girl

Shes been living in her white bread world
As long as anyone with hot blood can
And now shes looking for a downtown man
Thats what I am

Uptown girl

Shes my uptown girl
You know Im in love
With an uptown girl

My uptown girl

Dont you know Im in love
With an uptown girl
My uptown girl
Dont you know Im in love
With an uptown girl
My uptown girl"
 
They DO want a nice guy, but they don't want a doormat. They are constantly testing for this and other things and it's a constant unconscious process that goes back to the dawn of man.

The typical nice guy puts her on a pedestal just for her looks and she knows this. She KNOWS that every thing she says isn't witty, funny, intelligent or whatever...but the nice guy will still kiss up to her and tell her what he thinks she wants to hear.

She cannot respect this guy. If you supplicate, you masturbate. You CAN be nice, but you still have to be a leader. When she tests to see what she can get away with, you have to make it clear that you have a line and if she crosses it, you're gone. There's plenty of other fish in the sea. This makes you a challenge and higher on the totem pole.

Being nice is not about buying her affection with gifts and dinners and telling her everything that's great about her (which is mostly in your own head)...she's heard it all a million times. There's a lot of nice guys saying the same thing.

So take her off the pedestal and don't be afraid to speak your mind instead of trying to say what you think she wants to hear.


that is true, but you cant always speak your mind how you want to. if you just go blurting shit out about everything you don't like about her she is going to label you a dick and your going to be out the door.
 
As much as I hate to agree with uptown, were pretty much in the same boat. The bit about the crazy women?
All me man.
I've stayed away from the womyn folk for a good 5 months now (with *cough* erm exceptions of course..) But nothing serious.

All those bitchfits and physcotic fits can really interrupt a mans work.
 
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