I've been thinking about this.. what are the advantages to being nice? Except for you will be remembered as a "Care bear". When you're nice the only reward you earn is women now know they can walk on you OR they'll be too scared to hurt your feelings since you're a "nice" guy. I guess the truth is.. Assholes are the only people who get shit done.. I don't think anyone will truly ever understand women.. they all say they want " a nice sweet guy who will sweep them off their " blah blah blah.. but is any of that true? Are women just too scared to give nice guys a chance because they'll hurt them, or is it because they think of every nice guy in the world as their "brother" or "best friend", and even if a nice guy gets the chance to end up "talking" to a girl, they will end up being left for some one else always.. only when women have been hurt to the point that they don't trust anyone then they want that "nice" guy.. but then the nice guys have been screwed over so many times by them they don't want them anymore. I used to be one of those "nice" guys who tried to be romantic, sweet, nice, caring, blah blah blah.. every girl I met either A: Stopped talking to me for no reason at all and I never heard from them again for reasons unknown B: Left for some other dude they just met. I stopped the "nice guy" bs a long time ago though.. So I ask this.. does anyone truly understand women.. does anyone know exactly what they want? I'm curious to see the responses to "Understanding Women". Hell, that could even make a good e-book, "Understanding Women".