Why are people following & copying me!

You know you're doing it right when people start to talk shit about you.

People feel like they can't achieve as much as you...
So what can they do about it?
Try to bring you down to their level.

In other words...


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i have personally experience this and i also observe some of this cases, i can tell you that it can start with something sooooooo small of yourself that you won't personally notice, in which make other people crazy about.

You should spend some of your time, talk to some of your very very closed friend, i guess you will find the answer. ;)

Good luck
Peter
 
Thanks for everyones post, feel much better for venting

and to aashish_1792 - Please stay tuned for my 100th post thread.. ahaha

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In my view people are just evil,wicked and selfish. You know its the few people like you who do good keep the world turning. Iv seen your situation many times, and am like D@mn! whats is it with people nowadays.
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5bnC8-s7Uw < - - Might give you some motivation and understanding.

People will always watch what you do and watch your wallet. It's just human nature, unfortunately. It's built into us instinctively because it all comes down to 'survival of the fittest'. As cynical as it sounds, we're all trying to out do each other. So when someone feels like you have the magic pill or the formula to success, they'll want to know how you did it.

Best advice I could give you is surround yourself with successful people and upgrade your company. These people will be more likely to be happy for you and support you because you're all on the same level. When you are the most successful person out of all your friends, it can spark jealousy and resentment.

It's just the game homie. Don't take it too personally. Be happy for your success and don't worry about what other people think or do. Focus on you and let your success kill em. And if they really push, then you'll need to push back.
 
Sounds like you have two of the common problems.....you live in a small town....everybody knows everyone's business. Like most people who have achieved some success your beginning to attract what I like to call energy vampires....your success generates a positive energy around you and like moths to a flame it attracts those who desire to drain, corrupt or destroy that energy. You will have to learn to recognize these people and kick them out of your life as soon as possible. As far as helping people.......you have to do that, it's a key component to long term success. But helping people does have it's downside....which you have experienced.....as the saying goes....No Good Deed Goes Unpunished.

You may have to move to find some peace, and if you do, you need to think of a good story about what you do for a living.....struggling writer, online trader, accountant,programmer, ect. keep it boring and make it sound like lots of work for a paycheck.
 
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the real question is... why aren't you charging them for your info?!? :D
if people/losers are hanging around and scrounging for help, then i would
give it to them.

for a price!
 
OP you should move out of the town. Helping people is nice, but you have to make it in an indirect way. Answering to their questions will only destroy you. Build a charity, orphanage, give people some jobs, but don't take your time and talk to them, especially one by one. Keep the close friends and be always busy for the others. It's so simple.
 
Thats the typical behavior who are unable to act and think themself.So you can say its a typical behavior for the majority
 
It's the same way with my methods of making money. A lot of people see what I do, and bombard me trying to do the same. If people are going to that extent, trying to break into your apartment and tampering with your mail, call the police.
 
So.... How did you do it? Kidding, of course. "Give a man a fish and he will become dependent on you for food. Teach a man to fish and he will become dependent on you for bait."
 
Just move to other place, find place where people have the same level as you. :) Anyway in that way they will never see success
 
Take it from someone who is probably old enough to be your mother. Zip your lip. You're probably talking too much. I see it happen on this board too where people talk about their income. Money matters should be personal. It's no one's business. Also, don't ever come off as a show off. Stay humble.
 
+1 for red.

Also I'd move, these people will only drag you down to their level, you need to move up the chain so to speak.
 
I grew up in a big city in America where you're lucky to know your next door neighbor, which is also bad. But this is really foreign to me, not sure how I would react, crazy that people get that much into your business.
 
MP123 said:
I really, really don't mean to sound big headed or a know it all or even a show off.. because if you know me, I am far from that. I am now starting to think maybe I can at times be too good for my own good.

A small target of mine was to help a couple of people build up and earn some money, however, it worked and locally I have helped a couple of people sort their life out and help them put food on their table and pay their bills...

All good, right?? Well it was...

but now here is what happening..

i cant seem to pass wind, without someone analysing "how I am doing that"

I am getting people copying me..

I am getting people hanging around my house and talk when I come out..

I get people who seem to think they know me through others I passively speak too..

still all good right??

NO!

I have had someone recently trying to break into my apartment.

I have had people tamper with my mail.

I have had people trash talk me now I am doing ok..

I have people just making up plain old bullshit..

I have a lot of people who seem to be getting crazy jealous..


what i dont get. Is why when you try to do something right, that you get all this hassle?


I just don't understand it.. I try to help, now all of a sudden I feel like wtf... and why are people like this?

I found when I was struggling and going through problems, my life seemed somewhat easier in a strange bizarre way.

Sorry just needed to vent, as all stuff I learnt was all from here or started one way or another here.. so just dont get all this jealousy, messed up people.
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sounds like you live in the ghetto, time to move to a better area if your are financially successful.
 
If you're worrying about people copying you, then you haven't mastered your skill.
 
redrubies said:
Also, don't ever come off as a show off. Stay humble.
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Keyword here "stay humble". I love people that have it all but are yet humble. People who are show offs usually don't have shit. Or they have it all but their life is still shit. I hate show offs. And I strive to never be one in my life. Bunch of punks.
 
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