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Why are people following & copying me!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by MP123, Aug 13, 2013.

  1. MP123

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    I really, really don't mean to sound big headed or a know it all or even a show off.. because if you know me, I am far from that. I am now starting to think maybe I can at times be too good for my own good.

    A small target of mine was to help a couple of people build up and earn some money, however, it worked and locally I have helped a couple of people sort their life out and help them put food on their table and pay their bills...

    All good, right?? Well it was...

    but now here is what happening..

    i cant seem to pass wind, without someone analysing "how I am doing that"

    I am getting people copying me..

    I am getting people hanging around my house and talk when I come out..

    I get people who seem to think they know me through others I passively speak too..

    still all good right??

    NO!

    I have had someone recently trying to break into my apartment.

    I have had people tamper with my mail.

    I have had people trash talk me now I am doing ok..

    I have people just making up plain old bullshit..

    I have a lot of people who seem to be getting crazy jealous..


    what i dont get. Is why when you try to do something right, that you get all this hassle?


    I just don't understand it.. I try to help, now all of a sudden I feel like wtf... and why are people like this?

    I found when I was struggling and going through problems, my life seemed somewhat easier in a strange bizarre way.

    Sorry just needed to vent, as all stuff I learnt was all from here or started one way or another here.. so just dont get all this jealousy, messed up people.
     
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    Do you experience similar?? I have never seen such mixed behavior from people.
     
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    You probably don't know the value of what you have got, maybe because you are used to having them around. You have something people love/crave to have, it's natural when you are in possession of valuables.
     
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    I think you forgot to take your pill this morning
     
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    ba dum tssss

    & left you a + thanks.. so i really must have forgot to take my pills this morning :)
     
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    When you are successful, it is natural for people to like and follow you;
    but also, there are people who (for whatever reason) get spiteful and jealous etc...

    This is real Life.
    Some people believe in Karma, so my suggestion is to keep doing all things right,
    and DO THE RIGHT THINGS,
    and you will notice that things will only get better,
    and you will be in a much happier and contented place as result :)
     
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    Sounds like a typical day in my little shite town in the UK.
     
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    Sounds far fetched TBH, I know from experience that success attracts a lot of fake people towards you. Especially when you're frivolous with money, like buying people food and drink and stuff... but nothing like that lol.
     
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    Thanks for that, I've even thought about moving, as I feel like people are just needing to much. I thought it was genuine conversation at first but the more I saw they where just probing me for info and not really caring for me or my family..
     
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    I'm in a typical little northern village mate... everyone goes to same pub, same school.. I a moved here, but have family not to far away.. but I can't cope with how invasive and how they are in each others business 24/7 ...
     
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    I guess it also depends where you live. If you live in a rather poor country and you're making a couple of 1000 dollars a month, people want to know how you do it. They are desperate and would do anything for that amount of money. Or people are jealous because they see you are home all day and they go to their shitty job every day and can't stand it,...
    It all comes down to jealousy and the only way to avoid it is to not show your "wealth" or you should move to another area where the average income is closer to what you are earning. Money brings greed, jealousy, vultures.
    It's great that you're succesful, but the more succesful you get, the more people who want stuff from you and want a piece of the pie.
    I've seen this stuff before, maybe not to that level, but still... The only people who know how much I earn are me and my accountant. My girlfriend and parents know the "ballpark figure" but no specifics
     
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    One of the reasons I spend as little time in the UK as I need to.
     
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    I can well and truly understand why mate, the country side looks beautiful on the internet and the price amazing for what your getting. However, you now see why, absolute morons..

    residing anywhere nice these days ? since leaving this *ahem* "beautiful country"
     
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    I don't tell people, and the less I tell, the more it makes them curious... my mail box is on outdoors of apartment block.. someone ripped open mail box and stole my mail. police where called but where bloody useless.. does my head in.. all this because they cant get a "slice of the action" and want to be spoon fed info on my buisness.
     
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    The thing with the UK is the idiots, the morons who have nothing to do other than talk about others, the people who have no life so try to latch on to others, the scroungers, the dregs all seriously out weigh the normal people. So the problem seems to be, you are never a couple of feet away from a fucking moron, unless you live in the middle of a field in the middle of nowhere.
     
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    Also have the local waterboys walking around like they own the place in there tight vests :/
     
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    enjoy the attention you are getting
     
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    Exactly down to a tee on how it is around here. I just dont get why they are like this.. my family who live in leicester, tell me that they are "village minded" and I have to agree..

    they seem out of control idiots.
     
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    it's not about attention at all mate. It's got me annoyed that people can be like this.