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What would you do? Live for free or Work?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Sonokai, Jul 8, 2012.

  1. Sonokai

    Sonokai BANNED BANNED

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    I have a girl who I can live with for the rest of my life, and I wouldn't have to work at all. All I would have to do is cook dinner and keep the house clean. Would you do it?
     
  2. Justenzy

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    Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........
    Yes.
     
  3. steelballs

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    Get rid of the girl and go to work because she will heave you out sooner or later!

    They are all the same!
     
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  4. thetraveller

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    Run away (from her) as you still can. This ain't seems right.
     
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  5. IMekYuLoff

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    i wouldnt take advantage of it. she may have money but she also probably feels like she NEEDS to work to support you too. i work and support my girl but it sucks cause the fact she doesnt work, i CANT call out of work, i CANT take a rest.. she may feel the same way. dont get too comfortable id say lol. unless she truly doesnt mind it, but then u rly cant get lazy, make sure u bend over backwards for her lol cause its easier to cook for her than what most men wud lol. thats kick ass tho man
     
  6. IMekYuLoff

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    i might add that if she ever does leave u ur fked without a safety net lol. get a job and have her still pay the bills and just bank everything u make so if she leaves u u have enuff in the bank to live for a couple months without her lol
     
  7. shadowmk

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    just work, and nothing is better than working , and making $$$
     
  8. panarasgr

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    if you are a real blackhatter , you know what to do :)

    have fun as long as you can and then move on.
     
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  9. KingMonkey

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    Working is one of the least fun things ever. It gets in the way of all the enjoyable things in life.
     
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  10. IMekYuLoff

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    Ill second that. However when i was unemployed, i got lazy and ended up wanting to work. now that im working i dont want to. if u have money and dont have to work, and u live a good life and actually do things, thats fun. if u dont work and just sit at home on the couch all day all week all year round, it gets a bit boring. hitting the lotto and taking vacations and going places wud be nice tho
     
  11. ookami007

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    I have to admit... if I won the lottery tomorrow and had like $50 million, I'd probably invest a good amount - stock market, rental properties, etc. - but I think I'd start my own gaming company and create games - now, obviously that's "work"... but it would be work I'd enjoy, so it would be like play...

    I think that's the best kind of work... when you're doing something you love. Unlike bumming around, it actually tends to give you a sense of purpose and fulfillment.
     
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    I don't like to profit at the costs of my girlfriend.
     
  13. Ampeloi

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    All you have to do is cook dinner and clean the house? Are these her terms? She said this to you? This is about power. Never give or surrender your power to any other person. Ask yourself... Why is this tempting? Why is this tempting now in your life? Why is she offering this? Many women do not know what they want. Their mindset is that they are a 'Princess'. Maybe your are the shiny new toy? Flavor of the week? Nothing worthwhile comes easy in life. Have your fun, but remove all attachments. Play her game. She really loves and cares for you? Hey. your an IM'er. Leave for one month to another country or state. See if she writes and calls. LOL. Do not play the fool. Never be submissive to a woman. They will eat you for breakfast and crap you out for lunch.
     
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  14. krishnaverma

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    You asked this question, it just means you are confused. See, it will be hard to give a balanced opinion without knowing about you and the girl. But if I was at your place, I would have left the girl.
     
  15. gingerbuzz

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    Firstly NEWSFLASH, keeping house is work and if you dont understand that you are in for a rude awakening. To put it in terms guys can understand you have to think of it as a hotel - you need routines, systems budgets and menus if you dont get your cleaning organised your hotel is dirty and smelly, without menus food and budget planning then you are quickly in financial trouble. Same with your house.

    SECONDLY: if a woman with money is asking you to live with her its about LOVE and not power. if she wanted power she would marry a financial equal or superior.

    LOVE and SUPPORT are what she wants from you and if you dont do a good job at keeping the home as a sanctuary or providing meals that are special then you wont last too long in the relationship as you will have failed keeping your side of the bargain.
    clean house, good food, someone to listen to her when she comes in and sex are whats required - if you dont deliver the story will be over.

    What are the problems for you - lack of self respect. It will bother you that she pays all the time and you will feel embarrassed telling your friends you dont work. when the waiter gives you the bill and you pass it to her, that will wear you down.
    Solution: Agree a household budget that includes money for entertainment to cover you both so that when you go out you have the funds to pay.

    Some people have no work/financial ambition and are quite happy knowing that if they do a good job as a lover, housekeeper, that is enough for them. Is it enough for you? I suspect not as youre worried about what people think, so
    Get one of the following:
    A time consuming hobby eg golf
    A part time job
    A baby
    Everyone needs a purpose if being a great lover/housekeeper is not yours then you need to find something that is.

    In conclusion, your girlfriend loves you and wants you to help her she probably thinks she is also helping you. Question is how much do you love her? Is it enough to move in and commit completely?
     
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  16. Duffers5000

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    Do the cooking and cleaning ?? Get into that arrangement and your dick will shrivel up and fall off and theres a good chance you will grow a pair of tits ! A woman helping towards the bill can take a bit of pressure off but get out there and paddle your own canoe.
     
  17. partymarty4870

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    I can't beleive no-one has asked for more info - is she hot, is she fat, whats she like in bed, could she suck a golf ball through a garden hose?

    We need this kinda info to give you a proper answer.
     
  18. rugbyjack2005

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    Surely it depends on whether you want to be a bum or not. It would be great for a month and then it would get very boring no matter how hot she was.
     
  19. bigkapp

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    ^^^ True story . Me personally I can't live with out working or having some kind of plan to better myself for the future . So you just plan on cooking and cleaning her shit for the rest of your life? Good luck with that .
     
  20. williamk

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    Enjoy her and when it seems she will betray you, move on. And dont forget to earn your own money.