What do you do, when you are not working / for relax

Hello everybody,

Live strict life is not effective at all, I need to relax from time to time, get a new energy.
The problem is, I cutted almost everything: sleep, girlfriend, friends, family... Few years ago, I felt into depression a little bit because of that. (Doesn't matter I feel good now) I just don't know what to do, I realized I cannot work all day straight.
When I know I did good amount of work so I can relax for rest of the day. I just don't know how, I don't enjoy movies at all. Games too (because I know how game psychology works).
Girlfriend? - No, I don't need to care about someone's else emotions in this phase of life.
Friends? - I don't know, I prefer to be alone than be with people not like me, I am very picky / strict (not cocky).
Sports? I do exercise - But for discipline mostly.

I didn't even know how to answer question on interview- "What are your hobbies"- "Like what the F you mean, I work".

Have you ever go trough same?

Apologize for grammar.

This is quite sad to be honest.
Work is a means to an end, we work to get money to buy food and survive. Work does not make us who we are. Most people would prefer not to work if they could.
One of these days you're going to try to talk to a woman and you will bore her to tears because you have no charm, no hobbies, just money. She will use you like a trophy and maybe you'll use her like a trophy. There will be no connection, no humanity, no "soul".

I don't know your circumstances, maybe you have to work this hard just to survive but it's very backwards. I would rather have free time to let my mind wander, write stories, read news, post on forums, etc. This is the interesting part of life, to expand the mind, have discussions, laugh with other people. Not grow dollars in a bank account... more money just ensures your short time here on earth is more comfortable, but no one really needs money.

Sharegrams said:

This is quite sad to be honest.
Work is a means to an end, we work to get money to buy food and survive. Work does not make us who we are. Most people would prefer not to work if they could.
One of these days you're going to try to talk to a woman and you will bore her to tears because you have no charm, no hobbies, just money. She will use you like a trophy and maybe you'll use her like a trophy. There will be no connection, no humanity, no "soul".

I don't know your circumstances, maybe you have to work this hard just to survive but it's very backwards. I would rather have free time to let my mind wander, write stories, read news, post on forums, etc. This is the interesting part of life, to expand the mind, have discussions, laugh with other people. Not grow dollars in a bank account... more money just ensures your short time here on earth is more comfortable, but no one really needs money.

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I understand, I do have a charm ( a lot :-D , ladies in gym always smile at me and so on ) I have interesting personality, in work I am doing good with everybody.
It's not about the dollars than goals, I imagine my life in 5 years to be in some nice car with really interesting friends, laughing and all that stuff. I am not asocial.

I just think time in this phase of life is supposed to be invested not spended . If you know what I mean. I want accomplish my goal as soon as possible, whatever it takes.

I am just young (22) but I always was in forward. Most of young people like this are demotivated or stupid :-D or don't care about goals yet (it's okay, I don't care, it's their life)

I think the opposite, the work defines who we are - it takes most part of your life. I like to work hard, I feel pretty good about that.

its normal cycle of life. phases of being alone. phases of living it up.
it's normal to feel as you do. being so young. and your so-called peers are caught up in doing stupid shit.
but onto the main topic. when work isn't on the agenda. i open a bottle of vokda with some friends who work in different fields of study, and simply chat.
outside of that i'm on the computer all day, working, studying, researching, learning, chatting online. seems as a foreign subject to most. but i'll be the first to tell you; you're on the right path.