What can you do to win someone over?

Talking to the OP.

Well you better be talking to me because if some of this guys other recent posts are anything to go by, if you were talking to him he would break into your house at the dead of night with 12 guys and try to rape you in your sleep smh

sorry i saw you needed assistance - WITCH HUNT. there you go
my work here is done lol eish

Thanks. Also, what's with the empty box avatar? Does that represent your head or your personality?
 
i have more remaining personality in the 2 remaining hairs on my
bald head than some one such as you will ever have.

looking forward to your next thread on how to use a condom
as a shopping bag or something like that.
see im even giving you ideas.

anyways im bored so gonna go play some ps4 - have fun being
sad, alone, annoying while im gone.
 
i have more remaining personality in the 2 remaining hairs on my
bald head than some one such as you will ever have.

looking forward to your next thread on how to use a condom
as a shopping bag or something like that.
see im even giving you ideas.

anyways im bored so gonna go play some ps4 - have fun being
sad, alone, annoying while im gone.

Haha. OK you keep telling yourself that. What did you say before, you're 50? If your idea of a good personality is trying to flame someone like 36 years younger than you for no good reason and playing video games when you get bored of it, then what can I do except take that as a compliment.

I thought you were a bully and now you're laughing about attacking someone in a big group when they were sleeping with bats and knives. I guess I was right! Some kind of creepy, sadistic coward.
 
There's this guy in my school who hates me for no reason. We have lots mutuall friends but I can tell whenever i'm about he'll be all offish. I had a party, well more of a small gathering of friends last week and I asked our friend to call him over. We were just playing ps4 to celebrate and talk about the ps5 launch and I think he was only there for that tbh but he tried talking to me with the fakest smile but everytime i turned my back i could see mean mugging me i caught him in a window reflection.

Now I don't know what to say. I said I hope you are free to come over for the weekend again and he said him and two of those other guys we are friends with are going swimming and I asked if I could come and didn't get a reply. Now one of those guys messaged me and said that they cancelled their plans with him and that he says stuff about me behind my back like i'm a smartass or think i'm better than everyone and they don't want him there.

Now I get a message where he's saying if i can come over.

Now what should I say? I don't want to be enemys with this guy. He seems ok

How can I be diplomatic here.

This probably isn’t the response you want, but your options are to ask him why he has an issue with you, or just ignore him and state why whenever it comes up.

People rarely act like that with someone for no reason, so he’s either jealous of you in some way, you did something unknowingly, or he thinks you did something.

Communication should solve this. If he’s just telling people that you’re a smart ass and blah blah, I wouldn’t even bother caring for his friendship. That’s my personality though.

Good luck!
 
This probably isn’t the response you want, but your options are to ask him why he has an issue with you, or just ignore him and state why whenever it comes up.

People rarely act like that with someone for no reason, so he’s either jealous of you in some way, you did something unknowingly, or he thinks you did something.

Communication should solve this. If he’s just telling people that you’re a smart ass and blah blah, I wouldn’t even bother caring for his friendship. That’s my personality though.

Good luck!

Thanks that was appreciated. I agree communication is key to help resolve problems in any friendship. I just like the guy you know and his sister seems decent too. He's a sensitive soul though but maybe I accidentally offended him somehow, I don't know. I managed to convince my friends to call him over and one of them think i'm really great for it and the other one can't believe it. I will ultimately ask him what's up if I get five minutes alone. Hopefully i'll get to the bottom of it.
 
Thanks that was appreciated. I agree communication is key to help resolve problems in any friendship. I just like the guy you know and his sister seems decent too. He's a sensitive soul though but maybe I accidentally offended him somehow, I don't know. I managed to convince my friends to call him over and one of them think i'm really great for it and the other one can't believe it. I will ultimately ask him what's up if I get five minutes alone. Hopefully i'll get to the bottom of it.
Why wait to be alone? When everyone is over, say “hey, can I talk to you for a minute,” and take him outside.

You’re not going to win everyone over in life tho. Personally, Id file this under “screw this guy” and keep it moving, but to each their own. Good luck.
 
Talk to him about this personally. Try to make him comfortable first
 
How does that make me a keyboard warrior lol You sound like a total hick

Because it's easier for you to lash out than form a constructive argument it's why you ignored all my replies in the Joe Rogan thread as a typical child you are - your sticking your nose into a subject that you don't totally understand. The same as you are doing here now, you can't form an argument because you don't know how to and you simply don't understand.

It's OK maybe your balls have't dropped low enough yet or it's a case of your left tit is a bit behind the right one so you feel out of shape it's alright we get it your a kid with access to the internet.

You can lash out at people on a forum or in real like kid you can do what you want but there will be someone around the corner to show you how life works. It's easy to type names and call people this and that on a forum but you clearly can't even cope with a real world situation where someone doesn't like you, so it speaks volumes on how you would act in person you can't deal with the simplest of social issues.

IF your online personality is anything like your real world* one then I'm not surprised the other person doesn't like you. I don't even know you and I don't like you.

*BUT again I'm going to assume your some quiet kid who does what mum n dad says and it's easier to run a persona on a forum and with a bunch of your friends that makes you come over like a total cock. Other wise you wouldn't be here opening a thread asking to get someone to like me when most of the adults here are just like WTF are you on about.

Life lesson you can either listen to me or go and learn it the hard way:

Not everyone in life can be your friend, not everyone will like you. THAT is life. No matter if they like you or not as long as you don't act like a total fucking clown you can keep pushing forward.
 
Maybe just drop it down a notch.. one of the guys you were slagging off has been a member of this community since you were 3 or 4 years old, the guy that just commented is well respected as well, as is pretty much anyone else who echoed the same sentiments about this thread.

There are plenty of younger guys on here that have the respect of the community and benefit from it. There's no need to start shit with everyone you can in two days. Maybe just take onboard that this forum is the kind of place where if you post something asking about how to get your schoolmate to like you, people will react like this.

Remember also that no one owes you anything, including the ability to take part in the community.. and if you think that disrespecting the guy who's posted the 2nd largest amount of messages on the site is going to endear you to other people you might want advice and help from in the future, then you'd be wrong.. logically no one's going to want to help people that do that.

If it doesn't really matter to you and you're not here to learn and make money, then keep going in the same direction and you'll 99% likely have a grey name by the end of the weekend and then it's problem solved anyway.

Lots of young guys here are making good money.. if that's not also your goal then there are plenty of Facebook groups more suited to asking about how to make people like you.
 
I can't win an aquaintence over because some Proxygo has his head firmly up my ass?

Nobody said that...
It's just that, this is an internet marketing forum.
So, we mostly talk about internet marketing topics here, and not so much other stuff.
By the way, we love Proxygo.
 
If your a girl, you should try and date the dudes best friend. That will get him wondering about you. If your a guy then forget him, hit the gym and collect all the girls.
 
Open a Shitlist and mods will take care of the rest.


Typical teenagers
 
Because it's easier for you to lash out than form a constructive argument it's why you ignored all my replies in the Joe Rogan thread as a typical child you are - your sticking your nose into a subject that you don't totally understand. The same as you are doing here now, you can't form an argument because you don't know how to and you simply don't understand.

It's OK maybe your balls have't dropped low enough yet or it's a case of your left tit is a bit behind the right one so you feel out of shape it's alright we get it your a kid with access to the internet.

You can lash out at people on a forum or in real like kid you can do what you want but there will be someone around the corner to show you how life works. It's easy to type names and call people this and that on a forum but you clearly can't even cope with a real world situation where someone doesn't like you, so it speaks volumes on how you would act in person you can't deal with the simplest of social issues.

IF your online personality is anything like your real world* one then I'm not surprised the other person doesn't like you. I don't even know you and I don't like you.

*BUT again I'm going to assume your some quiet kid who does what mum n dad says and it's easier to run a persona on a forum and with a bunch of your friends that makes you come over like a total cock. Other wise you wouldn't be here opening a thread asking to get someone to like me when most of the adults here are just like WTF are you on about.

Life lesson you can either listen to me or go and learn it the hard way:

Not everyone in life can be your friend, not everyone will like you. THAT is life. No matter if they like you or not as long as you don't act like a total fucking clown you can keep pushing forward.

If you think i'm reading through you can take your fedex van and got out of here. Before you have a heart attack LMAO

Maybe just drop it down a notch.. one of the guys you were slagging off has been a member of this community since you were 3 or 4 years old, the guy that just commented is well respected as well, as is pretty much anyone else who echoed the same sentiments about this thread.

There are plenty of younger guys on here that have the respect of the community and benefit from it. There's no need to start shit with everyone you can in two days. Maybe just take onboard that this forum is the kind of place where if you post something asking about how to get your schoolmate to like you, people will react like this.

Remember also that no one owes you anything, including the ability to take part in the community.. and if you think that disrespecting the guy who's posted the 2nd largest amount of messages on the site is going to endear you to other people you might want advice and help from in the future, then you'd be wrong.. logically no one's going to want to help people that do that.

If it doesn't really matter to you and you're not here to learn and make money, then keep going in the same direction and you'll 99% likely have a grey name by the end of the weekend and then it's problem solved anyway.

Lots of young guys here are making good money.. if that's not also your goal then there are plenty of Facebook groups more suited to asking about how to make people like you.

All i'm seeing is a bunch of people ranting at me cause they had a bad week or something. I don't know.
 
If you think i'm reading through you can take your fedex van and got out of here. Before you have a heart attack LMAO



All i'm seeing is a bunch of people ranting at me cause they had a bad week or something. I don't know.

All I see is a child trolling, so let me show you the door and once you are old enough to leave playschool, you might be mature enough to join a forum and not look like the clown you are so keen to portray yourself to be just now.

Thomas the Tank Engine you're at now, Thomas Shelby once you grow up ;)
 
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