Wel just broke up.. What next ?:(

Enjoy This SOng

Hang in there, you'll find someone else.

In the mean time:

bagel + microwave + butter.

Been there, done that! Recently! Yeah, it sucks. But as you've probably heard 10,000 times. Time heals all wounds. Just give it time. Don't dwell on it. Don't try to figure out what went wrong. Because you'll drive yourself crazy in the process.

What helped me was focusing on what I enjoyed the most. I worked (IM, not 9-5), played video games, and bowled. And to my surprise, I met someone recently through bowling. And I'm happier now than I've ever been. So just give it time and do what you like to do.

Just remember, BHW here is kinda like a family. We got you, dude.

The absolute best thing you can do is not talk to her. Don't answer her calls or texts. Don't be rude about it. Just simply tell her it is probably best that we don't talk at all for a while and that maybe we can be friends in the future. But for now, no contact please. This will make her realize how much she misses you and can't live without you.

Believe me. The more you try and text/call or attempt to get her back, you are only hurting your chances.
She broke up with you so she also needs to feel the pain. Don't give her the benefits of still being in a relationship.
If you do, she will keep you in her back pocket knowing she can have you whenever she wants while she goes out and finds someone else.


I've been in this exact situation man and it really is horrible. I did countless research of stupid "how to get her back" crap you'll find on the internet and have been through it all.
If you need help getting through this, help gettin over her, or help trying to get her back, pm me if you want.

Oh and go watch swingers and 500 days of summer. Best breakup movies you will ever watch.

[video=youtube_share;1GgmjRRpY-k]http://youtu.be/1GgmjRRpY-k[/video]

Have done that! Yes, life is better already

RedDeezer said:

Just move on man, simple as that. Life is too short.

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Did that Next please!!

prab1996 said:

just fuck her offeace: , not waste your time in crying .
there are so many girls .

now you can do this
:dog_walk1:icecream1:rock::beer:layball:

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Touching story bro. You give me hope Vegas is far for me lol. India has no shortage

Smokin said:

Bro I'm in the same situation I feel you!

My was to be fiance and I lost it about 3 weeks ago when my business partner and his girlfriend came to town...

Anyways, we were both in the wrong, and it was my fault because I did start it in the past, but she was out of control.. When we drink wine everything is wonderful, but when she touches the Vodka, oh my goodness it's the devil I swear to you.

Anyways, we talked every day for the next 2 weeks (She lived with me and has been at her moms house or grandparents - Shes in school, full time job, etc.)

Anyways the days we got into an ugly argument and I said I was truly sincerely done blah blah blah and IGNORED HER, she went crazy.. They can ignore you but when YOU DO IT, it drives them nuts. Be the bigger person and always be nice when they're ugly and they get worse man.. Haha, anyways best of luck, I ignored mine all day today and she couldn't go a day without "I've been thinking all day blah blah blah" so MOVE ON or IGNORE HER and WORK IT OUT and DONT WORRY ABOUT THE STUPID SHIT (which is my problem!)

Genuinely,

- Smokin`

EDIT: You can come to Vegas and get a $10 prostitute with no teeth if that'll satisfy your desire muahaahahahah!

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Yeah I need a break!! SHort of money now. Will try next month

keytenx said:

Water therapy! Hit the beach buddy! just don't ever think of drowning yourself.. remember that everything happens for a reason. just accept it for now. Cry later on your bed.

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cashnone said:

lol, just hit up your CPA network and tell them your single, tell them to send you 2 or 3 girls for the night....

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F***ed her several times lol

hellnation said:

fuck the bishes bro.

go and enjoy life.

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Yepp!! Ditto!!

tks2115 said:

So many fishes in the sea, now I know there's another one for me!

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I will miss her, because she helped me to achieve what I am today. I wasn't this much confident before I met her. That's the only thing I will miss

Jonny Quick said:

Always move forward. Never move backwards. Don't even look backwards. You can waste a lot of your life on the wrong that you know, when you should instead be looking for the right you haven't found yet. Forward, ever forward. The world is full, absolutely full of women. Millions. Millions & millions, and every single one of them is completely different. And out of all of those women out there, there is at least one, probably more, that will be everything that you could possibly imagine. Never settle for good enough, or the one that's willing to fuck you right out the gate. She fucks everyone else that fast too. You are NOT special, and neither is she.

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It's gonna happen tonight!!

angelical said:

Break up party and then Search for a new chick

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Nice song!! Thank you

NProductions said:

Enjoy This SOng

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That went out like.. tan 90 degree .. bagel + microwave + butter ? :/

Grizzy said:

Hang in there, you'll find someone else.

In the mean time:

bagel + microwave + butter.

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Thanks ofr the kind words man

tsustyle said:

Been there, done that! Recently! Yeah, it sucks. But as you've probably heard 10,000 times. Time heals all wounds. Just give it time. Don't dwell on it. Don't try to figure out what went wrong. Because you'll drive yourself crazy in the process.

What helped me was focusing on what I enjoyed the most. I worked (IM, not 9-5), played video games, and bowled. And to my surprise, I met someone recently through bowling. And I'm happier now than I've ever been. So just give it time and do what you like to do.

Just remember, BHW here is kinda like a family. We got you, dude.

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I have deleted her numbers, as well as my fb profile (will re-initiate it after 15 days so that my personal data is wiped).. No chance of contacting her again

knightofarmor said:

The absolute best thing you can do is not talk to her. Don't answer her calls or texts. Don't be rude about it. Just simply tell her it is probably best that we don't talk at all for a while and that maybe we can be friends in the future. But for now, no contact please. This will make her realize how much she misses you and can't live without you.

Believe me. The more you try and text/call or attempt to get her back, you are only hurting your chances.
She broke up with you so she also needs to feel the pain. Don't give her the benefits of still being in a relationship.
If you do, she will keep you in her back pocket knowing she can have you whenever she wants while she goes out and finds someone else.


I've been in this exact situation man and it really is horrible. I did countless research of stupid "how to get her back" crap you'll find on the internet and have been through it all.
If you need help getting through this, help gettin over her, or help trying to get her back, pm me if you want.

Oh and go watch swingers and 500 days of summer. Best breakup movies you will ever watch.

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Never waste your time being depressed. Remember, a minute being sad/depressed is a minute lost of happiness. I feel you, man. Just remember, the ocean is still full of beautiful fishes. Let's go fishing!

try to get her back if possible, 2 years is a long time mate if there's no way ... then try to forget her

move on dude hit the gym make money! then you find in time if your ment to be you will be dude! and when she sees you happy and doing better for your self she will chase you (if she wants you) i was with my gf 6 years broke up for a year! was so hard with having kid to her etc! but i stayed strong and guess what? she came running to me few weeks ago relising every i said and done for her is true! she has to know what she wants! so just do your thing

Life is too short to worry about things like that, it may be hard to swallow, but tell yourself you don't give a shit and move on.

I don't know about you, but time is the only reason I don't have a girlfriend, I had, but broke up because she didn't support me.

If you're way too sad, go fuck another chick, if it doesn't help you, you are simply gay : DD

It may happen again, don't get depressed.

Use this freedom, you should understand what I'm trying to say, lol.

Make money, chicks are like bonus, always come with money.

kixstart said:

do anything but don't get back to her. She will treat you like sh*t because she will see how desperate you are.

If you want to have any chance to have her again, just wait, don't do something stupid, she will come back when she will realize you can live without her.

Remember, everything is a game. You must know how to play it.

Good luck buddy!

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this this this x 1000000000

Time makes a man be practical.
Don't think too much.

i am indian bro [ punjabi , sikh ] this is a best punjabi song for you .

second
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9g-qoRaSR-g

I know just one thing that works 100% and that is to find another girl ASAP trust me..my friend went trough same thing few months ago and was really depressed...when i remmeber all the talk i did with him and i couldnt say anything to help him feel better until he found another girl to have fun with...he forgot about old girl now....and i was able to get back to IM and making money

I love BHW, seriously, nice people all around here!

To the OP: Its hard, I know, but don't think about it, it happens with everybody, happened with me too. Go out with friends, drink, talk with other girls, make money!

P.S.: Money makes you happy, that quote saying the opposite is BULLSHIT!

This goes to all who viewed / Participated in this thread

Guys I want to confess that I had misjudged this community. I joined this forum back in 2010 and I always used to think that all of the members here are totally professional and do not have time for doing things that do not earn them money. Yes, I am an Idiot that I had misjudged you all.
I am doing forum posting / moderation from 2006 and I have seen quite a few forums to be frank ( music related / community specific / hacking related and so on). I have never seen a forum like this before and I realized this now.

I used to be frightened to make a new thread here thinking that no one would actually see what I am trying to say, but for some reason I had opened this thread. My mind went blank for a moment and I thought about posting about the incidence in BHW. Actually I was dying within and I needed a friend. Those who came to this thread early might already know that this thread was originally opened in the wrong forum (blackhat seo tools lol ). I was so much depressed that I typed everything in the wrong window and pressed the submit button. Normally, there would have been 100s of replies saying "you have opened this in the wrong forum", but that didn't happen here! Not a single person said anything about it. This proves how much human you people are.

Yes, money matters to everyone and we should work hard for it, because it is not a guilt to be born poor, but IT IS a crime to die being a poor. That should not mean that one should forget everything else and go for money only. You all have proven it.

Someone here said, that leave BHW and go booz with your friends, but believe me, I have better friends here. It could not have been better for me. I recovered so well and so quickly that I threw a break-up party in my office today..
Quite weird huh ? :/

It only Happens in BlackHatWorld!!!

May God bless you all and may you all crack Google's secret algorithm

Thank you everyone
Gogol

Keep busy my friend and time will do the rest of the work. Whatever you do, don't get any bad habits. Fill the void with constructive tasks, whether it be hanging out with good friends, doing more IM or purchasing yourself some toys to enjoy.

BHW is a one-of-a-kind community. Come in with respect and courtesy and you will get the same in return. Yeah we chase the gold but we're never to busy to grab a brother that's fallen and put him back on the road. We all fall down at times - part of life. Happy to see you're back on track.

Best wishes mate.

Yes man I realize your words now. Last two days have made me really emotional about this community. I am being strong and I promise I will prove my point to you all.

Salute!!
Gogol

kvmcable said:

Keep busy my friend and time will do the rest of the work. Whatever you do, don't get any bad habits. Fill the void with constructive tasks, whether it be hanging out with good friends, doing more IM or purchasing yourself some toys to enjoy.

BHW is a one-of-a-kind community. Come in with respect and courtesy and you will get the same in return. Yeah we chase the gold but we're never to busy to grab a brother that's fallen and put him back on the road. We all fall down at times - part of life. Happy to see you're back on track.

Best wishes mate.

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Get some inspiration from your signature line says

You can't win a battle without losing life, you keep losing your own while you fight..

hahah..Right bro, absolutely right!! In fact, I looked at it and it gave me inspiration

GauravJ said:

Get some inspiration from your signature line says

You can't win a battle without losing life, you keep losing your own while you fight..

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Go clubbing, get smashed, get loads of girls, think about your problems tomorrow