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Wel just broke up.. What next ?:(

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Gogol, Apr 18, 2013.

  1. Gogol

    Gogol Elite Member

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    Hey guys

    My 2 year old relation just ended a few minutes ago. Shit I still love her like anything, but, perhaps, she doesn't believe me anymore. Feeling really depressed :'(

    What did you guys do when you broke up? ?

    :'(
     
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    Quick wank, then back on BHW!
     
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    I buy a clickbank product about how to get her back.

    Nah, just get yourself busy, it will pass. I mostly just work and work and work, till I don't have any time to think about her. And your buddies will definitely support you with a hang out etc. My advice, do not drink alcohol, it will just make you feel worse. :)
     
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    Hit the Night spots and live it up while you are a freeman.

    Then knock off with all of her friends and post the pictures on facebook !
     
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    Dont think so much! simply get back to work! ;)
     
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  6. Gogol

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    I permanently deleted my FB account already.. I am feeling like I am drunk but I am not.. Is it normal? :(
     
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    There's only one question you need to ask her "Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"
     
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    See it as a chance to relax! Go have fun, there's plenty of time for finding someone else once you're happy!
     
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    Look at the bright side, now you have more time to work on your IM projects which is equal to more money, which is equal to more girls. ;)
     
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    Go make some money.
     
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    Because you're sad or something else?
    Just ring up a friend and chill with them; try to forget about her, at least for the next few days. You don't need her, be your own man!:D
     
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    Hi,

    We've all been there before but we come back better and stronger (and with a better woman) at our sides. Just look at the things you've learned in the last two years in that relationship. You won't see it now but she's doing you a favor by not dragging it out any longer.

    You need to create a playlist in youtube of all the songs you really like (When I broke up with my ex I was repeating women-hating songs) or songs where you are the best. You have to snap out of it and switch on your positive mental attitude.

    The above will help too if you want her back, I can't say but maybe she got bored? maybe you were too nice? anyway I hope you come out of this stronger. Don't know what more to tell you from what you've written so far mate.

    HTH
     
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    - Famous words of many, many, many BHW members.
     
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    Have fun be around friends and family and do things you couldn't do when you were in that relationship. You will get over it fast.

    Good Luck!
     
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    Seriously...
    BE A MAN AND STOP ACTING LIKE A PUSSY.
     
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    Aren't you the lucky one today, I would laugh, then go the pub or on holiday.
     
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    Some great human being once said "If you can't change the girl, Change the girl".

    So move on with your work and by gods grace you will find a better partner in future
     
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    If it ends then it's likely meant to end, if something real comes it'll last. Don't worry about it too much, odds are you still have a massive portion of your life ahead of you. Just enjoy it and keep making them greens.
     
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  20. Gogol

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    I can't face those pictures anymore :(
    May be I am coward, but I just wanted to run away from it.


    Yeah you guys are giving me hope. Thanks all :)

    BTW @ Mods
    This thread is really looking ugly in the black hat seo tools. I am really sorry about this. I wouldn't have done this if everything was normal :)