This is a vent

Mokodoki said:
I have had a lot of negativity in my life from being a "nice" daughter who has put up with all forms of manipulation from my mother. The situation between us has been, at one point, eerily similar to yours.

The truth is that it's hard to imagine for people who have grown up with good, loving, supportive parents just how frustrating something like this can be. My mother was also very sweet at one point, but changed her behavior so drastically she's a totally different person now.

Don't let your quality of life suffer because you feel obligated to take care of your mother who doesn't seem to have any appreciation for your efforts. Sit her down, make her understand where you are coming from (without yelling or getting angry), and implore her to try and make more effort while she is staying with you. If she doesn't, then show her the way out.
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I Probably wont be able to do that because i'm already to the point were i'm crying over it and if one thing is said that i don't like i will probably blow up on both of them.. just like this stupid boiled peanut situation which is nothing to get pissed about, but when you're at the end of your rope, any thing, at any given point can set you off.

But the sad thing is, i will probably heat up her dinner before she gets home so it will be hot for her when she walks in... Every night i say i'm not going to do that, but i always do.
 
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Thanks everybody, even tho this is just text, it feels like allot of pressure that has been building has been released.
 
You are the person that has the future in front of him. Those who love you, would recognise that and go out of their way to help you become an achiever.

Get rid of of the people that hold you down. Claim responsibility for yourself and for your future kids.

Become strong, and you will become happy.

I wish you the best.
 
unfortunately...sometimes it's the parents or parent that is the problem....
 
Hey sometimes life can be a bitch but its the things you go through that make you who you are
 
Read "no more mr nice guy" by Robert Glover. I suspect you'll get a lot out of it.
 
put rules down or out, I would kick them out already, with that kind of money they can live by them self.
 
I Would like to clarify that i do love my mom and if someone would hurt her i would be on that person like stink of shi* same for my step dad, if some would jump on him i would jump in and try to save him no matter how many people is attacking him, i just don't know if he would do the same for me. i know i would.

I done the same for my cousin, 6 Guys jumped my uncle outside trying to get to my cousin and they was beating the hell out of him, so i didn't want them to get in the house where 2 small kids were that was screaming and crying, so i jumped in there to keep them busy just long enough with me and my uncle until the cops arrived. But little did these idiots know that i also saved there life because if they would of got into that house, my cousin had his kids holding his legs scared (they were 3 and 4yo at the time) and my cousin had a 9mm pointed at the door so he would of shot them to protect his kids..

That was a bad bad bad night
 
I think you're bein way too nice here. I understand you may love your mom deep down, but she doesn't sound like a very good person. She treats her parents and child like shit, so what's that say about her?

Who can sit there and watch their parent suffer with cancer and not even get them to a dr. appointment? That's fucked up man and if it were my mom, I wouldn't think twice about giving her the boot and never speaking to her again.

I can't believe you still heat her dinner up so it's warm for her when she gets home. She doesn't respect you or do anything for you, so why be respectful to her? Respect is earned, not given. Just because she's your mom doesn't mean you automatically have to serve her.

I think the stress reduction alone would be a huge weight off your chest if you just got them out of your house. You will probably be able to focus more on IM and start making way more money as a result.

Just my opinion...
 
And this is something that had to be shared here? After reading the whole story what I could not understand was why was this the only place you had to share this.
 
warrichpk said:
And this is something that had to be shared here? After reading the whole story what I could not understand was why was this the only place you had to share this.
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Because it's the off-topic forum?
 
yea... no matter what you do there is no way for you to repay your mom. there is really nothing on this earth that you can do. if you really feel that she is causing too much trouble here is the best advice I can give you:

first sit her down and explain how you feel. that is the really one of the best ways out of this. sometimes people offend others without realizing it. but when the know what they're doing, everything changes.

if that doesn't change anything, move them into a cheap place and give money to them in their hands. for groceries, rent, etc give it to them in front of their face every time. literally put the food onto their table. trust me, that will change their attitude & and the mess she makes will be hers to clean up lest she live in a dump. but no matter what, try your best to never abandon (forsake) your mother.
 
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Mate I have best solution kick them all out, and make money in IM then use your pad as a Chick Magnet, there done and finished, Muhahahahahhahaha:rocketwho
 
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