Some guidelines to increase your success. (based on my experiences)

Billy Batts said:

I understand the feeling, that's how I basically feel/felt my whole life and meanwhile the years pass by. I know why because you are afraid of failure.

Can't even tell to begin with how I have those same issues, even now, I can have 5 days full of positivity, being sure about my abilities and skills and sure it will work! And then the 6th doubts come because I think "but it has been done already", "why would people even come to my stuff" etc etc

Haha the more I read your reply, you are so much like me. I got at least 50 domains parked that all came from good ideas, most of these pages have a fB page, made logos, sites and that's it. So I totally get it is tough.

Ask yourself this. How many of these projects you gave it your all? The whole 9 yard, complete site, SM profiles, articles, updating of SM, building a list etc?


Yeah man, alcohol is such a fucked up drug!! More so as it's more damaging than most illegal drugs and yet you can buy it anywhere, it's advertised everywhere, it's in movies, tvshows, cartoons, you can barely escape it.


Good to hear man.

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How do you deal with them thoughts of "but it has been done already", "why would people even come to my stuff".

I'm pretty sure I'm in no way or shape close to your knowledge, but I can relate to the part where I have shit ton of positivity with regards to taking action and then even few hours later anxiety kicks in with "I'm gonna fail", "this is a waste of time" , "mama was right, I will end up sweeping them streets" etc.
I'm having so much issues with this negative self talk lately, I'm not sure how to deal with it.

What doesn't help either is the fact that on every corner people tell you that this or that doesn't work anymore and having little experience, it's so fucking difficult to discern what is true and what is just somebody's negative lazy-ass bullshit to keep you down.

I don't wanna whine too much, life's been rough on me for a while. But I am interested, how do you deal or how would you recommend dealing with such thoughts.

And yes, I haven't given my all to one project and yes, I'm pretty sure that what's stopping me is that same fear of failure, but the above said has some to do with it.

Thanks

Wooten said:

How do you deal with them thoughts of "but it has been done already", "why would people even come to my stuff".

I'm pretty sure I'm in no way or shape close to your knowledge, but I can relate to the part where I have shit ton of positivity with regards to taking action and then even few hours later anxiety kicks in with "I'm gonna fail", "this is a waste of time" , "mama was right, I will end up sweeping them streets" etc.
I'm having so much issues with this negative self talk lately, I'm not sure how to deal with it.

What doesn't help either is the fact that on every corner people tell you that this or that doesn't work anymore and having little experience, it's so fucking difficult to discern what is true and what is just somebody's negative lazy-ass bullshit to keep you down.

I don't wanna whine too much, life's been rough on me for a while. But I am interested, how do you deal or how would you recommend dealing with such thoughts.

And yes, I haven't given my all to one project and yes, I'm pretty sure that what's stopping me is that same fear of failure, but the above said has some to do with it.

Thanks

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I get back to this question soon man.

will definitely implement some of the info you shared with us, great thread thank you!

Billy Batts said:

I understand the feeling, that's how I basically feel/felt my whole life and meanwhile the years pass by. I know why because you are afraid of failure.

Can't even tell to begin with how I have those same issues, even now, I can have 5 days full of positivity, being sure about my abilities and skills and sure it will work! And then the 6th doubts come because I think "but it has been done already", "why would people even come to my stuff" etc etc

Haha the more I read your reply, you are so much like me. I got at least 50 domains parked that all came from good ideas, most of these pages have a fB page, made logos, sites and that's it. So I totally get it is tough.

Ask yourself this. How many of these projects you gave it your all? The whole 9 yard, complete site, SM profiles, articles, updating of SM, building a list etc?

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Made 3 before before but for me, I've done nothing to be honest, I've learn so much but no action.BTW I made money from CPA but not that good. But this year i made a decision to stick to one site for SEO, 1 channel for YouTube and 1 for Facebook. I just put a big sign on my wall "ACTION". just to make me do something even if my mind and body can't. Right now my site has increase in rankings 2nd page with 6 keywords each has 30K m/searches. I just take action whenever i read something or like a guide. Blog Comments, Social profile, Authority Site Web 2.0 I just do it manually so i can practice of taking action right away. (am slowly changing) This kind of thread makes me feel a live and do more because it's not only me having this weird situation. I hope this will continue, and thank you so much for this post. I do love this.

Billy Batts said:

I get back to this question soon man.

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I look forward to it.

Wooten said:

How do you deal with them thoughts of "but it has been done already", "why would people even come to my stuff".

I'm pretty sure I'm in no way or shape close to your knowledge, but I can relate to the part where I have shit ton of positivity with regards to taking action and then even few hours later anxiety kicks in with "I'm gonna fail", "this is a waste of time" , "mama was right, I will end up sweeping them streets" etc.
I'm having so much issues with this negative self talk lately, I'm not sure how to deal with it.

What doesn't help either is the fact that on every corner people tell you that this or that doesn't work anymore and having little experience, it's so fucking difficult to discern what is true and what is just somebody's negative lazy-ass bullshit to keep you down.

I don't wanna whine too much, life's been rough on me for a while. But I am interested, how do you deal or how would you recommend dealing with such thoughts.

And yes, I haven't given my all to one project and yes, I'm pretty sure that what's stopping me is that same fear of failure, but the above said has some to do with it.

Thanks

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To be honest I'm still struggling with it every so often it's actually a bad trigger for my alcoholism.

But I just deal with it like everything else, just keep going forward. I accepted it's ok to fail as long as you learn from it.

At the moment I'm in the process of finishing several things and a course things I already see results while I even havent staeted with promotion so that motivates me.

Time you finish something too cuz time keeps ticking.

I waste so much time on Twitter. I need delete the app.

deborahrainer said:

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Billy you really got so much lovers in BHW

You forgot to tell that popping modafinil or caffeine can go a long way

DankHorse said:

I waste so much time on Twitter. I need delete the app.

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Yeah, a lot of politics, religious bs going on on twitter, I only use twitter to spreads my tweets and most of that is automated so I don't even have to visit twitter.

DE_GAME said:

Billy you really got so much lovers in BHW

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lol yeah I saw those before they got deleted, that's only a small part, I've gotten some serious crazy PM's in the past.

Bigdadddy said:

You forgot to tell that popping modafinil or caffeine can go a long way

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Nah, I don't want to encourage anyone taking stimulants

damn ADD is a pain in the ass, when I open several windows I find it difficult to follow what I was doing and easy to lose concentration, I need to write everything down on paper or on whatever to stay in the right path or I will lose my shit in an infinite loop doing the same task.

Gorgeous content!

S A N T O S said:

damn ADD is a pain in the ass, when I open several windows I find it difficult to follow what I was doing and easy to lose concentration, I need to write everything down on paper or on whatever to stay in the right path or I will lose my shit in an infinite loop doing the same task.

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Yes at times it's a bitch. I often cooking water or filling the sink to do the dishes and totally forget about them when I'm focused on something on the computer lol

nettacompany said:

Gorgeous content!

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Cheers.

Really had to read my own thread again. Relapsed 2 weeks ago, been checking news and politics and it only makes me rage and depressive. Well that and sadness in the family but it is counter productive AF.

Now I need some positive words

Billy Batts said:

Really had to read my own thread again. Relapsed 2 weeks ago, been checking news and politics and it only makes me rage and depressive. Well that and sadness in the family but it is counter productive AF.

Now I need some positive words

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Positive words?
Plus, multiply, times, add


But yeah I also relapsed, sadly.

mhtro said:

Positive words?
Plus, multiply, times, add


But yeah I also relapsed, sadly.

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I'm 9 days sober now which might seem short but after my grandmothers passing I was maybe sober 1-2 days in a week but now I've had the news that my grandfather most likely is not going to make the end of the year, mum having lung cancer and these crazy ass withdrawals plus my country raising the price of fucking everything and other BS politics, I'm aggressive as hell! I literally mean like in a murderous kind of way.

Just saw this now. Thank for this Billy!

Billy Batts said:

I'm 9 days sober now which might seem short but after my grandmothers passing I was maybe sober 1-2 days in a week but now I've had the news that my grandfather most likely is not going to make the end of the year, mum having lung cancer and these crazy ass withdrawals plus my country raising the price of fucking everything and other BS politics, I'm aggressive as hell! I literally mean like in a murderous kind of way.

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know it's hard mate as been in the same situation but try and stay strong and spend as much time with the family as possible create memory's it's hard at times but you don't want to waste what little time you may have relapsing and not remembering the time. When I lost my granddad every time I was close to doing another line or grabbing a bottle to block out the pain I tried to remember him and how he wouldn't want me to be wasting my life. Take every day one step at a time bro.

Goodi OG said:

Just saw this now. Thank for this Billy!

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YW man, thnx for reading.

Perrybeard82 said:

know it's hard mate as been in the same situation but try and stay strong and spend as much time with the family as possible create memory's it's hard at times but you don't want to waste what little time you may have relapsing and not remembering the time. When I lost my granddad every time I was close to doing another line or grabbing a bottle to block out the pain I tried to remember him and how he wouldn't want me to be wasting my life. Take every day one step at a time bro.

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I know what you mean man.

Although what you read inhttps://www.blackhatworld.com/seo/a-different-kind-of-success-story-which-hopefully-gives-you-an-extra-push-long-ass-read.1111098/thread, I really never let them know about anything. When I slept outside in the winter, when I was homeless in the States or when I was incarcerated, I always kept them in the dark about it as I didn't wanted them to worry.

As you know with addiction, it's not about not wanting to stay clean it's purely a mental war with many battles and I lost MANY battles but haven't lost the war, all I can do is try my hardest but only very few people can understand how hard it is. They only see you from the outside socially but on the inside, it's hardcore.

I've been starting to ignore news since this week again, even that is hard to stay away from as I always wanted to know what's going on in these turbulent times in my country and continent but I just need to let it go, it's just a waste of time and at the end of the day you can't do anything about politics and BS anyway so fuck em.

Yesterday I went to a site that has the most horrifying videos on the internet, I mean some real messed up shit! Not that I enjoy seeing it but it puts me back in place and realizing that even though I do not like the way things are going here and hate among different groups are increasing I'm still in a part of the world where we have the most freedom in the world so I shouldn't complain too much about that aspect of it.

Had to read my own advice again, was reading news again on fb lately, what a timewaster!

It will only make you depressed, trigger shit you don't want to, make you want to reply to idiots and at the end of the day nothing changed.

Stay away from news and politics!