Is it a good idea to handle both while being a very busy person and trying to get your life sorted? Anyone in such a situation where they are juggling the two together? Or is a relationship a distraction? Sometimes I just feel so down, it's crazy... I know it's "one" of those posts but FML I can't decide whether I'm just looking for excuses to not get my shit and my career sorted the way I want it (laziness, procrastination, etc) or if I'm longing for a relationship? Or maybe it's just hormones? Any sensible advice? I'm all ears and will probably decide things based on the answers I get as I just can't decide for myself. They say behind every successful man there's a successful women, really?