Hi guys I want to describe a situation in very specific details, but I am concerned that the person that I want to talk about is in this forum. so I will try to be vague but specific. lol. if you want a 27 year old female receptionist to do you a favor on a regular basis, is it better to get her food from her favorite restaurant, or money in an envelope? is it better to be explicit (tell her: this is for doing X for me last week) or just condition her (every time she does X, you reward her)? this is strictly about business, it is not about dating/sex.