We give out a lot of infractions. None of them are personal, they're to tell you that you've broken the rules and what you need to avoid in future. These are examples of recent replies to infractions. This is a *good* way to reply: This is less good... If you're genuinely not sure why you got the infraction, feel free to clarify but make it polite and civil, like: Sidenote: I'm not sure why people are convinced I'm stalking them but I've heard this at least twenty or so times. To clear it up - most of you just aren't that fascinating. Sorry.