. I'm mostly just into vanilla now. When I allow myself to get too aroused then it becomes more difficult to control. The problem is that at that stage, you don't even want to control it, lol. The chemical imbalance of dopamine is like candy to a child. Try taking it away and the child lashes out and throws a tantrum.
The inner beast of carnal lust is not to be taken lightly. Especially when the person in question has a high libido.Even then, temptation can be overcome if you truly desire to do so.
There's a lot in what you posted that screams out to those who understand certain words.
Makes me laugh when people comment that bdsm, D/s or M/s is mental illness etc.
Then the changes in law in the UK, pushed these fetish / depravities back underground.
The people who moan they can't make money in porn are those who are chasing the same old, boring old, tame crap.
