deceivedbird
Newbie
- Sep 15, 2025
- 2
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Hey everyone,
I honestly did not expect my first day on BHW to turn into something like this, but I feel it is important to share what happened, especially for other newcomers.
Yesterday was my very first day here. I was excited, motivated, and genuinely happy to finally start this journey. I made a post requesting help with data scraping for real estate agent services, hoping to connect with someone experienced or potentially work together.
Not long after, I received a private message suggesting we continue the conversation on Telegram. The discussion there was actually very good. It was productive, detailed, and felt professional. We talked through the approach, timelines, and how the project would be put together. It genuinely felt like the start of something solid.
I agreed to pay a small deposit to get things moving. It was 50 USDC. The conversation did not stop after the payment. He continued responding and even later messaged me offering additional services through one of his friends on BHW for Google Ads, which I was also interested in.
A few hours later, I opened Telegram and saw that all of our messages had been deleted and his last seen showed “a long time ago,” which usually means I was blocked. At that point, it became clear what had happened.
What hurts is not the 50 USDC. I can accept that loss. What hurts more is the trust built during what felt like a genuinely productive conversation and the excitement of thinking something real was about to be built. Losing that on my very first day was discouraging.
I joined BHW because it appears to be a tight knit and genuinely helpful community with a lot of serious and knowledgeable people. Experiencing something like this right away was unexpected and unfortunate.
I am not posting this to cause drama or attack anyone. I simply wanted to share my experience and remind other new members, especially beginners like myself, to be extremely cautious.
Thanks for reading.
I honestly did not expect my first day on BHW to turn into something like this, but I feel it is important to share what happened, especially for other newcomers.
Yesterday was my very first day here. I was excited, motivated, and genuinely happy to finally start this journey. I made a post requesting help with data scraping for real estate agent services, hoping to connect with someone experienced or potentially work together.
Not long after, I received a private message suggesting we continue the conversation on Telegram. The discussion there was actually very good. It was productive, detailed, and felt professional. We talked through the approach, timelines, and how the project would be put together. It genuinely felt like the start of something solid.
I agreed to pay a small deposit to get things moving. It was 50 USDC. The conversation did not stop after the payment. He continued responding and even later messaged me offering additional services through one of his friends on BHW for Google Ads, which I was also interested in.
A few hours later, I opened Telegram and saw that all of our messages had been deleted and his last seen showed “a long time ago,” which usually means I was blocked. At that point, it became clear what had happened.
What hurts is not the 50 USDC. I can accept that loss. What hurts more is the trust built during what felt like a genuinely productive conversation and the excitement of thinking something real was about to be built. Losing that on my very first day was discouraging.
I joined BHW because it appears to be a tight knit and genuinely helpful community with a lot of serious and knowledgeable people. Experiencing something like this right away was unexpected and unfortunate.
I am not posting this to cause drama or attack anyone. I simply wanted to share my experience and remind other new members, especially beginners like myself, to be extremely cautious.
Thanks for reading.