Donestrgling
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- Nov 29, 2011
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hell ya i am! woooooooooooooo
He, vacation. Ya you want vacation time go teach third grade public school! JK its from boiler room. And yea vacation costs money. And I got about 100$ to my name.
Stress, Anxiety & Depression.
Don't feel so bad. I recently left an employer whom I worked for for NINE years. He would say mostly good things about me but the reality is that he probably wouldn't bother to respond to phone calls from prospective landlords or employers on my behalf to tell them good things. He's funny like that. If it isn't about HIS money, he could care less. That's why his most recent business is failing.
Anyways...you think you're screwed it's almost like I haven't existed for a decade!!!
Advice: EYE TWITCH - Potassium Deficiency. Go to grocery store and buy bananas. Eat said bananas.
Anxiety - Take a day off and devote it completely to you and your girl. Have sex. Make sure she knows that
you really need to fix this employment issue before you'll be 100% again. She'll do what she need to to support you even if that means staying out of your way.
Depression & Stress - Should be reduced after saying screw it and taking a day to devote 1000% to self. Yes, the sex will help too. But knowing your girl is behind you instead of standing in your way will bring more peace to your domestic life so you can at least have a portion of your day to unwind.
Bottom line - You cant be wound up 24/7...what do you think you look like to Human Resources people if you can't relax? If you decide to hold off on my advice...take a voice recorder in with you to your next interview and record it. Play it later and if you wind up thinking oh my god that went horrible...it's cause you can't unwind. You're probably subconsciously fidgeting and doing stuff with your eyes and hands that are a turn off to HR professionals. You won't get that from a recording, but you know your own voice and you'll be able to tell if you come off tense or stressed which is also a turn off to HR.
Getting a job is like getting a loan. The person who recieves it gets it because they WANT it more than they NEED it. I would keep looking for a regular job AFTER you've relaxed a day and TOTALLY cleared your mind. Go out and get massages..whatever does it. But keep up the job search FIRST. Statistically you're not going to just fall into a boatload of IM money, so save that for on the side experimentation.
My right eye wont stop twitching