My mom is dying

I pray that some miracle happens to save her from the clutches of cancer, and she lives happy without the perennial torment of cancer. If things happen otherwise, I just wish your family gets god's grace to deal with the loss bravely. As someone said in the thread, make her proud bro.. her blessings will always be with you, wherever she is.
 
I gathered from the OP's post that it's a little late for assuming she'll be cured and back to life as always:

Cancer is taking my mom.
Today we are going to the hospital to so she can die.

I've been taking care of my mother for about 3 years now, and she has stage 4. Based off my experience, the only thing I words I can offer is concentrate on how she won't be feeling anymore pain.

On a side note, my mom's cancer is basically what got me into IM and coding in general. Being stuck in a depressing, 24hr-a-day, miserable situation for an extended period of time forced me to use my computer in ways I never had the time to before. The potential to money on my own terms is really the only ray of hope I have in my life right now.
 
Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Now I have to start getting back to IM somehow so i can keep my house but I feel so sick.

Thank you all for the support. This thread has me crying because the love from you all is overwhelming.
 
Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Terribly sorry to hear that...:( Take your time to recover and then work your way up and make your mom proud, I'm sure she would have loved you to continue with your life and succeed! Even though I'm not much of a religious person I love to think that all our family members, relatives and friends who have passed away are keeping an eye on us from some place better.. Take care buddy!
 
I am really sorry for your loss, take your time and try and rebuild your life
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Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Now I have to start getting back to IM somehow so i can keep my house but I feel so sick.

Thank you all for the support. This thread has me crying because the love from you all is overwhelming.

May she rest in peace man. I have a friend who recently lost his mom. He tries to stay strong, he even makes jokes when we are around, but not like nothing happened, he makes jokes about stuff just to be able to resist. He admits that the nights, the first nights are the hardest, when you go to sleep. But in time, you will realize that she will always be by your side, in your heart, in your mind, up there. Time will make the pain fade. Now you have to be a man and take care of more things, but remember, you are not a man without a mom. Your mom will always be by your side whenever you think about her!
 
Wish you all the miracles and the luck that can reverse her situation.
Very sorry for you
 
Cancer is curable dont worry, pray and take care of her, she will get well soon.
 
Cancer is curable dont worry, pray and take care of her, she will get well soon.

Again, there are million forms of cancer. Many are curable, but most are not.

When people talk about finding the cure for cancer, they mean finding cure for all cancer types, which is very unreal right now.

I know that a member from BHW also was taken by cancer about 2 years ago. He had all the money to take expensive treatments, but it still didn't help.
 
Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Now I have to start getting back to IM somehow so i can keep my house but I feel so sick.

Thank you all for the support. This thread has me crying because the love from you all is overwhelming.

So sorry for your loss. I know nothing nothing can make you feel better but I hope your mom will find rest and peace in heaven. Try to make her proud with whatever you do in future.
 
Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Now I have to start getting back to IM somehow so i can keep my house but I feel so sick.

Thank you all for the support. This thread has me crying because the love from you all is overwhelming.

Sorry for your loss:(
 
I'm really sorry to hear that fellow BHW member. I've gone through the same few years back so I know how painful this is.

My heart is with her and your family, take care
 
I can understand my mom was diagnosed with cancer a few yrs ago. She lost her left breast to that ugly disease, went through alot of pain and chemo.

I strongly believe your mom is in a better place.

You need to pick your life up and live the way she always wanted you to. Its the only way to honour her memory.
 
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Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Now I have to start getting back to IM somehow so i can keep my house but I feel so sick.

Thank you all for the support. This thread has me crying because the love from you all is overwhelming.


Im so sorry to hear this tragic news,My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in these most testing of times.

Be strong and keep the faith brother.

May your mother rest in eternal peace.
 
Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Now I have to start getting back to IM somehow so i can keep my house but I feel so sick.

Thank you all for the support. This thread has me crying because the love from you all is overwhelming.

Sorry mate...
Take a holiday for a week,Go to new place and get back to work
this will somewhat give u a relief
 
Mom died on new years eve... I was holding her hand when she took her last breath. It was the worst moment of my life... I'm so sorry for everyone who's had a loss like this. It's indescribable...

Now I have to start getting back to IM somehow so i can keep my house but I feel so sick.

Thank you all for the support. This thread has me crying because the love from you all is overwhelming.

Mate, I know it feels hard. I know the feeling. Now you need to move on and start fresh.

It may seem impossible but take a few minutes, listen to some music, chill out with friends, go to a party. Socialize. Soon, your thoughts will go and you'l feel good. It's a big loss and I wish you all the best in the future.

Don't step into IM right away. Chill out for a bit until you're ready!
 
It's really bad for all you and your family members, God will help you, because he help there child always, my blessing with you always, I will pray for you and your mom God will bless her.
 
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