Money but poor relationships

If you're 21 and already making money independently I think you're on a good path, find time to get to the gym it will do your ego wonders. Get yourself on Tinder and try not to worry what you think those types of girls want or you'll miss the right kinda girl for you.
 
Is this just something that will resolve itself over time?
Yes.


I have the gym membership too.. I just don't get the time and I am pretty sure it's the case with most of people..
B u l l s h i t!! You have the same times like everyone, it's an attitude problem, whatever you doing on a day you can always make a hour time to hit the gym.

It's all about planning your shit right.
 
Yes.



B u l l s h i t!! You have the same times like everyone, it's an attitude problem, whatever you doing on a day you can always make a hour time to hit the gym.

It's all about planning your shit right.

I agree with Billy Batts on this, even though he is a "starter" in the productive game its all about planning, you have 24 hours maximize the shit out of them and tbh lately I've been eating and sleeping like shit and it shows in my productivity which is falling faster than The British Pound
 
I'm at a point in my life where my IM journey has become profitable, at least enough to the point where I'm making about as much as I would with a 9-5. I know that if I keep working at it, I'll be able to profit even more.

But there's something else that's been hindering my happiness. A lack of fulfilling relationships, love and higher social confidence in my life.

I live in a large city, and in my perspective it seems like mostly everything revolves around social status here. Even moderately attractive women will rarely be interested unless you have a good social circle, high paying job, etc. Cool people won't really care to associate with you unless you are somebody.

I'll be honest, I'm kind of late to the social game. I was pretty reserved in my early years and didn't socialize as much. Dealt with social anxiety a bit. I don't really open up to people much, am non-confrontational and can be a bit awkward sometimes.

What do you guys think? Is this just something that will resolve itself over time?
I've sent you a PM. I felt half the same way everyday, though not interested in discussing my personal issues in-front of the forum.
 
I'm at a point in my life where my IM journey has become profitable, at least enough to the point where I'm making about as much as I would with a 9-5. I know that if I keep working at it, I'll be able to profit even more.

But there's something else that's been hindering my happiness. A lack of fulfilling relationships, love and higher social confidence in my life.

I live in a large city, and in my perspective it seems like mostly everything revolves around social status here. Even moderately attractive women will rarely be interested unless you have a good social circle, high paying job, etc. Cool people won't really care to associate with you unless you are somebody.

I'll be honest, I'm kind of late to the social game. I was pretty reserved in my early years and didn't socialize as much. Dealt with social anxiety a bit. I don't really open up to people much, am non-confrontational and can be a bit awkward sometimes.

What do you guys think? Is this just something that will resolve itself over time?
Get a job as a salesman for 6 months. Your confidence will increase and you'll learn how to handle those anxiety-filled social situations.
 
Getting a sales job is good advice. Moving to a new city to meet women is bad advice.

Another option is to get a job in a restaurant or bar. Having to talk to strangers face to face every day forces you to be more outgoing.

You can expand your social circle through coworkers as well.
 
Join social clubs and clubs of things you are interested in, best way to meet people.
Where can we find the social clubs?
One my friend, when he moved to Canada alone, just started visiting a bar near his flat and getting drunk and talking with various people. Eventually his bar friends became real friends.
Bar friends may become your good friends, but you just can't get a reliable girlfriend from a bar.. go on a trip somewhere and flirt with girls there or just get one from nearby..
Lamborghini is not good always, fast and sexy doesn't Nothing.. sometimes all you need is a Toyota
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So get a reliable girlfriend and not some money hungry chick..
 
Where can we find the social clubs?

Bar friends may become your good friends, but you just can't get a reliable girlfriend from a bar.. go on a trip somewhere and flirt with girls there or just get one from nearby..
Lamborghini is not good always, fast and sexy doesn't Nothing.. sometimes all you need is a Toyota
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So get a reliable girlfriend and not some money hungry chick..


This ^^^^

So accurate. Because if the money every stops flowing the girls out faster than you can think
 
This ^^^^

So accurate. Because if the money every stops flowing the girls out faster than you can think
Yeah you are right, there are a lot of good girls in colleges, or you can literally find them anywhere, maybe through Friends.. and eventually hook up if you are really serious
Otherwise nothing can beat a prostitute if all you need is SEX..
If one is filthy rich then I would suggest them to never have a girlfriend, just get a hooker and bang like 3 times a day until you totally give up on all that porn shit..
 
Hit the gym and get big. Just like you like good looking women, women like good looking men.
I can prove you wrong
It's actually a very stupid advice..
Don't believe me?
Try yourself..
1:Go to a university or a place where girls hangout (Starbucks, tacobell)..
Wearing expensive cloths and driving a super sports car.. and just say them that they are beautiful and ask for her number,
2: bring the hottest guy you know to the same girl and ask for her number
I am telling you, no girl will chose sexy man or 6 packs over $6,000,000 and the rich guy no matter how he looks like..
So don't goto gym, goto work instead..
Staying healthy is a different story..
 
I can prove you wrong
It's actually a very stupid advice..
Don't believe me?
Try yourself..
1:Go to a university or a place where girls hangout (Starbucks, tacobell)..
Wearing expensive cloths and driving a super sports car.. and just say them that they are beautiful and ask for her number,
2: bring the hottest guy you know to the same girl and ask for her number
I am telling you, no girl will chose sexy man or 6 packs over $6,000,000 and the rich guy no matter how he looks like..
So don't goto gym, goto work instead..
Staying healthy is a different story..

Or do both? No excuse not to hit the gym and make money
 
Go to a nearby shopping mall or a busy coffee shop. I guarantee you’ll see plenty of girls
 
Fuck social life. Buy a good gaming pc and you'll be all set. You can make friends there too.

Fun fact, all my inner circle is from video games lol.

oh the days of CS: Source, Mu online, GTA SA:MP....

Brought back some memories
 
Fun fact, all my inner circle is from video games lol.

oh the days of CS: Source, Mu online, GTA SA:MP....

Brought back some memories

Even your family members are from video games? haha
 
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