Anyone get extremely stressed when they fail and lose weight ? I lose like 10 pounds everytime a method fails, i am down 20 pounds since i started my journeys.
1. meditate twice a day, start with 5min sessions and gradually increase them.
meditations make you better at handling stress & make you smarter as well (you will need that in your money-making activities).
Headspace is the most popular app for meditations, but you can just do sitting mindfulness meditation (sit down on a chair straight but relaxed, don't touch the back of the chair, and just watch your breath - breath IN, breath OUT - if you fell out of beign focused on your breath, gently redirect your attention back to it, no negativity!) or standing meditation on nothingness (stand relaxed, relax your whole body gradually from top to the feet, and then just think of nothing) - standing meditations are actually considered more beneficial for health.
It will take time to train your mind to be free of thoughts for at least 1min straight, so don't get discouraged if at first you will be having only glimpses of "proper" meditative state - even the attempts are useful to your mind & body (you don't expect to be able to do 200 pushups without any training, right? same with meditation - you need practice)
2. stare at green plants. it's good for the eyes & nervous system.
ideally - take walks in nature
3. follow healthy sleep schedule. it will also make you smarter.
4. if you want advice from a reputable BHW member, then check out "
Sherbert Hoover's Ultimate Efficiency Guide: Working at 100% Productivity And Making $$$" guide in BHW archives - it has a whole "
DECREASE STRESS" section.
P.S. Important:
you losing weight - that's the effect of the stress that you SEE.
can you imagine what is happening to your heart, bone density (stress washes out calcium out of the bones) and spine (spinal disc herniations and protrusions - can be symptomatic and non-symptomatic - are often caused by stress-caused muscle spasms)?