I've had what can i do??

This is why business and personal lives can never mix.. they never agree with each other.

Tell her to back the hell off, or get some head phones, blast some music and try to sift through it.. my first year of IM my landlord endlessly interrupted me just because I was making money online and not working in a factory or fast food.

She eventually said "you have to get a job or you can't live here anymore". Don't let them keep trampling all over you.. let them know this is what you want to do and she needs to back the hell off.. you can't let people walk on you like she's doing.

Its really not gud for the chlid to see their parents fighting everyday. How can a mother do this? Really, its astonishing to me. Just dump her mate.

Get rid of her, it's that simple.

M.O.B.

romeo216 I truly feel your pain but admire you thinking and caring how this could affect your child so much.

Like everything in life there's no easy way out. I married the mother of my first because I could not bare the pain of not being involved in raising such a beautiful boy's life. I was not in love with her from the start but the moment I held him words can not express what I felt. We then had a daughter together and again another beautiful innocent child.

For 10 years I tried hard because of the children then we finally split and she did exactly what she said she would never do.... dragged the kids thru all of the drama and in the end assisted in driving them away from me. It's not all her fault I accept much if not most of the blame.

My kids are much older now and I have virtually no contact with them. The hurt and pain are almost to much to bare but I struggle every day.

So how can my story help you? I'm not sure really but one thing I do know is that REGARDLESS of what you decide do everything you can to NOT involve your child in your adult/marital problems EVER!

From the way your describing her it sounds like possibly there may be some emotional or psychological problems on her part. If you think so try hard first to get counseling for you both and go from there.

So many issues but I can't imagine you being able to work from home, help out when needed, her not having to work and she's not supportive. I could understand it if you were still not making the net work for you.

I truly hope you two can work it out somehow so you both can be happy. Life's too damn short and you both deserve to be happy.

I got counseling when I was going through my divorce because I wanted and needed it and it did help just to talk to someone who really had no agenda or judgment toward my situation. Possibly it could be helpful to you however I would suggest you both try to get counseling as a couple though first. If she's not willing consider it just for yourself but only if she won't go with you.

Please keep us posted.

I thank all of you who are willing to hear me and give me advice. Only God knows what I'm dealing with. Everyday I'm fighting for freedom with her..Feels like I'm being held captive emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically.

I have to make a sound decision soon, not only for me but for my son.

There's some good people here. Thank you all.

you need to send her a wakeup call and let her know that you take care of her and need to be resepcted. Tell her that you guys have been fighting too much and you cant take it anymore and send her to her parents or familys house or whatever for a week. then shell get the message.

Hire a room, doesn't matter how much it costs, just hire a room somewhere, anywhere and treat your marketing like a real job. Keep your marketing and your home life seperate and all three of you will benefit from it

It will be hard to leave someone who would rather fight away cheating than leave the person she suspects of it. That's first thing.

We're only hearing one side of this story, too. No matter what advice you follow here, you could be following the wrong advice. Not bad advice necessarily, just the wrong advice for you.

Here is some advice as best as I can.

"Love and Heal" If you fear you will be destroyed. That means if you use fear, or allow external fear to invade your body, you are going to be miserable, in so few words. Much illness is caused by Fear - no matter if it's anger, sadness, or genuinely being scared. An explosion is no different than yelling at someone other than scale and the fact that the human voice is also backed by Intention.

Use this to your advantage in Love, and perhaps you can put your life back on track. Share this with her, and perhaps she will be more healthy.

I am not telling you to take my advice, I am just imploring you to remove fear from the equasion, and find out what she is fearing (whether it be scared-fear or other kinds of fear, like emitting fear as opposed to suffering it)

Also, you seem to be doing ok, why does she complain? Why not start socking away to start your own business brick/mortar? Get into it with her, see what she'd like to own. An obvious bit of advice is that before you ever start a novelty like a cafe or flower shop, make damned sure you have a necessity like a construction business or grocery.

I hope you think into these words. Love is powerful and more than just an emotion.

If you can't handle the pressure of making money on net now stop it (temporarily), keep it cool and talk to her. Settle your family problems first before you continue your adventure on internet. Sorry to hear about your problems.

Btw my 800th post!

tell her that you will stop talking to the females all day long on internet....and won't use computers....and will do what she wants but for that she will have to talk to guys on internet and bare all the expenses