Sorry about the weekendish post but it’s been on my mind since Sunday…
The story is quite surreal. I watched a show on NF a few years ago and thought of a character 'wow, she's hot'. Incidently, I watched another show more recently and again thought 'wow, she's hot' without realising it was the same woman. Only when I rewatched the first show more recently did I realise that's it's the same woman.
I started researching her online. She's not a massive star or anything like that. Those two shows were her only two notable appearences in anything international and she spends most of her time travelling / nomading actually.
To cut a long story short, I contacted her about a year ago on one of her SM which she posts on from time to time. And to my surprise she's been engaing with me and my content ever since.
Despite being on the other side of the world from me she frequents my City due to friends and family and said she'd love to meet up for a coffee when she's next over in a few weeks. I honestly wasn't expecting to ever actually meet in person.
I think in part it's my fault. Im somewhat invovled in the fashion industry, and said I could see her as the face for one of the product lines. I think she took that quite seriously and was very flattered too. Which was admittedly my intention.
Whenever I have a row with my wife, browsing her SM and listening to her sing or watching her smile was one of the few things that cheered me up a bit. That being said, couldn't dream of cheating on my wife despute her constant nagging about trivial stuff… however it would be extremely cool I feel to be sitting having a coffee with a chick I thought was way out of my league and someone I could only admire from afar as some kind of celebrity on Netflix. She doesn't know i'm married as I don't post family stuff on my SM but then i'm not entirely sure what her intentions are here.
Tl:dr is going for a coffee with another woman if you’re married / in a relationship classed as cheating?
The story is quite surreal. I watched a show on NF a few years ago and thought of a character 'wow, she's hot'. Incidently, I watched another show more recently and again thought 'wow, she's hot' without realising it was the same woman. Only when I rewatched the first show more recently did I realise that's it's the same woman.
I started researching her online. She's not a massive star or anything like that. Those two shows were her only two notable appearences in anything international and she spends most of her time travelling / nomading actually.
To cut a long story short, I contacted her about a year ago on one of her SM which she posts on from time to time. And to my surprise she's been engaing with me and my content ever since.
Despite being on the other side of the world from me she frequents my City due to friends and family and said she'd love to meet up for a coffee when she's next over in a few weeks. I honestly wasn't expecting to ever actually meet in person.
I think in part it's my fault. Im somewhat invovled in the fashion industry, and said I could see her as the face for one of the product lines. I think she took that quite seriously and was very flattered too. Which was admittedly my intention.
Whenever I have a row with my wife, browsing her SM and listening to her sing or watching her smile was one of the few things that cheered me up a bit. That being said, couldn't dream of cheating on my wife despute her constant nagging about trivial stuff… however it would be extremely cool I feel to be sitting having a coffee with a chick I thought was way out of my league and someone I could only admire from afar as some kind of celebrity on Netflix. She doesn't know i'm married as I don't post family stuff on my SM but then i'm not entirely sure what her intentions are here.
Tl:dr is going for a coffee with another woman if you’re married / in a relationship classed as cheating?