I'm freaking out

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flibbertigibbet said:
Truth is, we ARE animals. No matter now "educated" and "sophisticated" we may seem. Humans will always fight in a primal manner for what they want
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Animals are a lot better than we are ^^
You know what they are and what they do and thats it.
Humans are unpredictable and just naturally evil.

But don't think too much about this stuff, it messes with your head ;)

Just enjoy life!
 
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All of the posts in this thread are written by men (or boys).
 
BlackSeng said:
Ok, this is not an emo thread or anything.
So I was talking to a woman I used to like (not love and yes, I no longer like her) and she was talking to me about her life, her ex-boyfriends, and such.

Strangely, after listening I realize she wasn't as innocent as I thought to be.
All of a sudden, I felt like puking out... the back of my body turned cold and a chill creeps down my spine.

Now I USED to think women are innocent, the good kind, and such. But after I read a few books about picking up chicks (I don't apply the methods, just read em') I don't treat or see them as some GOD or something. But just normal humans. But somehow I have some good expectation of women and humans.

But after the chat with my teacher, it seems that the expectation was gone... I realize all women are the same. They are just like whores and no different from them (no offence, ladies). Then out of a sudden, I flashback on all those news reports, porno videos and such.. you know, video scandals, orgies and such... or videos of cruelty and the actual fact that humans are sadist by nature. I begin to feel more nauseated. I realize humans are just no different from animals, we're just all disgusting equally.

I mean, think about it.. you have a girlfriend, and some other guys will look at her and they will no doubt have thoughts and plans to get under her dress. Then of course, you see other girls and have the same.
Worststill, even if that woman turns out to be a mother whom already have kids, we still have mindset. Even if it's just teen girls, we still have such disgusting thoughts.

I begin to feel freak out and I do not know why. All these thoughts just come flashing and I kept contemplating over and over repetitiously. I began to tremble a little and realize the filthiness of mankind.

Any help? Seriously... I don't know why I have such thoughts and this.. I'm just confused and freak out... as if I just want to withdraw from society.
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All True and valid thoughts, but without this you wouldn't exist. It's Ying/Yang, you are right to worship them, but also you have to cherish them!
It's a healthy combination of Sweet and Sexy.
 
Hey man just cos there is a lot of ugliness in man doesn't mean there isn't a lot of beauty as well. I think it's all amazing, made even more so by the fact it's all fucking futile. In the words of Hunter S. Thompson "Buy the ticket, take the ride,". Don't dwell on the shitty stuff.
 
Oh yeah, and with regard to woman, yeah, they're just the same as men. They have impure thoughts and all that crap, but honestly, who gives a fuck? How boring would life be if we didn't? The important thing is appropriate self-control, and there are people out there, regardless of gender who don't have any. Don't be one of those people.
 
Man i realised this few years back and believe me i was in the same state of mind.

it truely SUCKS :(

More than feeling disgusting and getting disgusting thoughts, i was unhappy thinking about it.

but thats just the way it is.

Go and have a drink, Chillax.
 
Blackseng, what country do you live in? I ask because I find your teacher's advice disturbing. Also, different cultures view women differently. In some countries, dogs get more respect than women.

If you are a young person, "Catcher in the Rye" by J.D. Salinger is a good book to read. Puberty is a confusing time for boys. Hang in there. You will be fine, but talk with us anytime you feel you need to.
 
flexnds said:
Agreed.. We as humans are nothing special.. No heaven, no hell, no gods, no devils.. We live, we die.. The in between is ours...

This always cheers me up in situations like this

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Good use of Tool video +10 points

OP, sounds like you need a shag mate
 
OP don't be a beta phaggot and do NOT ever WK the girls, you're just becoming a tool for them. You gotta be the one to control how THEY think of you, not the other way around. GJDM
 
Aha this realization of the real world brings to mind the matrix.
but in any rate the world never has been a good place full of good people,
but instead of focusing on the bad people try to find some good ones

thats just my two cents
 
Women spend a lot of time hiding their urges:

"Women sometimes incur more severe costs than men do. Women risk impairing their desirability if they develop reputations for promiscuity since men prize fidelity in potential wives. Because of men's abhorrence of promiscuity in a permanent partner, casual sex for women becomes a risky venture for their reputations. Women known as promiscuous suffer reputational damage even in relatively promiscuous cultures, such as among the Swedes and the Ache Indians."

- The Evolution Of Desire: Strategies Of Human Mating by David Buss phd
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So you're just "freaking out" because you discovered women like sex too.

a lot

more than men sometimes.

Unfortunately, women will cite men like you (who will "freak out" if she expresses a liking of carnal urges) when you ask them why they are so "uptight" about sex.

Hence she has to jealously guard her sexuality and "play games"--because both society and genetics have conditioned us to frown upon displays of female sexuality.

But I for one am liberated.

Hence, if any girls out there would like to have casual sex with me, give me a call! My neurons might be inclined to judge you for your promiscuity...

But I won't!!!
 
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BlackSeng said:
I mean, think about it.. you have a girlfriend, and some other guys will look at her and they will no doubt have thoughts and plans to get under her dress. Then of course, you see other girls and have the same.
Worststill, even if that woman turns out to be a mother whom already have kids, we still have mindset. Even if it's just teen girls, we still have such disgusting thoughts.

I begin to feel freak out and I do not know why. All these thoughts just come flashing and I kept contemplating over and over repetitiously. I began to tremble a little and realize the filthiness of mankind.
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1) I don't look at girls and want to get "under their dress"... it's extremely rare I see any girl that's attractive enough to even look at at all.
2) Want to know how you avoid fretting over women and their "pasts"? You simply find intelligent ones (granted finding extremely hot girls who are also intelligent is challenging, but trust me it can be done, like my girlfriend :cool: )

So you're just "freaking out" because you discovered women like sex too.

a lot
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Sure, but that has next to nothing to do with being a slut, etc.
Even with guys, I personally love sex.... but I'm not running around screwing people, nor have I ever done so. I'm actually attractive and smart enough I could probably be quite successful if I decided to do that, but it's really very, very pointless.
I'm quite happy with my g/f, who is objectively gorgeous, and our non-promiscuous pasts.
This is how you elevate yourself, rather than just accepting it the way you clearly have.
 
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My friend BlackSeng

You still have yet to realize more
the world is materialistic, people only go after things they want.

Do you realize how people always 'get something that they want'? Then after a couple of months, they get so used to it and stop treating the 'object/person' with care and respect.

Think about the first time someone got their PS3 or Ipod. They took care of it simply because they 'wanted it'. Now people can throw that shit in the floor and let it crack or something and they wouldnt care as much simply because 'they are used to the material posession they so wanted or 'the person they so wanted to be with'

It is the same thing with humans as well. Just as humans want material possessions and only when they obtain it, they get used to it over the months and it longer becomes 'something they wanted'. The exact same thing goes for men and women.

A man/woman wants a woman/man and they get together and they treat each other with respect simply because its 'the get something that they want' action in the brain. After a couple of months treating each other with respect stops because you are used to each other just like with objects.

I didnt explain it well. But I hope you can grasp the concept of 'human nature'
 
Hmm..

You feel that bad and that is because you are now looking at the negative perspective of a human nature.

Remember that we are all different and unique. We do all have our own preference, favorites, tastes, likes and dislikes.

Try looking at the good side of a human nature. Watch videos of helping hands. You will feel better for sure.
 
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