I'm completely broken, what do i do?

You know man? I'm 45k in student loan debt, and my wife and I are trying to make ends meet on a day to day basis. About seven months ago we got the call that her mother's house in Thailand had collapsed. We sent over some people from the church to take pictures for us and just found that it was a wreck. They pulled together some pieces of the house and built a hut that they've been living in on the side of the property. It's moldy now, the roof leaks, and it's just a pretty terrible thing. But I'm working a full-time job, and every minute outside of that I've been working part-time jobs and researching what I can do to build her that house. I'm only 25 and my wife is 23. My father-in-law is dead.

That said, you just have to pick yourself up. Keep going. When you worry and you mope and complain (not saying you are, but just in general) it never helps your situation at all. Doing helps. I would say do whatever you can do. If it means dancing on a street corner, then get to dancing. Best of luck to you brother. Best of luck to both of us.

steelballs said:

Man you are at University = that means you are a very lucky person with golden opportunities in front of you - as for your supposed problem - grow up - stop whining and get a part time job!

Plus stop posting threads like this on BHW, thousands on this site have problems - but they keep the head down and work - they are the ones who earn money and respect on BHW not the whingers!

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I agree...

lakim0 said:

When I said VPS I meant I was going to buy service like bhsvps.com or seoextremetools to use them for site flipping.... I've got hostgator baby plan

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@OP, if you had another hosting, a good one at that, then your thread is out of place really.

Doing such a thing, you are making us look like fools.

How can we trust other members now when they have real real-life difficulty?

Sorry if this hurts you... but please be careful about opening such misleading thread in future.

You mentioned how bad a spot you are in because you don't have a hosting and therefore you are sinking.... now it looks like a big joke.


I really feel I wasted my time on writing that post to you.


Everything else in your OP is still ok, but you made it sound like that loss of opportunity to buy the VPS and begin a career in selling sites was the last straw on the back... as if you could have saved yourself only through that VPS... but you still have a hosting which can be still used to produce sites for selling... you should have mentioned that too IMHO and it was definitely related.

you'll be fine bro. we all have bad times and they always happen in bunches (mother always told me). keep fighting and better days are ahead. i promise you. you're smart, you're able and you're a fighter. people are always driven by either motivation or desperation but the latter makes a person very dangerous. go get it!

If you had ever done it, you can do it again. Do not lose hope, just try harder this time. I am sure you will be back on your feet
BTW, where do you live?

Steelballs has a good point. Allot of people on here have some serious problems but they
overcome it by hard work and a good attitude. So best thing to do is be grateful for what you have.

srb888 said:

I agree...


@OP, if you had another hosting, a good one at that, then your thread is out of place really.

Doing such a thing, you are making us look like fools.

How can we trust other members now when they have real real-life difficulty?

Sorry if this hurts you... but please be careful about opening such misleading thread in future.

You mentioned how bad a spot you are in because you don't have a hosting and therefore you are sinking.... now it looks like a big joke.


I really feel I wasted my time on writing that post to you.


Everything else in your OP is still ok, but you made it sound like that loss of opportunity to buy the VPS and begin a career in selling sites was the last straw on the back... as if you could have saved yourself only through that VPS... but you still have a hosting which can be still used to produce sites for selling... you should have mentioned that too IMHO and it was definitely related.

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In that case I am sorry to waste your time, I mentioned VPS not Web Hosting...

That doesn't really matter, if I have hosting than what? I said I lost all my sites, hosting won't help here, you got me wrong my friend.

Anyways, thank you for your kind words.

Why not try to set up a translation service, your English seems good. I'm sure there must be people wanting translation from English to Georgian and visa versa.

Set up a website offering the service in both English & Georgian once you have it set up send an email to all the press contacts you can find in your country telling them how you are building your own business to fund your way through college and help your family.

It will make a good story, the press always likes a good story.

letterman said:

Why not try to set up a translation service, your English seems good. I'm sure there must be people wanting translation from English to Georgian and visa versa.

Set up a website offering the service in both English & Georgian once you have it set up send an email to all the press contacts you can find in your country telling them how you are building your own business to fund your way through college and help your family.

It will make a good story, the press always likes a good story.

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Good idea, will give it a shot bro

Don't be so harsh to OP.Give him some break. He just wrote his feelings. So no blame please. OP, I have a $50 job for you (I hope your English is all OK).

PM me...

I feel for you Lakimo, experienced similar situations myself, and I do understand that you need to let it out and talk about it.
I think it's totally ok, and not a waste of anybodies time - at a certain point, your mind starts circling around itself and without input from outside you get stuck there, seeing no way out.
Can you pause university? Where I live, you could kinda pause, and once you come back, the passed exams are still valid and will still count.
You need to make money quick, so you have to failback to methods that work 100% and pay within then next 30 days (or at the end of the month).
So you either take a job as suggested or try to get your old IM methods starting (if you're 100% sure they will bring you money within 30 days).
But I think the IM route is kinda risky, since you need to invest something, and payout size and speed will depend on investment (more money-> faster money within 30days, small investment -> building up money, re-investing, rinse-repeat, that leading to a longer time till you make the money you need).

Get out there and offer yourself for cheap. This won't be the job you want to do for the next 10 years, so don't think about pride or what you're worth. You need this job only as a stepstone to achieve a good starting position, it's just a tool to get some time to make a better decision for the next job or IM method.

ps: In fact, I did the exact thing, that I mentioned, myself. Was in debt for my old self-employment, around 25k €. I was able to eleminate some of it, but had to search for an employment afterwards. At that time I started with IM, I found a job with very small payout for doing some backlinking etc. I learned all I could get my hands on,learned tools, methods, terms, really, I saw that job as paid course to get deeper into IM. After half a year I switched to a bigger comany with regular salary, was able to elminate nearly all of my depts and still learning while I get paid. In the meantime i am quite good (ace) at adwords, and I think that alone will bring me into a better position if I should switch again.

Please first understand that making money under pressure is more difficult than if you wouldn't have to worry about losing some. Internet marketing is not a quick way to earn money, it's actually more difficult than going to a brick and mortar office and working there. I would really suggest you take something like a night shift job and sleep after your classes. You need to focus out of your computer into the physical world and look for easier opportunities there, for now.

Oh Thailand is cheap? I just had some chicken tenders, some fries and vanilla milk at a pretty standard place about an hour ago: $ 21.
You will definitely lose more if you come here. It's a very difficult country to make money unless you know a whole bunch of people.

Bloghat said:

I feel for you Lakimo, experienced similar situations myself, and I do understand that you need to let it out and talk about it.
I think it's totally ok, and not a waste of anybodies time - at a certain point, your mind starts circling around itself and without input from outside you get stuck there, seeing no way out.
Can you pause university? Where I live, you could kinda pause, and once you come back, the passed exams are still valid and will still count.
You need to make money quick, so you have to failback to methods that work 100% and pay within then next 30 days (or at the end of the month).
So you either take a job as suggested or try to get your old IM methods starting (if you're 100% sure they will bring you money within 30 days).
But I think the IM route is kinda risky, since you need to invest something, and payout size and speed will depend on investment (more money-> faster money within 30days, small investment -> building up money, re-investing, rinse-repeat, that leading to a longer time till you make the money you need).

Get out there and offer yourself for cheap. This won't be the job you want to do for the next 10 years, so don't think about pride or what you're worth. You need this job only as a stepstone to achieve a good starting position, it's just a tool to get some time to make a better decision for the next job or IM method.

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I added too many +rep today, I wish I could do it one more time for you

Thank you for your kind words, you feel me 100% ))

Watch it and Begin to work

lakim0, pm me I will buy you a VPS that comes with scrapebox.

I'm surprised that I've got lots of PM's trying to help me, some people here offered me a job, I'm glad that we have kind people on BHW

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I purchased this e-book for 100$, used and making over 200$ good days (weekends,when many games are going on), you should know which networks allow iframing (CPABeyond does),don't say things like that,I use it and make good money

Good luck everyone!
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Ref.: Date of post: 10-23-2012, 03:05 PM Today is: 11-12-2012. Days passed: about 20. You said you're making easy money, over $200 on good days... that's a good amount in Georgia, Europe I think...
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... and you say you are broke since last 1 month.

Then you opened this thread immediate after that other post:

... where you again said you have lost everything...

that thread was opened on 10-29-2012, 07:00 AM, only 5 days after you said you are earning $200+ on good days... and implying that you may be earning less than $200 on other days...


3.
http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackh...treaming-method-easy-100-day.html#post4819206
Here you say you are earning easy money with CPA...
Date of post: 10-23-2012, 02:31 PM should I say you are between 2 periods of being totally bankrupt...!!!!!

May I find some more instances?

What's the truth?

Guys, please be careful about such thread. That's all I want to say now.

Read all his posts and then decide to part with anything valuable. Even an advice can lose its value if given away without being careful.


Mods, I request you to please look into this...
Somehow, one of the above isn't sounding to be true.

srb888 said:

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I purchased this e-book for 100$, used and making over 200$ good days (weekends,when many games are going on), you should know which networks allow iframing (CPABeyond does),don't say things like that,I use it and make good money

Good luck everyone!
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Ref.: Date of post: 10-23-2012, 03:05 PM Today is: 11-12-2012. Days passed: about 20. You said you're making easy money, over $200 on good days... that's a good amount in Georgia, Europe I think...
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[URL]http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackhat-seo/making-money/495279-cpa-streaming-method-easy-100-day.html#post4819291[/URL]

... and you say you are broke since last 1 month.

Then you opened this thread immediate after that other post:

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[URL]http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackhat-seo/making-money/497036-start-up-cash.html#post4837442[/URL]

... where you again said you have lost everything...

that thread was opened on 10-29-2012, 07:00 AM, only 5 days after you said you are earning $200+ on good days... and implying that you may be earning less than $200 on other days...


3.
http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackhat-seo/making-money/495279-cpa-streaming-method-easy-100-day.html#post4819206
Here you say you are earning easy money with CPA...
Date of post: 10-23-2012, 02:31 PM should I say you are between 2 periods of being totally bankrupt...!!!!!

May I find some more instances?

What's the truth?

Guys, please be careful about such thread. That's all I want to say now.

Read all his posts and then decide to part with anything valuable. Even an advice can lose its value if given away without being careful.


Mods, I request you to please look into this...
Somehow, one of the above isn't sounding to be true.

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That was the CPA method I have used for one month, it has got no profit anymore.

I just said that to prove people that the method was working, don't quote my words.

That's all introduction, what do you think why did I open this thread?

I'm making over 200$ a day and saying that I'm in a bad situation?

What are you trying to do bro?

No need to be so skeptical.

Mods, please close this thread so he won't blame me for telling lies. why do I need this, think clrealy.

OP I have got nothing against you. I read your posts and found the contradictions... why don't you read your own posts (those referenced) first? Why would I do anything negative to someone who is in real need? I have never done that before, nor I will ever do that anytime in future. But when I see something wrong, I point to it. Explain about those posts and you can carry on.

srb888 said:

OP I have got nothing against you. I read your posts and found the contradictions...

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again : I made some cash with that CPA method but not that much but my friend did... so I said that to prove people and give some inspiration. OK, I'm sorry, I've not made that much with that method, I just wanted to share.

The only reason for opening this thread is that I wanted to share my feelings, I'll keep it in mind next time. I apologize if someone feels uncomfortable because of my story, please feel free to close this thread since it has no value to the community.

Hello

i am nickk owner of ultravpsbox

mark did pay me for a vps with scrapebox for you for one month

add me on Skype admin_ultravpsbox to provide you with the details of your vps

if you are really completely broken, except mark one month , I will extend your vps for one more for free by me

we should never forget why this forum is by far much better than all others

we are a community here and it is not few times that we help each other

lets keep it this way

MarkWW said:

lakim0, pm me I will buy you a VPS that comes with scrapebox.

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