Im a complete loser

Here is what I recommend....
Got to youtube, search you tube videos of "David Snyder" NLP.....

If it doesn't help, let me know because I will be very surprised....you may even find a few ideas.

Best of luck, I remember being 17, I can only imagine what you maybe going thru.....

Want to know how to fix all your problems?

Work. Yes, fucking work. 12 hours a day everyday.

I promise you your life is much better than millions of people. You have access to Internet, you have food and shelter and parents who care about you.

Then why the fuck are you complaining?

Unless you live in a third world country, homeless, struggling to have food, you have no excuses.

I know people who have it worse than you but still make it in life.

So pick yourself up and start doing something. Working towards your goals everyday and put other people opinions out of your mind. Do it for 10 years and then come back, tell those assholes who bully you 'Now what?'

Life is an experience.
Everyone will eventually die so why die today or tomorrow or next week?
You should live your life until the very end because you will eventually die anyways.
After your life is over, you will literally be nothing, like dust.
You will feel no joy, no suffering, no happiness, no sadness, just nothing.
So value your life and your time because it really is all you have.

Hi man, I will just give a small advice concerning "Acne" I know how this shitty problem can DESTROY your life.. Please who never went through this don't think this is an
exggeratetion.

I spent my worst teenage due to this shitty problem and unlucky my family was so careless about that, they just said stuff (It's normal it will go with it's own)

I spent 6 years with horrible acne & low confidence and self esteem, from 15 to 21.

I just went to a doctor and I was so open to him and he gave me that very strong medicine (Acutane), this medicine WILL cure you.. I didn't listen to All of its probable downsides.. all of the stuff it does not comparable to the mental issues the acne problem do.

There is a solution for it.. go for it.

Second thing, start working out so hard, you will start get more confidence and self admire.

Lastly, In this period you will pass with many Ups and downs, but never ever say to yourself* I hate myself* , I look horrible, etc.. instead start saying good words about yourself with loud voice, It will be cringy and weird as fuc* but It will have a good effect on you and your mind automatically gonna believe it gradually!

Good luck man and Don't be harsh on yourself.

JamieJayden said:

Hi,
I just want to write some things of myself of.
I'm 17 years old. I hate myself since some years, my self confidence is below zero and I'm ugly . I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser. I have the worst attitude possible' i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own. I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

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Every word you said applies to me, trust me, I feel like I wrote this lol.

Good luck bud, I'm on the same train as you.

Frenzied said:

Every word you said applies to me, trust me, I feel like I wrote this lol.

Good luck bud, I'm on the same train as you.

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I wish I was 17 & in highschool. I'm in my mid 20's. Everyday is work

Buddy none is ugly in this world. You feel ugly but you are not. By the way I think you should check anything related to dealing with anxiety and depression.

Please, don't think like this. I know that things might look tough now but with time all youe negative feelings will go away. Think about your parents before taking your life. They spend countless sleepless nights trying to raise you. How would they feel when they will see your dead body.

Your attitude reminds me of my cousin. He actually tried to commit suicide 3 times in 2009-2010 because he considered himself a loser. He failed twice in HS and got kicked out of the house. Then he worked as a mechanic where he made like $100 a month for few years (used to sleep in the shop). Well, now he has 12 stores of car parts throughout my country and makes anywhere from 15K-25K usd a month. The point is, you never know what the future holds for you. Also, you're too young to realize most of these things. Just stay motivated and work hard because no one can take away your hard work, your dedication and your knowledge.

jazzc said:

Let me guess - if that fails, rinse and repeat?

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Rinse with bleach and repeat.

Except for the lucky few who are born into rich families, success is a rough road for 99% of us. Never give up, we're all on the same boat.

mickyfu said:

You are a loser when you get to 40 and still live with your parents and never worked in your life, because you think the world owes you something.

People your age are just going through the changes in life. Chill out, have some beers and fuck some pros.

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ohh fuck off mickyfu, my mom makes the best food I love living with her at 40.

OP - heres the best tip youll get on this thread, join a martial arts group /course. dont question it just do it.

OP I hope you're doing better

I've been there. I can assure you you're not as bad as you think you are right now.
Eventually, you'll grow out of this mentality, you'll be able to see your strengths that are being ignored because you're too focused on your shortcomings.

I was in the same place as you, I found my passion on IM and when things go rolling your self confidence really goes up since you know you are doing something great in life, unlike the 99% of reactive people who decide to be a bunch of conformist lazy fucks that go along with anything that life offers them:

E.g. Oh I spent 5 years of my life stydying a degree I don't even like but I hope I get a job whenever I get finished with this shit, I have heard out there this has a lot of job offerings once done. That is what makes this fucking world decay.

Spend time doing different things and you will eventually something you like and you can make money with. Don't listen to those stupid advises saying this comes to your mind through magic, I was one day laying on the beach and suddenly the holy spirit illuminated me and showed me what my passion was, since then I have been a winner. Those kind of tips are the most ridiculous shit I've ever heard.

Money doesnt bring happiness but it does maje your life easier and allows you to do anything hou like.