Im a complete loser

jazzc said:

Disappoint? I'd say the opposite. I can only express admiration that you even tried to go there on your own will.

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Yeah. Thanks I suppose. Don’t want to high jack this thread though. Feel free to dm me to get some more info about this decision and my live’s events.

Don't take too stress in your life, Good and bad people will come in your life. So choose good people who care for you by heart not my mouth. Beside everything talk to your parents first, tell them the darkness of your life which you think to be. As you stated the name of company. it's french publication company which no matters in your life if you are there with them. So coming in front of truck/bus or doing suicide being never be a solution of life. Also you are stop yourself while thinking about your parents otherwise you'll do that before publishing to this forum.
Life is not easy, it's take an exam in every step if you pass it you'll win that step. If you think an exam it would be hard to go if you think.. Okay.. Np.. I'll do it. SO you can do it.
So be relax, enjoy your life. If you know hindi a little bit just watch movie Jhootha Hi Sahi..
One famous dialogue which i love a lot.. Kya rakha hai iss zindagi ke sivay hamare pass. dusri zindagi.. dekhi hai.. Nahi na.. so enjoy this life do whatever you want. No boundations, nothing.. Just you and your dreams, your life.
In English "Kya rakha hai iss zindagi ke sivay hamare pass. dusri zindagi.. dekhi hai.. Nahi na.."
Person 1: What we have except this life?
Person 2: second life..
Person 1: Did you ever see your second Life..
Person 2: No..
Person 1: Then enjoy this life do whatever you want. No boundations, nothing. Start dancing on any music which comes in your mind. Play music from your mind and dance. Laugh on any Joke. You'll love your life.

I think i said too long to you but try once, may be you'll back to your life which you want to be in your way. Suicide is a worse Option.

Here the movie link in Hindi:

haroune fahl said:

just FAP and everything will seem good again

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jazzc said:

Let me guess - if that fails, rinse and repeat?

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OP's reaction after rinse & repeat wank sessions don't work for him.

No one is looser today, buddy you also have right to see dreams and fulfill them. No one is ugly, everyone is God's child and I am sure that you whole problem is your face and acne. So for this you can search so many remedies on internet and can deal with a good doctor. Its just for few time, no need to worry. here are some tips which you can go for-
1. Start drinking more water
2. Avoid Junk food
3. Avoid oily stuff
4. Start thinking positive
5. Don't listen anyone apart from family, because people come in your life to proof you a looser.
6. if still have problems then consult to doctor

No need to worry bro, everything will be fine soon

JamieJayden said:

and I'm ugly

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A speaker at an acting audition I went to as a kid told all of us something that I still remember: "there's a good chance that everyone in this room was checked out at least once before walking in". It doesn't sound very memorable at first, but really think about. Go outside and look at the ugly couples around town and consider that they found someone else who thinks they're attractive enough to shag to shag them.

JamieJayden said:

I have the worst attitude possible'

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Self-loathing is annoying, but it's hardly the worst possible attitude.

JamieJayden said:

I got bullied when i was younger

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Yeah, so did I. But I don't really care because those people grew up to be real losers, anyway. The only reason I know this is because I've kept track of some of them over the years. Let me tell you about one guy I grew up with.

This guy used to call himself my friend, but he would leave me covered in bruises, shoot me with his paintball gun, and he even once tried lightning me on fire. He'd hit me for not doing drugs, he'd hit me for not fitting in with his friends, and sometimes he'd just hit me to hit me. Once this guy was an adult, he got kicked out of his mother's house for selling drugs, got kicked out of his girlfriend's house for hitting her (and a restraining order, if I recall correctly), got hooked on all kinds of drugs living in a basement in Mexico, got sent to jail, moved in with his grandparents after getting out, got kicked out of his grandparents house for selling drugs, and now I think he's back in jail.

Now that guy is a loser, but you can't tell me you still think you're a loser after reading this guy's summarised life?

JamieJayden said:

i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude,

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If they're as super as you say they are, I'm sure they understand.

Wait, have you talked to your parents about this? If not, you should.

JamieJayden said:

also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own.

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There's nothing wrong with being introverted.

JamieJayden said:

and i got acne

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Most teenagers get acne. Although, I remember a doctor gave me 5% benzoyl peroxide for it and I kid you not it was gone over night (okay, I'm exaggerating, but it cleared up quickly). The acne scars were still there for a while, but they cleared up eventually.

JamieJayden said:

I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore.

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Yeah, I've hit this point before.

I don't like discussing it, but it was very uncharacteristic of me.

JamieJayden said:

I suck at everything

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No, considering I can understand what you wrote, you write better than the content writers I have to reject from the marketplace, so you don't suck at everything.

Listen to Zig Ziglar you'll be fine

You need to find something to inspire you in your life. Then, go for it! Don't forget you are only 17

ugliness is inside us not outside us believe me

Teen DRAMA

JamieJayden said:

Hi,
I just want to write some things of myself of.
I'm 17 years old. I hate myself since some years, my self confidence is below zero and I'm ugly . I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser. I have the worst attitude possible' i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own. I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

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don't take life so serious , your not ugly and you got abilty to be anythink in life your only 17.

if you fill depressed go to your doctors you might be suffering from depression .

you need a proper doctor examination.

good luck mate cheer up, do somethink that makes you smile , you must like some hobby.

Zwielicht said:

A speaker at an acting audition I went to as a kid told all of us something that I still remember: "there's a good chance that everyone in this room was checked out at least once before walking in". It doesn't sound very memorable at first, but really think about. Go outside and look at the ugly couples around town and consider that they found someone else who thinks they're attractive enough to shag to shag them.

Self-loathing is annoying, but it's hardly the worst possible attitude.

Yeah, so did I. But I don't really care because those people grew up to be real losers, anyway. The only reason I know this is because I've kept track of some of them over the years. Let me tell you about one guy I grew up with.

This guy used to call himself my friend, but he would leave me covered in bruises, shoot me with his paintball gun, and he even once tried lightning me on fire. He'd hit me for not doing drugs, he'd hit me for not fitting in with his friends, and sometimes he'd just hit me to hit me. Once this guy was an adult, he got kicked out of his mother's house for selling drugs, got kicked out of his girlfriend's house for hitting her (and a restraining order, if I recall correctly), got hooked on all kinds of drugs living in a basement in Mexico, got sent to jail, moved in with his grandparents after getting out, got kicked out of his grandparents house for selling drugs, and now I think he's back in jail.

Now that guy is a loser, but you can't tell me you still think you're a loser after reading this guy's summarised life?

If they're as super as you say they are, I'm sure they understand.

Wait, have you talked to your parents about this? If not, you should.

There's nothing wrong with being introverted.

Most teenagers get acne. Although, I remember a doctor gave me 5% benzoyl peroxide for it and I kid you not it was gone over night (okay, I'm exaggerating, but it cleared up quickly). The acne scars were still there for a while, but they cleared up eventually.

Yeah, I've hit this point before.

I don't like discussing it, but it was very uncharacteristic of me.

No, considering I can understand what you wrote, you write better than the content writers I have to reject from the marketplace, so you don't suck at everything.

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Thanks for the mood

YOU ARE NOT!
YOU ARE WORTHY!
get rid of that depression.
sometimes life might be hard, but it is okay, it's a part of life that we all need to learn.
Change. Even it is difficult or impossible, just try to take a baby step to change and you can achieve ANYTHING you want.
Trust me. I've been there.

Don't feel sorry, move forward. It sounds like you feel you treat your parents unfairly, a good first step to improving would be to sincerely apologize to them and to make a change. Change your perspective of how you see yourself and how you interact with others. If someone tries to ruin your day, don't let them.

Your life is your perspective. To be a loser, you must not be a winner. Find what you want to win, and win it.

Get a job at mcdonalds, buy cryptos...wait 5-10 years, and you will be set

Chill bro..

Chill, dude! You are just 17 y.o! Just find something that brings joy to you. Try to read, DIY, IM, development, whatever. I'm sure that you will find your calling!

If I could offer some humble advice.

Take small steps to improve your thinking and perspective. Remember, you can only control 2 things, your thoughts and your actions. Everything else is out of your hands.

Get on Pinterest and collect positive quotes that you can look at whenever those negative thoughts creep in.

Read self-help books or watch youtube channels or ted talks about depression and self-esteem.

you are not a looser since you are still too young...
you have many years and many events ahead to make a good choices

and you are on this forum... i wish i knew about this forum when i was 17

Hello, I have some good news and bad news for you. The bad news is you are stupid and lazy. You doesn't want to work hard on yourself. You are looking for the easiest way and asking others to pitty you is one of them. The good news is you can change that. Take a moment to look who the richest men in the world are. One can say they are all ugly. Being ugly didn't prevent them from getting anything they want though. Can you believe it?! If people overcome much worse things in their lives, then what's your excuse? Being stupid and lazy, right?

You got bullied because you didn't stand up for yourself. You expected others to do that for you. Now that's a really bad plan! What if noone comes to help? Stop being a wimp, toughen up! If others can do it, so can you. Learn from them.

The fact that hot chicks don't want you is not because you think you are ugly. The reason is that you are stupid and uninteresting. People want to live a positive life. Nobody wants to hear your negative shit. "This vacation is so great, honey. You know what would make it even better? I really like when you start talking about how miserable your life is..". This doesn't happen, does it? Get smart, be interesting. Read at least one book a week, so you can start conversations on many different topics with people. Its BHW! You can learn how to get any book/audiobook for free! There are books that can solve ALL the problems you have.

To develop bulleftproof confidence, you gotta work on your positive habits. Start doing little things every day. Work out, read books, eat healthy, avoid toxic people such as yourself..

Set some goals. You can't live a good life without them.

This thread has 4 pages. If you don't write down notes, nothing will ever change for you.

Dude, you are not a total loser. Such concepts shouldn't even be on your mind. Let's put things in perspective here:

I have literally never been kissed by anyone of the opposite sex, not related to me. My best friends are my right and left hand. I've gained more weight than I've ever had. In my free time I either watch movies or play games, even though lately I have not been doing much of gaming. Most of my shirts have holes in them. My lower back often hurts due to bad posture. I'm not getting any younger and my shoes sometimes smell like Doritos. I still get by in life and do my thing.

So no, I doubt you are a total loser. Just take life one step at a time and eventually you'll get to where you want to be.