Im a complete loser

Hi,
I just want to write some things of myself of.
I'm 17 years old. I hate myself since some years, my self confidence is below zero and I'm ugly . I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser. I have the worst attitude possible' i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own. I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

What do you enjoy in life? There must be something?

Kid. your 17 your not a loser YET. But if you keep on the path your going you WILL be one. You gotta wake up and smell the roses, some of the ugliest guys in the world have some of the most beautiful women and the most money in the world. YOU need to put the effort in and stop feeling sorry for yourself, its unhealthy and its going to fuck you up repeatedly in life until you stop it. Im successful but I didn't get that way over nite, when life kicked my ass I kicked back harder repeatedly and now im in a decent position. But STILL working towards a higher one. Your going to have to man up pretty soon or youll be screwed kid.

make money and get plastic surgeries problem fixed :O

Do not be so harsh on yourself. Give time some time.

Well. Look at the bright side. A lot of youngsters today are these loudmouthed know-it-all’s. And that’s not you. So in my book you’re One point ahead. (G-d I hate these modern-assertive types with their whiny undertone.)

Try to adjust your attitude towards your parents. The reason why you act out in your current manner might be because you know they will stick by you no matter how much shit you give them. And to be honest they don’t deserve that.

And fuck those bullies. Your day will come eventually. Just focus on what is important to you and your surrounding. IM is a great way to avoid to much one on one interaction in the real world. But sadly if you get hit by a truck you will never ever achieve anything in IM, so I suggest that you keep looking left, right, and then left again before you cross the street.

Keep your head up. Live is shit, you just need to kick it in the balls.

JamieJayden said:

Hi,
I just want to write some things of myself of.
I'm 17 years old. I hate myself since some years, my self confidence is below zero and I'm ugly . I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser. I have the worst attitude possible' i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own. I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

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if you set aim and reach it in 3 yrs then your peers will be in the position you are now while you will have business boy

JamieJayden said:

Hi,
I just want to write some things of myself of.
I'm 17 years old. I hate myself since some years, my self confidence is below zero and I'm ugly . I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser. I have the worst attitude possible' i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own. I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

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Self-pity won't get you out of it.

Positives:
- Bullies are always losers, as they pick on smaller people. Guess what they will eventu, of course,hat they deserve. They will fuck with someone that will just end it So they are the losers not who they pick on
- You are 17, while there are some great success stories from very young people, the average will still be in school/some sort of education.
- Even if you suck at school, not having a piece of paper does not define you. You can make it without that bachelor/diploma/masters whatever. While I do not know which country you are from, many are just made to make money and you barely learn shit. Ask someone with a Bachelors about practical knowledge that can be applied and see what you can back (again of course the average).

Anyway, you are 17 years old, you still have many years ahead of you and just stay positive:
- You are alive
- Your parents are good
- Likely you are not starving and are doing ok

Could be worse right

PS Go see a counselor if you cannot overcome this by yourself, better than on BHW or any forum.

JamieJayden said:

Hi,
I just want to write some things of myself of.
I'm 17 years old. I hate myself since some years, my self confidence is below zero and I'm ugly . I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser. I have the worst attitude possible' i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own. I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

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You need to find something to inspire you in your life. Or listen to that Jordan Peterson guy. I'm hearing he's good at giving people meaning to their life.

That's what people in your situation tend to not have

Hey,
you know the saying along the lines of 'success is the best revenge'? Well thats what youre going to do to your bullies alright? Theyre idiots with no ambitions in life so they try to feel better by belittling others. You know how far that attitude will take them in life? Not any further than cleaning the toilets at the burger king around the corner. You have ambition though, at least youre in the right place for it in this forum, surrounding yourself with ambitious people. You can make it in life. So my suggestion is work hard, dont give a damn about the negative people in your life and improve yourself. At the risk of sounding like a guru ill suggest r/NoFap on reddit to you, as most people our age (im not much older than you) have a problem with pornography and masturbation these days. A lot of people there report that cutting it out of their life helped them out of their depression and improved their confidence (I can confirm that too, although i was never really depressed). Its also a great place with supportive people sharing ideas for self improvement, so i suggest you try it out (especially if its hard and you fail at first, that means it might be a bigger problem than you think). Thanks for reading!

At 17 I was in the military, living away from my family as were other guys on this forum. I know other people who were homeless / living rough at that age.

Sorry but the reality is - man up, grow a pair and do something with your life.

The world does not owe you a living, get out there and fucking make your parents proud of you but more importantly be proud of yourself.

You're ugly ? Looks are not everything, so get rid of that attitude too.

You don't need to come onto a forum with these issues, if you are wanting to kill yourself, tell your parents and go see a doctor / health professional or ring a help hotline such as Samaritans.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Remember that.

I used to think I was ugly when I was at school; I really hated the way I looked. Used to spend hours in front of the mirror trying to make my hair look right.

Now I like the way I look. And guess what, I don’t look any different really to the way I did back then; it’s just my viewpoint that has changed.

You really have to just believe in yourself, somehow. Go and learn something and that will probably give you confidence. I took up martial arts not long ago and that has changed my life and super charged my confidence: the sense of achievement when you work at bettering yourself, and you see the results, is amazing.

Good luck.

JamieJayden said:

Hi,
I just want to write some things of myself of.
I'm 17 years old. I hate myself since some years, my self confidence is below zero and I'm ugly . I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser. I have the worst attitude possible' i have super parents but i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own. I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

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You're ugly, I'm a red dragon!

Man up, you're 17 for fuck's sake.

You opened up this thread to gather attention, which worked. Of course people will treat you nicely here, but that's not the reality.

You are a loser. So, if it bothers you that much, go change it. There are millions if not billions of people who have it worse than you. In fact, you'll never amount to anything with that mindset, so have fun with the temporary relief of people on here telling you "it's okay!!!".

JamieJayden said:

I'm ugly

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Okay, first of all you need to stop saying this to yourself. Because whatever you focus on tends to expand.

JamieJayden said:

I got bullied when i was younger and i got acne, so for myself im a complete big loser.

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The past does not equal the future. You have 24 hours every day to get up and make your life the greatest time you will ever have.

JamieJayden said:

i act like shit to them because of my shit attitude, also im associal and introvert, so i like to be on my own.

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Guess what, no one will ever do anything about it. You recognized your flaws, now its time to work on them. Take little steps. Success is taking little steps each and every day.

JamieJayden said:

I suck at everything. I just sometimes want a car or truck drives over me so the world doesnt have this loser anymore. Yes, i dont want to live anymore.

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You need to part of your own rescue. No one will help you if you don't start helping yourself. Your 17, you have your whole life literally in front of you.

You literally have time to make everything great in your life, you just need a little encouragement. And if you feel helpless, then seek out help. Maybe a Lifecoach or a Psychotherapist can help you in that situation.

theRevolt said:

- Bullies are always losers, as they pick on smaller people.

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Very right. I realized it quite late but it is nice to see those bullies running away from me now. OP, your time will also come.

First, Go to GYM.. Seriously you live will change completely!! I repeat, completely when you go to GYM your body will change a lot!

Are you a fat guy? Stop crying, do diet and lose weight, and gain muscle, you will be more beautiful and your confidence will increase (this is serious!).

Are you skinny guy? Stop cry, do diet and gain weight (eating healthy), get ABS, gain muscle.

You are a shy guy to go to Gym? No problem, when you go for your first time to gym you will have shame and you will feel uncomfortable, but when you go to gym for 2 weeks you will lose the shame.

This is a serious suggestion! Your life can change, you can do it. Just go to Gym. Make exercise, change your life...

How? Going Gym, if you feel you are "ugly" change your clothing style, using new clothing and combining the clothing. Take a new haircut.

Do you use Eyeglasses for myopia or other something? You feel like a nerd, geek? Take a breath and change it to contact lenses!!

And you are go to make sucess, remember. You need to do this for you, don't wait others do this for you. That doesn't gonna happen. Gain courage and fight for you.

Take this serious, i'm talking serious not trolling. Stop crying or waiting for some change on your life, you can do it very easy... Just fight for it. Don't make Internet you life. Go out with friends, take a breath. Make sports, something you like.

What I can tell you is, the gym does big chances on your body, when you see the results your self esteem will have a BIG INCREASE, a BIG!

JamieJayden said:

I'm ugly.

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There are 3 ways to get chicks: looks, money and humour; so you still have 2 potentially left-->
go make some money, now, go.

That's what this guy did, see the girl he got?

You are a loser when you get to 40 and still live with your parents and never worked in your life, because you think the world owes you something.

People your age are just going through the changes in life. Chill out, have some beers and fuck some pros.

At seventeen, you haven't even started to dig for success. You're not even done with the first inning yet. Get going!