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I will never objectify women again, here is why

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  1. nonai

    nonai Power Member

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    tonight I was at a halloween parade and you know there parades are always so crowded you run into people a lot. So I was walking through and this guy grabbed my dick. I am not kidding. and it was not an accident. It was definitely intentional. He took his time to really grab and caress my cock. I wanted to punch him in the face but this would not be considered self defense. Chances are he would deny the whole thing and I would be the one being charged with assault.

    in the past, I would think "why do victims of rape act like such bitches? It's not a big deal"

    but I felt so violated and traumatized.

    I learned my lesson. I will never treat women as sex objects again.
     
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    Me and my girlfriend were reading this and dying (first time she ever read a post on BHW)

    It was so funny to us but I'm truly sorry you had to go through that.
     
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    I think objectifying women and raping them are many, many miles apart... I've probably been guilty of objectifying women on one or more occasions, but I certainly don't grab at their genitalia without invitation (or at least, acquiescence :p)

    You were sexually assaulted, not 'objectified'. Let's keep those lines clear...
     
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    I guess that was Tim Cook
     
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    good, nobody should, me neither, however i'm a sinner myself in treating women as a sex object like most men do

    but you forget one thing, women can and will do the same, at least i experienced a quite few times, they're grabbing my ass when on a crowded dance floor and yea, i can tell the difference when something is unintentional or intentional
    i don't really make a big deal out of it, i could feel traumatized too, but i don't really care, drunk people do a lot of stupid stuff
    on the other hand, if i were to touch the ass of a random girl and she didn't like it - i'd never do such thing btw - i'd be escorted out of the party maybe beaten up by the security guards lol

    don't get me wrong, i love women, but they can treat you (a man) as sex object too, it's not always the other way around

    on the other hand you can take that dick grabbing as a compliment, gay people have sophisticated taste which means you're an attractive human being :)
     
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    Bahahaha....omg.

     
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    Yea... there is a huge difference between objectification and assault. Also, not sure how you could say "why do victims of rape act like such bitches? It's not a big deal". Did honestly believe that rape was not a big deal. You got your crotch grabbed, you weren't anally penetrated. I've never been sexually assaulted and though I may have at some point in my life objectified a woman in some way I have never thought that rape or assault were no big deal and that those suffering were "bitches". Sorry, but you're ignorant as hell.
     
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    1 of a billion things that is wrong with the world. How could anyone in their right mind think harming another human being is "not a big deal"?

    Sorry that your dick was man-rubbed by some gay guy. At least he left your dick, balls, and anus intact.


    Glad your thoughts have changed. Some people go their entire life in the state of ignorance which tend to have a negative impact on society. I hope other men (and women) who believe as you did about rape don't have to experience sexual assault before they realize such thinking is wrong, disgusting, and sick.

    If a woman went through something like:

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2012_Delhi_gang_rape#Medical_treatment_and_death

    and survived...If she started acting like a "bitch," that would be the least of a society's worries.
     
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    Well Jlo's recent video had me objectifying like a mofo:


    It's pretty natural and fun to objectify, it doesn't mean we can't also see the opposite sex as our mothers, sisters and daughters too though (though not at the same time obviously - I'm sorry, have I ruined sex for you now :p)
     
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    men get "harassed" too (check vid)
     
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    I think you're a marked man now. They can find you among 10k people now. Don't go out without this:
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    jk :D It must be happening to lot many males all around you, and all around this world every minute. May be you can still sue him? See if his DNA is found on that part where he 'touched' you. ;) Get him no matter what it takes... lol

    P.S.
    May be your DNA is still on his hand... get the law on him.
     
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    You not wearing anything on the parade? If not how can he takes his time to grab and caress so easily?
     
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    Western society has a deep fascination with objectifying underage girls. And nowhere is this more visible than in the fashion industry and the media.

    The average age that high fashion models start their career is 12-16. The average age of a magazine model in the US is >>>16 (celebrities are not considered "models" in the industry since it's their fame, not looks that gets attention). Model scouts book for fashion shows, print ads, events.... and they look for girls specifically in this age bracket.

    This is because once women hit puberty, many of them put on fat and get heavy. If a woman is 19, and tries to start a career in fashion or modeling more than 90% of the time she will be turned down.

    Young women are objectified and sexualized everywhere you look. Look at MTV ... 16 & Pregnant, Teen Moms, My Super Sweet Sixteen... if you want a successful reality show find young, over-sexualized women.

    Big Pharma does something similar. The second that young, attractive women hit college they start scouting these women to become drug reps. And you will NOT get a job as a drug rep for Big Pharma unless you are a young, attractive female (you can but it's very rare). This is why Big Pharma regularly goes to fashion shows as well. They start scouting these women as early as 16 even though it's illegal.

    Child pornography is a 3 billion dollar industry. 3xs more than ALL online gaming combined. And more shockingly, pedophiles are the minority. "Hebophiles" & "Ephephiles" make up the majority. These are men who search for "teen sex" online. If you have ever masturbated to porn of an 18 or 19 year old, you are technically considered an "Ephephile". Furthermore, 20% of all online porn involves women UNDER the age of 18. Seeing that almost all men watch porn, and 1/3 of women.... you do the math.

    Here's another crazy fact on "child porn". In America, an underage girl can be fully clothed, take sexual pictures of herself, give it to an older man and he can be arrested for child porn. All she has to do is bend over and be in any type of sexually suggestive position. Read this article: Could child beauty pagents be banned in the USA?

    NOW, think about that, think about what you see in magazines, tv and print ads.... and legally speaking, everyone in this country has seen a form of child porn.

    For a more in depth look on this topic watch the NetFlix doc: "Are All Men Pedophiles?"

    If you wanna talk about real "objectifying"...... America does it better than any other country. We make billions hypersexualizing young girls, then we make billions locking up all the pedophiles, hebophiles and epephiles it creates. And let me make it clear. This is in no way an endorsement for Charles Floate. I don't know shit about his case. I'm just saying, if you don't recognize the immense hypocrisy of a society that dresses young girls up like sluts, broadcasts them on tv, then has the nerve to broadcast shit like "Too Catch A Predator" then your head is in the sand.

    -BB
     
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    I am the president of the non sexual harassment society.
     
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  19. BreaknBrix

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    That's the stupidest video and channel I've ever seen in my life.

    I'm 10xs better looking than that monkey, I get women screaming out of windows "you're hot" or "my friend thinks you're cute"... I even had 3 girls stop me once when I was on a BIKE. Stepped out right in front of me and said "woah, watch out" then tried flirting me up. Problem was they were like 16.

    Still, this shit isn't even close to "harassment". I LOVE it. Goes to my head everytime.
     
  20. pastilan

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    So gay of you comment. Didn't you read that he wanted to punch the fag?