I have too much spare time

Seagate44 said:
Yeah man if I had no gf who is studying, thats what id do
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Go on short holidays? I'm sure she can miss you for 1-2 weeks? My GF is studying in the US & I live in Belgium, I have to miss her for weeks lol.
Solo traveling is amazing. It changed my life.
 
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DevXM said:
you have gf, you have money, you have spare time.......and you still complain. I don't even have one of those things......

Anyways, I go for a beer at my local bar and after getting drunk enough, talk to randoms.....walk alone the streets at night. Lots of fun.
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No way I'm complaining mate! How old are you? You can figure out your things also!

7ZEUS7 said:
Dont do that its scary mate
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Btw do something like going to gym, pick a hobby do something that excites you
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Lol :D Haha yes I got a lot of things to do, really, I do different things.
umerjutt00 said:
Take part in sports (whatever you are into). If you have some friends, go meet them whenever you feel like. Also finding a job which is not that much intense will be a good idea too since you are not after the money.
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Yes I tried to, nothing special around me. I keep searching of course but didn't find yet.

Writerly said:
Sorry you’re feeling that way. The best you can do is get out. Find some trees and go for a walk. Studies show that fresh air is often all you need to feel better. Well, fresh air and sunshine. I like the other suggestions too. You can always volunteer or find some free community activities to participate in. Hope you feel well soon.
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Well I must have exagerrated a little. I feel bad when it's dark outside (winter here) when you cannot go out. Then I really feel depressed, since I don't have job so I don't have to leave house. So, when I'm not at gym - I just don't know what to do with myself.


I mean guys - I have a lot of activities I do. I'm an artist, I maitain my online business, I'm doing sports.

But, mostly in winter - when days are long and dark - I've got just plenty time. And when you got plenty time, you have just ZERO motivation to do these things above. I wake up late, lay in bed, waste my time, feel bad, not motivated.

So I'm looking for something else than gym, hobby etc. because I do these things. I mean something, that will keep my brain busy for few hours; best if outside with other people; kind of work with visible result. Like I don't know, wood cutting - lol, you have a thing to do, plus you are outside, plus you feel this SATISFACTION when you see all these wood you cut.

I'm just interested in some of you guys who also have plenty of time - how do you fill it? I'm looking for inspiration here. Because some things I tried already, just didn't really work for me.

So, may I ask you:

If you got plenty of time, what would YOU do ?
 
You can find people on forums or in fb groups to play some group sports (football, basketball, airsoft, depends on your interests).

You can also find some 20+ yr old import car, work on it and become biggest ricer in your town :D
 
Loxo said:
You can find people on forums or in fb groups to play some group sports (football, basketball, airsoft, depends on your interests).

You can also find some 20+ yr old import car, work on it and become biggest ricer in your town :D
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Hahaha I'm afraid I'm already a r(a)cer here :D

belg said:
Go on short holidays? I'm sure she can miss you for 1-2 weeks? My GF is studying in the US & I live in Belgium, I have to miss her for weeks lol.
Solo traveling is amazing. It changed my life.
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Where did you travel bro?
 
Go to urban exploring with a camera. Offer a dog walking service in the neighborhood.
 
Dude... you shut down every idea. Do you even want to do anything, or did you just want to chat to someone.

Like someone said, go join a damn co-work place... I hear "WE WORK" is the shit.

Or like someone else said, do volunteering - help out in your community with litter picking, helping those with special needs, or young or elderly.

Let me guess... none of that stuff exists where you are, and if they do... <XYZ reason> is why you can't do it.

I give up.
 
IamNRE said:
Dude... you shut down every idea. Do you even want to do anything, or did you just want to chat to someone.

Like someone said, go join a damn co-work place... I hear "WE WORK" is the shit.

Or like someone else said, do volunteering - help out in your community with litter picking, helping those with special needs, or young or elderly.

Let me guess... none of that stuff exists where you are, and if they do... <XYZ reason> is why you can't do it.

I give up.
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Lol. All these exist. I don't want to do them.

I'm not here to complain about my situation. I'm here to catch ideas.
 
Seagate44 said:
Where did you travel bro?
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I travelled to New Zealand 2 years ago, met the nicest people (its crazy how easy it is to make friends in hostels, everyone is solo traveling, everyone wants to hang out) I also met my GF there.

Seagate44 said:
Well I must have exagerrated a little. I feel bad when it's dark outside (winter here) when you cannot go out. Then I really feel depressed, since I don't have job so I don't have to leave house. So, when I'm not at gym - I just don't know what to do with myself.
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We're actually in very similar situations. I used to feel you do now and I fixed it by having a consistent schedule in my day:
  • 8AM wake up, not too early, not too late. Emails, order fulfilment & such until 10AM
  • 10AM have breakfast, more work till 11AM
  • 11AM Walk my dog (doing this everyday, my lab knows exactly when its time for the walk, you've never seen a dog so excited)
  • 12PM Work until 2PM
  • 2PM Have lunch, work until 5PM (by this time I have mostly finished all the required work and just spend most my time on BHW)
  • 5PM Gym (20min drive, so this takes up 2 hours)
  • 7PM Dinner
  • 7.30PM Evenings are spend reading, playing chess, BHW, Netflix & FTing the GF
You see, besides gym & walking my dog I don't go out much either but because I have a consistent schedule, I feel productive and don't have time for dark thoughts.
 
belg said:
I travelled to New Zealand 2 years ago, met the nicest people (its crazy how easy it is to make friends in hostels, everyone is solo traveling, everyone wants to hang out) I also met my GF there.


We're actually in very similar situations. I used to feel you do now and I fixed it by having a consistent schedule in my day:
  • 8AM wake up, not too early, not too late. Emails, order fulfilment & such until 10AM
  • 10AM have breakfast, more work till 11AM
  • 11AM Walk my dog (doing this everyday, my lab knows exactly when its time for the walk, you've never seen a dog so excited)
  • 12PM Work until 2PM
  • 2PM Have lunch, work until 5PM (by this time I have mostly finished all the required work and just spend most my time on BHW)
  • 5PM Gym (20min drive, so this takes up 2 hours)
  • 7PM Dinner
  • 7.30PM Evenings are spend reading, playing chess, BHW, Netflix & FTing the GF
You see, besides gym & walking my dog I don't go out much either but because I have a consistent schedule, I feel productive and don't have time for dark thoughts.
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That's helpful bro! Thank you
 
Take your laptop and go work in public places like coffee shops etc. Meet girls and arrange dates, go to the gym etc.
Really my friend thats what life is and you actually sound like you have all the ingredients to make a nice life for yourself.
Working with other people, and having business partners is over hyped. When you get into these kinds of relationships and have "business partners" with time they become headaches and you will wish you were solo.

You'll be great, don't worry.
 
loukeyzee said:
Take your laptop and go work in public places like coffee shops etc. Meet girls and arrange dates, go to the gym etc.
Really my friend thats what life is and you actually sound like you have all the ingredients to make a nice life for yourself.
Working with other people, and having business partners is over hyped. When you get into these kinds of relationships and have "business partners" with time they become headaches and you will wish you were solo.

You'll be great, don't worry.
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Thank you mate!
 

Time to take this redpill, find porpouse in your life, this is just 3 minutes, but it will REALLY help you.

Cheers.
 
That's why I got a dog 5 years ago, because I was spending the whole day in front of the computer playing online poker, so a dog would force me to go out and spend time outdoors, because it needs to relieve itself and run in the park.
 
And here i am, just want to spend some time Traveling without even thinking about earning. Just Saying
 
pretty good
mylastvacation said:
That's why I got a dog 5 years ago, because I was spending the whole day in front of the computer playing online poker, so a dog would force me to go out and spend time outdoors, because it needs to relieve itself and run in the park.
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MisterF said:
@Seagate44 do some volunteer work at a retirement home, an animal shelter, a homeless persons charity or something.

Think of those less fortunate than yourself and do some good for them maybe.
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Well man I think thats a good idea
 
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