I got dumped via text

There´s many women that do this kind of stuff. I was also dumped once by a girl via WhatsApp. I threw away the gift I had bought for her.
 
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The best thing to do now is to hit hard on work. The more you have to work the easier it is to forget.
- Turn off your phone
- Get into your PC
- Start a new IM Journey and set a high goal
- Instead of thinking about how you are going to do it, Just start doing stuff
- Don't masturbate, it'll distract your focus
- Focus on the numbers and work some more
- When you realize, you are in a new life with some cash in your hands

Sorry but had to do this
 
text dumps are the norm now brother. don't let it bother you, relationships make you stronger and the next chick will be even better!

breakups nowadays starts with some "ghosting" then you get that 1000 word text explaining their guilt & why you're "not compatible"

of course a month later you find out she was shagging her neighbor... always check a chick's facebook and twitter account!
 
You're making a huge mistake OP. In your early 20's you should be dating girls who are 18-19-20. They are thrilled to have an "older guy" and tend to treat them with more care/respect than if you're 21 dating a girl who is also 21. Don't you remember being a senior in high school and all the senior girls were dating college guys? That's why. And forget girls who are 21/22 in the bars, they're a headache. In fact forget meeting girls in bars. Go to the bars to have fun with your friends, not to hunt.

-ThopHayt
 
I was thinking of proposing someone.But you changed my mind.
 
That's what I always do. I dumped 3 girls , 2 via Facebook and 1 via text. Ama pimp
 
Kabeer Shlok Veerjay said:
Life was hard for me.
I was dumped by my gf 4months ago, cuz of finance issues. we were in relationship for 3 years.
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nichexposure said:
I got dumped by a girl after 7 years relationship because of money. 7 years later, she understood that i cant give her flat, car and all. So she cheat and marry someone else. Yeah it was heart broken but i overcame that one. Now i have my own flat and bike which i might not own if she was with me :D
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You should consider yourselves VERY lucky - dumb sure, but lucky. Don't have relations with gold diggers. Let me repeat that - do not have relations with gold diggers.

Can you imagine your pain if you had financial troubles AFTER marriage and kids? She would take your kids away without a second thought. Let that sink in and praise whatever you believe for your luck.
 
Conor said:
So normally I don't post personal threads like this, unless it's to rant about something. I'm not going to do that, and I'm not going to go into too much detail re: the title of this thread. It's quite self explanatory. I got dumped by a girl via WhatsApp yesterday. It was cold but in a way I'm actually relieved. it didn't end badly and I'll always appreciate the memories and all that other soppy crap.

The real reason I'm posting this thread in an internet marketing forum is to offer my advice: Don't get into relationships. Not in your early 20's at least. You will have so much more time to be productive, not to mention the extra money you'll save. Dates are expensive. Buying a girl a drink at a bar isn't.

to;dr: I feel good for someone who just got dumped.
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I agree with this guy's advice. Being there, done that and regretted it far more than I could have imagined back then.
All those people in their early 20s, Don't even think about sewing those threads into a cloth. YOU WILL SUCK at it, TRUST me. I am the kind of Idiot who has done that 3 times, failed each time and yet didn't learn a thing.
Keep yourself from all that kindda crap. Instead save money or invest it in buying something which could help you multiply your IM income. And when I say that, I mean literally you'd save that much to invest somewhere and get a sack of shit on your feet, enough to make you feel lucky and intelligent. You'd be proud of yourself for opting this rather than wasting it on a girl!!
 
Conor said:
not to mention the extra money you'll save. Dates are expensive.
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Stencil said:
Instead save money or invest it in buying something which could help you multiply your IM income.
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Since I'm from a different culture, your posts have triggered my curiosity. What kind of money do you spend when on a relationship? o_O
 
Dates are expensive. Pfft . Just Netflix and chill .

Couch and apartment
Tv
Netflix
Popcorn

Optional:condom
 
jazzc said:
You should consider yourselves VERY lucky - dumb sure, but lucky. Don't have relations with gold diggers. Let me repeat that - do not have relations with gold diggers.

Can you imagine your pain if you had financial troubles AFTER marriage and kids? She would take your kids away without a second thought. Let that sink in and praise whatever you believe for your luck.
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This right here.

When my wife and I first met, we were in high school and poor as fuck. We both worked part time minimum wage jobs. Our romantic dates were hikes in the woods, cheap movies, and drives to the top of a mountain to fool around.

She always had dreams of being a doctor, though. Fast forward to today (nine years later), she graduates in June a full doctor.

Investing in the long term :)
 
Sherbert Hoover said:
When my wife and I first met, we were in high school and poor as fuck. We both worked part time minimum wage jobs. Our romantic dates were hikes in the woods, cheap movies, and drives to the top of a mountain to fool around.

She always had dreams of being a doctor, though. Fast forward to today (nine years later), she graduates in June a full doctor.
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Awesome, congrats!
 
jazzc said:
Since I'm from a different culture, your posts have triggered my curiosity. What kind of money do you spend when on a relationship? o_O
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Well, I'd rather not say anything in detail or I'll be a laughing stock for you guys.
In a nutshell, I can tell you that we have Traveled together exploring different cities and locations, twice a foreign country for a week or little more on another occasion which was her birthday.
Not to mention all those expensive gifts which consists everything from her Hair pin to her Heels and her favorite 14yr old scotch which she loves so much!
Things you do for "love"
You find yourself as the biggest looser when you breakup.
 
Stencil said:
In a nutshell, I can tell you that we have Traveled together exploring different cities and locations, twice a foreign country for a week or little more on another occasion which was her birthday.
Not to mention all those expensive gifts which consists everything from her Hair pin to her Heels and her favorite 14yr old scotch which she loves so much!
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Thanks for the response. It sounds like you are trying to pay for affection (even if not intentionally). In my opinion, that's signaling to the other person that you consider them to be - you know what. So, doesn't it make perfect sense then to eventually run away to someone who will treat them with respect as a strong independent person?
 
Chin up dude, use all your emotions to better yourself, you know what they say, the best revenge is success.
 
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