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I got dumped via text

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Conor, Oct 31, 2016.

  1. Conor

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    So normally I don't post personal threads like this, unless it's to rant about something. I'm not going to do that, and I'm not going to go into too much detail re: the title of this thread. It's quite self explanatory. I got dumped by a girl via WhatsApp yesterday. It was cold but in a way I'm actually relieved. it didn't end badly and I'll always appreciate the memories and all that other soppy crap.

    The real reason I'm posting this thread in an internet marketing forum is to offer my advice: Don't get into relationships. Not in your early 20's at least. You will have so much more time to be productive, not to mention the extra money you'll save. Dates are expensive. Buying a girl a drink at a bar isn't.

    to;dr: I feel good for someone who just got dumped.
     
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  2. LJ Junior

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    If it's only for sex then ya, "Don't get into relation.."
     
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    Nice. Hmm, its true relationships are expensive in terms of money and time. But I wouldn't neccesarily advise against them - when I was early 20s relationships were the best and the worst part of my life but I wouldnt change them.
     
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  4. sarutobi87

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    Being in a relationship has its advantages.

    You can have a girl and also pursue your career effectively.

    Just take some time away from the game bro. You will feel better eventually.
     
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    I kind of love the advice mate, because it's a FACT!
    Just that our human nature makes it difficult to cope without having someone very dear to your heart
     
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    I dumped my girlfriend on Valentines day.
     
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    @Conor Happy Independence Day!:D
     
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    bad luck :D
     
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  10. Conor

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    LOL. I'd have to be quite the emotional wreck in order to keep that going for more than a couple of days though.
     
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    After reading your post and looking at your profile pic I couldn't help but laugh.

    That pic just adds the final touch.
     
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    Life was hard for me.
    I was dumped by my gf 4months ago, cuz of finance issues. we were in relationship for 3 years.
    I successfully created an IT startup, grinding 24*7 . some more push and I won't be there I was an year ago.
    (21 yr age)
    I don't hate my girl, cz of the breakup, I managed to do all this. I didn't knew my capability.
    Sorry my english isn't good.
     
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  13. Joseph Lich

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    I feel numb after many "dumped", even some of them are permanent; but I visit her/him once or twice per year without anyone knows this.
     
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    This thread says you are not over it.
     
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  15. xcorelli

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    of course you feel good when you just got "dumped"
     
  16. patriciajohns

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    Never have a direct relation as any dumping will have serious consequences. Build a relationship pyramid. Say, you want a relation with me, now find someone who is linked with me. Then find ten/twenty friends who is linked to that person. Now for this third level friends find another 10/20 friends and keep on for six/seven levels. By now you will have a lot of relations, without me knowing. If I ditch you even, it won't hurt and you will have lots to console. moreover, other chicks you want to ditch will not have any clue that you have or had a relation with me.

    Statutory warning: I am not available for relationship right now, please don't pm me with your stained teeth photos.
     
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    Never been dumped in my life, although the restraining order says I can't get within 100 metres of my GF. She likes to play these games where I hide and watch her.
     
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    But did anyone have relations with that woman, is the million dollar question!
     
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    I got dumped by a girl after 7 years relationship because of money. 7 years later, she understood that i cant give her flat, car and all. So she cheat and marry someone else. Yeah it was heart broken but i overcame that one. Now i have my own flat and bike which i might not own if she was with me :D
     
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    She wanted you for your stability and money, and the other guy for his... ummm... "physical attributes". It happens a lot, that's why every man here must protect his assets and his heart!
     
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