I am such a loser :((

if you run out of stuff to talk about, just talk about "oh you remember that guy, this teacher when we were kids, haha!"... damn, its not that hard... lol "did you have plastic surgery?" = this , no no.
 
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Common sense should be more common. You don't ask a girl if she's had plastic surgery!!! No worries though. I once asked a girl at my 10 year HS reunion when her baby was due... She wasn't pregnant!
 
I remember one guy asking a girl: when will the baby arrive? She was just a bit overweighted :)
 
We all have moments like this - i.e. where you say the wrong thing in the moment, but then afterwards, remember the perfect thing to say, by which time it's too late - but it's best not to dwell on things like this, and just speak your mind. Contact her again!
 
Don't worry too much learn from your faults and move forward, if you want her and if you think still she likes you then go find her and tell her the truth, if you feel sorry then say it if you love her then tell her.
 
henrikas said:
I remember one guy asking a girl: when will the baby arrive? She was just a bit overweighted :)
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That is rule #1 in life. I have drummed it in my kids heads to never ask a woman when she is due unless they see the baby coming out of her body.
 
The worst she can do is say no, go back with your best wear on and confidence high. Cant fail that way
 
Listen to "As time goes by"

 
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theseodude said:
Ione time I told her I did not like her so she needs to stop teasing me. After that, the teasing stopped. ........ and too afraid to do anything. .............


12 years later, .............. "you look so different. What happened?" she said "I grew up" I said "did you do plastic surgery?" she said "no, does it look like I did surgery?" I said "yes" .............. "ok, have fun"
.................
I feel like such a loser now. fuck me.

what should I do?
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lol

You lost her at least that many times!

Next time you meet her by accident, just keep your mouth shut (for entire duration) and you may get an invitation to her wedding to the best man in town! :)
 
You asked her if she did a plastic surgery ? Lol what were you upto ?
 
All girls do change in their physical appearance from their school days in 12 years, from being a girl to a young woman. And they don't need plastic fixes to show that they are woman and pretty too!

But on the contrary, a few boys stay the same age (and appearance) forever. :(


OP, get over it as soon as possible, and enjoy the new world order!
:D
 
Bro, you lost her at plastic surgery. WTF is wrong with you? You never say that to a woman. Even if she did go through one.
 
OK OP, here's a good thing that you can do now... go meet her before she "meets" you, and apologize... tell her how tongue-tied you become the moment you meet her and then you lose her yet again in life... make it straight and mean those words even if they will make you look more stupid. (no harm now, you've gone all the way down already). THEN, give her your compliments and tell her about those words in the school and how you didn't meant it then too. Be really sorry...

Give her some moments to ponder, which she will... Then ask her to be with you for a few more beautiful moments... then for God's sake, talk like a grown-up man to her. Possibly, you will be forgiven for those hurting/dumping moments you gave her long time back...

Seems like you approach her only to insult her feelings; your shyness is making you speak wrong things to a woman who somehow seems to have cared for you... may be, this time you've confirmed what her other best friends might have suggested to her then.

You may not have another chance to win a heart that really cared for you back then. :(
 
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the plastic surgery comment probably turned her off a bit from the conversation. She doesn't want to feel like she wasn't beautiful before. In this case move on.
 
He who hesitates masturbates.
Loose lips sunk your ship...jp
 
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theseodude said:
In high school, which was some 12 years ago, there was this girl that liked me. I know for a fact she liked me, because she always teased me and she had told a mutual friend that she liked me. However, back then I was very shy. Too afraid to do anything, I ignored her and I think one time I told her I did not like her so she needs to stop teasing me. After that, the teasing stopped. I did not have any bad intentions, I was just shy and too afraid to do anything.


12 years later, which was last night, I met her at a wedding. So I told her "Sharon, is that you?" she said "yes" I said "you look so different. What happened?" she said "I grew up" I said "did you do plastic surgery?" she said "no, does it look like I did surgery?" I said "yes" she said "gee, thanks"
Then I said "What are you up to now?" she said "I am graduating from school next week" I asked "from what school?" she said from pharmacy school. I said "so you are gonna be a pharmacist?" she said "yes"
Then I don't know what happened, but she said something like "ok, have fun" and left.
This isn't the exact structure of the conversation, but I think I got most of it.

I feel like such a loser now. fuck me.

what should I do?
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You asked her if she had had plastic surgery... next time, it might also be a good idea to ask if she was pregnant in high school too, because she looks so different!

I am sorry mate, there isn't a lot we can do to help you - clearly ;)
 
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