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I am such a loser :((

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by theseodude, May 27, 2013.

  1. theseodude

    theseodude Regular Member

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    In high school, which was some 12 years ago, there was this girl that liked me. I know for a fact she liked me, because she always teased me and she had told a mutual friend that she liked me. However, back then I was very shy. Too afraid to do anything, I ignored her and I think one time I told her I did not like her so she needs to stop teasing me. After that, the teasing stopped. I did not have any bad intentions, I was just shy and too afraid to do anything.


    12 years later, which was last night, I met her at a wedding. So I told her "Sharon, is that you?" she said "yes" I said "you look so different. What happened?" she said "I grew up" I said "did you do plastic surgery?" she said "no, does it look like I did surgery?" I said "yes" she said "gee, thanks"
    Then I said "What are you up to now?" she said "I am graduating from school next week" I asked "from what school?" she said from pharmacy school. I said "so you are gonna be a pharmacist?" she said "yes"
    Then I don't know what happened, but she said something like "ok, have fun" and left.
    This isn't the exact structure of the conversation, but I think I got most of it.

    I feel like such a loser now. fuck me.

    what should I do?
     
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  2. Izzma

    Izzma Regular Member

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    Grow some balls and speak you mind! What the worst that can happen. No offense OP :)
     
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  3. Duffers5000

    Duffers5000 Elite Member

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    Well its not as if she ran off after she heard you were the seo dude....so you must look a bit sad.

    Buy yourself some nice clothes and next time you go to a party hold your head up high.
     
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  4. SmartMan

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    Here comes the

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  5. WayneInc

    WayneInc Senior Member

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    just grow your balls and get her men..
     
  6. WPRipper

    WPRipper Supreme Member

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    Lol you cant ask a woman if she did a plastic surgery :) This is when u lost her.
     
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  7. erickishere

    erickishere Elite Member

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    such beta
     
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  8. switch_2012

    switch_2012 Power Member

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    FFS mate, learn some manners - especially when you're talking to a girl. Either way, it was 12 years ago she fancied you and she has moved on and get over it...
     
  9. SkyrocketSEO

    SkyrocketSEO Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Tell her:" Nice shoes, wanna f***? "
    Always worked for me...
     
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  10. xtopzi

    xtopzi Regular Member

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    Geez, haven't you learned anything from sugirl?

    Now that's solid advice.
     
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  11. karibo

    karibo Regular Member

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    Completely agree with this one. Also you should read one book : The game (by neil strauss)
     
  12. Kimi

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    What a loser :D
     
  13. mickyfu

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    Grow up and get on with your life. The fact that you seem to have an obsession with someone from 12 years ago at school seems a little creepy to me.
     
  14. abhi007

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    LOL what kind of a suggestion are you giving him? do you even know what you are writing?
     
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    john1444 Elite Member

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    Why is everyone missing the part that says she's getting married. Sorry dude, too late loser and you will only be one if you continue to be same ol g.
     
  16. cricket1

    cricket1 Senior Member

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    From what I understood she was not the one getting married.
    If she did not have a bf then I don't see any reason why you could not ask her out. Did you at least get her number?
     
  17. west13

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    I think the surgery part was a big fail. Like you made it sound she was ugly as fuck before and now she looks like she had to do plastic surgery..what the hell man...

    Anyway, move on is the best advice imo
     
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  18. Razvan

    Razvan Power Member

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    hahaha , you read my mind
     
  19. wow99

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    Nice try but i guess she has already moved on. If you are still waiting for her then you are big loser.
     
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    I'm gonna call you 20 grit.That was as smooth as 20 grit sandpaper.
     
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