I am lost

I would advise you to give her space and make it seem like you are busy.
She is losing interest in you.

Don't contact her on Whatsapp.
Don't call her.

Do nothing.

Even if she contacts you, reply 3 - 4 hours later.

5 years ago, my girlfriend, starting losing interest in me and it was my problem.
I followed someone advice and she starting falling in love with me.

Now were are married.

Search on Youtube: Corey Wayne.
Thank me later.

MrBachir said:

I would advise you to give her space and make it seem like you are busy.
She is losing interest in you.

Don't contact her on Whatsapp.
Don't call her.

Do nothing.

Even if she contacts you, reply 3 - 4 hours later.

5 years ago, my girlfriend, starting losing interest in me and it was my problem.
I followed someone advice and she starting falling in love with me.

Now were are married.

Search on Youtube: Corey Wayne.
Thank me later.

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Will check it as well. Thanks bro!

During one of the conversations she said that "she is always the one who pushes to the meeting"... but it does not play with herself, because first for 5 years she "pushes to the meeting" and now she feels that we have fallen into monotony. I don't know.

What the fuck is this, go see a therapist of some sort. Can't stand men who are acting like this. Believe me or not but I've got a friend who was in the same type of situation as you are right now and matter of fact, he was also together with his girl for a bit more than 5 years since a very young age, he's in his mid twenties now.

Guess what? He dealt with the situation while having a few more major issues on the side and he feels great. He didn't have to cry on a SEO-forum about it.

No, seriously. Get your shit together, man. You're what, 21 years of age? Your brain even hasn't fully developed yet.

And for fuck sake, old-heads, stop giving this guy a relationship advise. Even if he breaks up with this so-called "life-time love", it will take a couple of months at most till he's in the bed with another girl and same goes to his girlfriend.

If you're saying that you're LOST when a relationship problem hits you, I just can't imagine how you are going to react to even bigger major problems. Because guess what? They are coming whether you want it or not, that's life. And there are tons of people dealing with much crazier problems than you are but they don't say that they are LOST and don't whine about it. Now, piss off.

Shamaninov said:

What the fuck is this, go see a therapist of some sort. Can't stand men who are acting like this. Believe me or not but I've got a friend who was in the same type of situation as you are right now and matter of fact, he was also together with his girl for a bit more than 5 years since a very young age, he's in his mid twenties now.

Guess what? He dealt with the situation while having a few more major issues on the side and he feels great. He didn't have to cry on a SEO-forum about it.

No, seriously. Get your shit together, man. You're what, 21 years of age? Your brain even hasn't fully developed yet.

And for fuck sake, old-heads, stop giving this guy a relationship advise. Even if he breaks up with this so-called "life-time love", it will take a couple of months at most till he's in the bed with another girl and same goes to his girlfriend.

If you're saying that you're LOST when a relationship problem hits you, I just can't imagine how you are going to react to even bigger major problems. Because guess what? They are coming whether you want it or not, that's life. And there are tons of people dealing with much crazier problems than you are but they don't say that they are LOST and don't whine about it. Now, piss off.

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I do not try to complain, I wrote what is on my heart. And I knew someone was going to write it, and I thank you for it. Seriously. I'm not some cunt crying over spilled milk, I just feel weird. She didn't break up with me, she makes me guess when I lost a lot of life, friends and time during these 5 years. I was seeing her almost every day since the afternoon. It fucking hurts. Sincerely? Before this relationship, if someone wrote something like I did today - I would write back the same as you. But it's different now, unfortunately.

I read the whole text, I had a similar situation and life story as you also started taking money from the age of 15. I would recommend that you talk to her again, if you can't agree, hang up. Dedicate yourself and your life to your best years and you need to have the best time, dedicate yourself to work and other things. That's all from me

Swallow the red pill, and all you worry about won't be issues anymore. According to red pill philosophy, she's not yours. It's just your turn.

You thought she was yours, but she isn't. Your turn is over, and now she wants to branch swing to a new guy. She's acting weird so you'd end the relationship yourself because she doesn't want to live with the guilt of ending a relationship with a perfect guy who did her no wrong.

After this relationship, never commit to any girl again. Make sure you have at least two girlfriends at any given point to prevent this from happening again in the future. Just imagine that you had someone else...would you be so worried and depressed about this? No. You'd simply let her leave. This is what women do and that's why they recover from breakups faster.

In addition to that, you're too young to get married. Wait until you're 30 before you even think of it, and be careful, because it takes just one divorce to ruin you. Your wife can take 50% of everything you have if she decides she isn't happy at any point during the marriage, even if she cheats on you. I don't know where you stay, but divorce laws usually favour women in many countries.

If you're ready to swallow the red pill, visit reddit.com/theredpill and read everything in the sidebar. Goodluck.

kvvni said:

Will check it as well. Thanks bro!

During one of the conversations she said that "she is always the one who pushes to the meeting"... but it does not play with herself, because first for 5 years she "pushes to the meeting" and now she feels that we have fallen into monotony. I don't know.

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Just try what I told you and you'll see what happens.
If she doesn't respond to you, you will get crazy.

Well, the same will happen with her.
But not instantly because you fucked up.

See this video:

Shamaninov said:

What the fuck is this, go see a therapist of some sort. Can't stand men who are acting like this. Believe me or not but I've got a friend who was in the same type of situation as you are right now and matter of fact, he was also together with his girl for a bit more than 5 years since a very young age, he's in his mid twenties now.

Guess what? He dealt with the situation while having a few more major issues on the side and he feels great. He didn't have to cry on a SEO-forum about it.

No, seriously. Get your shit together, man. You're what, 21 years of age? Your brain even hasn't fully developed yet.

And for fuck sake, old-heads, stop giving this guy a relationship advise. Even if he breaks up with this so-called "life-time love", it will take a couple of months at most till he's in the bed with another girl and same goes to his girlfriend.

If you're saying that you're LOST when a relationship problem hits you, I just can't imagine how you are going to react to even bigger major problems. Because guess what? They are coming whether you want it or not, that's life. And there are tons of people dealing with much crazier problems than you are but they don't say that they are LOST and don't whine about it. Now, piss off.

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When you're 10 you can't act as 20, when you're 20 you can't think like 40yo. That's life. But you can be polite in almost every age of your life. We are all different. Obviously, you should be aware of that.

He is mature enough to earn 300.000 but emotionaly not. Like almost all of us were in his age. Regarding his behavior, I would say you've got much bigger problems than him my friend.

kvvni said:

That we just do something every day, see each other and that's it.

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This is huge problem, the root of many issues. I don't know how to fix this because I am boring too. Sometimes you simply need new energy in your life. In my experience doing some exciting things together is a must to keep the relationship fresh. Maybe she is not bored of the relationship itself just the way you spend time together. Monotony kills.

kvvni said:

that I doesn't respect her;

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Try to talk about this. Insist on constructive feedback if you are interested in improving yourself and the relationship. I think that she should learn to be assertive and learn to communicate properly, these I go silent tactics are crazy detrimental to the health of the relationship.

It is very hard to give advice if you don't know the whole story, but here are some good questions . Why does she feel disrespected? Do you tell demeaning things to her? Are you supportive of her goals? Do you keep your word and can be counted on? Do you expect her to do housework for free? Do you think that you have more rights in the relationship because you make more money? Do you act entitled sometimes? Are you brainwashed by porn?

People change a lot in one year too, let alone 5. Sometimes people simply change in different ways and you are not compatible with someone you were very compatible a few years ago. You are still very young and your personalities are not formed completely.

How does she see herself in the future? Does she have the same goals in life she had when you started dating? If your goals are contradicting then unfortunately this cannot be solved without one person giving up their own ambitions, which can lead to resentment down the road. For example if one person wants to live in a rural area and be a farmer and the other person wants to live in a city and be a surgeon this is highly unlikely to work out.

All the time, I thought you're a girl until I read your post today.

Get well.

brown_thomas28 said:

All the time, I thought you're a girl until I read your post today.

Get well.

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Really?
Thank you man.

kvvni said:

Really?
Thank you man.

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I don't know, maybe I'm mixing you with someone else, but it was you who shared that robot chat landing page, method?
I think, when I read that, I got the idea that you were a girl, no offence.

brown_thomas28 said:

I don't know, maybe I'm mixing you with someone else, but it was you who shared that robot chat landing page, method?
I think, when I read that, I got the idea that you were a girl, no offence.

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No no, it's not me No problem bro!

kvvni said:

No no, it's not me No problem bro!

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You're right, my bad.
But checkout the profilr pic, that's what got me confused.
https://www.blackhatworld.com/seo/m...g-pages-for-cpa-and-affiliate-offers.1215739/

Ah, and regarding the girl, I dunno, find another girl, man, I'm kinda cold-blooded when it comes to girls.

If she said that to you, its obvious that she is not the one for you, so just forget it. You have a financial power now. And believe me, in that ages you are way more sensitive, but after 30, its great

And a tip for you. Never show your financial power at first to her, if you are serious about her.

brown_thomas28 said:

You're right, my bad.
But checkout the profilr pic, that's what got me confused.
https://www.blackhatworld.com/seo/m...g-pages-for-cpa-and-affiliate-offers.1215739/

Ah, and regarding the girl, I dunno, find another girl, man, I'm kinda cold-blooded when it comes to girls.

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Oh yeah, similar. You have good memory
Thanks for your answers buddy.

Hello, first of all fell pretty sorry for you..to be completely honest i understand both of you. The pandemic is bad and long and people might get silly from it. I got GF 4 years now and sometimes i feel like i want just fly to the other side of the world and just meeting new people (not cheating), but on the other hand i am the man who cares about his women as much as he could and i really love her. BUT the relationships aren't easy and you BOTH need to work on it. None of the couples after 4-5 even 10 years is the same, it is some kind of habit but on the other hand it is the certainty, it is the best to have someone to talk to and hug etc.

Me and my woman past through some crisis and nowdays if i can speak also for her we feel much stronger than before, it is all about communication and hard work. (LOL if someone thinks that IM is hard work, please live with the woman in the pandemic under the one roof)

P.S if you find out that she has someone, never back down, you just can't drop so low that u will forgive someone this thing.

Maybe you should give her space when she is studying to her exams bro, just chill down it will somehow happen. Take care

JANUM said:

sometimes i feel like i want just fly to the other side of the world and just meeting new people (not cheating), but on the other hand i am the man who cares about his women as much as he could and i really love her

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feel the same! I've just created thread about traveling alone yesterday it's pretty hard.

i was in Thailand when covid panic started in March 2020. She has been very sad, no way to home, cancelled flights etc. Now I told her I can go to UAE, she was strange "OK, NICE! IT'S GREAT IDEA, UAE ARE SAFE".

JANUM said:

(LOL if someone thinks that IM is hard work, please live with the woman in the pandemic under the one roof)

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yes that's true, that's how relationships are broke during the pandemic, especially when both works remotely and has kids.

JANUM said:

P.S if you find out that she has someone, never back down, you just can't drop so low that u will forgive someone this thing.

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you know, it'll be much simpler to me. When I'd know that she has someone, I will just think "fuck it" as it's just not recoverable for me. Now I have signals, but nothing too clear.

Thank you buddy.

Jerk55 said:

Swallow the red pill, and all you worry about won't be issues anymore. According to red pill philosophy, she's not yours. It's just your turn.

You thought she was yours, but she isn't. Your turn is over, and now she wants to branch swing to a new guy. She's acting weird so you'd end the relationship yourself because she doesn't want to live with the guilt of ending a relationship with a perfect guy who did her no wrong.

After this relationship, never commit to any girl again. Make sure you have at least two girlfriends at any given point to prevent this from happening again in the future. Just imagine that you had someone else...would you be so worried and depressed about this? No. You'd simply let her leave. This is what women do and that's why they recover from breakups faster.

In addition to that, you're too young to get married. Wait until you're 30 before you even think of it, and be careful, because it takes just one divorce to ruin you. Your wife can take 50% of everything you have if she decides she isn't happy at any point during the marriage, even if she cheats on you. I don't know where you stay, but divorce laws usually favour women in many countries.

If you're ready to swallow the red pill, visit reddit.com/theredpill and read everything in the sidebar. Goodluck.

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I agree she is gone already, she is just trying to tell you nicely.


people can say don't worry etc. but, when you're in it it's your whole world. Good luck my friend you seem a good guy. All things will pass with time. The sun will rise, the sun will set.

just give her some space, relax, or go on 2-3 day trip.

If she is not interested in u let her go, you will hurt at the start but eventually, it wears out, almost everyone goes thru anxiety in this age. One day looking back u will laugh at this situation.