How to cure oneitis?

Status
Not open for further replies.
Focus on your shit op,force yourself to work harder on making money,she has a bf,move on and good luck to you.
 
Advertise on BHW
butusov said:
Focus on your shit op,force yourself to work harder on making money,she has a bf,move on and good luck to you.
Click to expand...

So what if she has a BF or even if she was married. She isn't the property of anyone, and nothing wrong with convincing a woman(or man) with someone already that you are better for them. You are doing them a service by providing them with an option in life that may be better.
 
firstnamelastname said:
I really hope this doesn't leak in real life. I know the people that I am going to talk about read internet marketing forums, possibly BHW.

So I will try to keep it vague but specific enough:

I have this client, he is a man. He has this assistant that I am in love with. She has no idea (or maybe she does because I am always so nervous and awkward around her)

I keep thinking about her all the time.

Yesterday she was talking to her boss and she mentioned something about her boyfriend. It made me so upset, I was crying on the inside.

I know I am being illogical and this is just a case of oneitis. Does anyone here know how to get over it? have you ever cured your own oneitis? if yes, how?
Click to expand...


OK I'm gonna help you out OP...

1) Check yourself. If you find yourself feeling like crying because some girl you barely know has a boyfriend then you're letting yourself be delusional. You're putting a stranger on a pedestal man. This is how creepy and unhealthy obsessive shit starts. Go look in the mirror and give yourself a little slap in the face.

2) You're playing the game all wrong by the way it sounds. Who cares if she has a boyfriend now? Forget about her and move on. If you have regular contact with her and IF she likes you then she will let you know if she becomes single. Until then (if that happens) forget about her and sharpen your game by talking to other women and dating. The worst thing you can do is hover and wait for this girl to suddenly jump on you, it never happens that way.

Get your head straight and you'll be fine mate.

-ThopHayt
 
Lust not love. You're not spending enough time with the opposite sex. Go out smash some hairy smelly vaginas experience the world and if you do all that and still feel same a year later then maybe persue it. Can guarantee you won't feel like that In a year though
 
Just to add I was like that at 16-18. Then i discovered real life. Now I think what the fuck was wrong with me haha
 
webernesque said:
I don't mean to sound chauvinistic or anything, but grills are pretty much all the same, dude. Some of them are better looking and know how to market themselves, but what they have to offer is always the same.
Click to expand...

You're right. BBQ grills are all the same. But saying they know how to market themselves is stupid. They're inanimate objects that cook food.

Try again.
 
muscleteen said:
Next time you see her, touch and compliment her. But be genuine. Compliment about something you actually like. And don't be lame and just say "You're beautiful".

Here are a few examples:

1. Grab her hand, put it up and say "Nice manicure! How long did it take you to do that?" - Again, that's if she actually has nice nails!

2. Put a hand on her shoulder, look at her face for 5 seconds like you are looking for something, and say "You have really nice skin. You must spend quite a lot on moisturizers, don't you?" - Don't do that if she has crappy skin.

You get the idea. BE HONEST.

Oh and, when you see her, JUST DO IT. Don't think. Don't wait for more than 3 seconds. Just do it. Will you?
Click to expand...

Way to be her gay best friend...
 
There's a PUA guide out there that says you should pull out your penis and put her hand on it. There's a .01% chance it will work, but 99.99% chance you'll go to jail and end up as a sex offender.
 
Interesting thread on bhw.

Actually the girl knows and she drop the hint of her boyfriend to let you know so you would stop being awkward all the time and start acting normally around her.

Just my 2 cent.
 
Being completely honest you come off as clingy, wimpy and a bit obsessive. My guess is that she isn't into you but the bottom line is that you should find out for sure so that you can move on one way or another. Simply approach her and tell her how you feel in the manliest way you can possibly muster -- no crying, no mention of you thinking about her and her boyfriend going at it (or whatever crap you spewed earlier in this thread) etc..

When you get the answer just accept it and move on. Good luck dude
 
kickthat said:
Compliment her manicure and her skin? You don't see how a woman could get the wrong idea there?
Click to expand...

Manicures can take up to 3 hours to be done (that's with extreme designs, but they usually take 1 hour on average based on my sample). Skin care products can cost hundreds of dollars. You think most women do that to be noticed by other women? You don't think that showing interest in something she spent her resources on would be a good starting point for a nice conversation? Especially since most men don't talk about these things.

If just saying something makes you look gay, the problem lies in how you say it or how you are dressed. You wouldn't confuse George Clooney for being gay if he said that, would you?

Nails are one of the first things I look at when checking out a woman. I can't stand chipped nail polish.. :mad: If she takes care of her nails, she probably takes care of everything else too. And if I like them, I say it. And no, they don't automatically take it up to themselves to make assumptions about my gender preference.
 
What you need to do is get a burner chick to take your mind off things bring her around the girl from the office and show her how great you are!!!!! Women love what they can't have and don't want what they can. Then she will ask you out and you ended up working on your game, got some strange and mind f@&$ed the girl you wanted into seeing you for you. Win- win
 
cant believe what I'm reading here. " muscleteen":rolleyes::p:D:rolleyes::D:D:D Why not give her a vajazzle while your at it? You're meant to be a man not a woman. What on earth is wrong with some people haha
 
robsmith said:
cant believe what I'm reading here. " muscleteen":rolleyes::p:D:rolleyes::D:D:D Why not give her a vajazzle while your at it? You're meant to be a man not a woman. What on earth is wrong with some people haha
Click to expand...

Yeah cause being selective about your women makes you a woman..

robsmith said:
Go out smash some hairy smelly vaginas
Click to expand...

And "this" makes you a man...

And YOU are wondering what's wrong with some people :D:D:D
 
Noah Hawryshko said:
Why is this thread so toxic? Wow.

It'd be different if you were all joking, but half of you are being serious.
Click to expand...

I love it. It's just helping me add to my already extremely long ignore list.

To the "genius" who said "Women want what they can't have," that isn't gender specific. After all, this entire thread is about a GUY who wants a woman he can't have.

Oooh, but you missed that, didn't you? Yeah, you did.

Please don't breed.
 
Advertise on BHW
Status
Not open for further replies.
Sign up now!

Main Menu

Home Main Forum List Black Hat SEO White Hat SEO BHW Newbie Guide Blogging Black Hat Tools Social Media Downloads

Marketplace

Account Selling Content / Copywriting EBooks / Methods Hosting Misc Proxies For Sale SEO - Link building SEO - Packages Social Media Social Media - Panels Web Design More

Making Money

Affiliate Programs Hire a Freelancer IM Journeys Making Money Pay Per Click Site Flipping Want to Buy

BlackHat World

Dispute Resolution Forum Suggestions & Feedback Introductions Lounge
Back
Top