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How to cure oneitis?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by firstnamelastname, Sep 27, 2016.

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  1. firstnamelastname

    firstnamelastname Regular Member

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    I really hope this doesn't leak in real life. I know the people that I am going to talk about read internet marketing forums, possibly BHW.

    So I will try to keep it vague but specific enough:

    I have this client, he is a man. He has this assistant that I am in love with. She has no idea (or maybe she does because I am always so nervous and awkward around her)

    I keep thinking about her all the time.

    Yesterday she was talking to her boss and she mentioned something about her boyfriend. It made me so upset, I was crying on the inside.

    I know I am being illogical and this is just a case of oneitis. Does anyone here know how to get over it? have you ever cured your own oneitis? if yes, how?
     
  2. kickthat

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  3. Divination

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    I was gonna say steal her from her boyfriend but then I re-read this part "I am always so nervous and awkward around her"–if you think you're nervous and awkward, she KNOWS you're nervous and awkward. It's over. No chance.

    Get over her. Go into a big city and see lots of women and it's over, you won't even think about her anymore.
     
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  5. BlackBDO

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    Yep, you need abbundance mentality mate. Get out, meet some girls, and understant there is no 'the one'.

    If you stay all day in bed and... Uhm... "Think" at this girl, you are not going to cure anything.

    Get out. Meet new People.
     
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  9. RalphSEO

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    Stack up some monies and get the hottest escort to do anything for you. Once you get a supermodel obeying anything and everything you'll act like a true bastard around your unicorn. Before you know it her boyfriend is gonna buy himself a fleshlight (I sell these so I would highly appreciate you do this so that I get an extra sale, not that I need it but I'm greedy)
     
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    That's tough dude. You should find out more about the bf, how long they have been together, and plant seeds of doubt in her mind for times he's away/not available. Show that you are available. Do little things around her for her. Make yourself look good by helping out at nursing homes and talk about it. Or have someone come in and rave about you. It'll get her thinking what she could have vs what she already has.
     
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    Thailand...
     
  12. Capo Dei Capi

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    Just ask her out, tell her in front of her boyfriend that you are better for her.
     
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    I was just reading the forum not being logged in, and I saw your comment, and I just had to login to kiss your hand for those words of wisdom! All hail Jared255! :)
     
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    The beauty that i see in this woman (aside from physical beauty) is that she can't care less about money. All her boyfriends have been losers, she has been working all her life and supporting herself and her kids and her loser boyfriends. all the money in the world won't buy her.
    Now you might be thinking she is a stupid whore. maybe she is. but in the office she is so well-mannered, she is such a good actress that you would never know what a whore she is in the bedroom.
    It pisses me off because it's like "what does she see in this guy? how is this guy better than me? I am smarter, I have more money, I have an education. why the fuck is she choosing him over me?"
    her boyfriend is sucking on those beautiful breasts right now and i am sitting here imagining what they look like. pisses me off.
     
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    Did you just really say that? What are you, 12 years old? My God this is depressing.

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    Now had you said something like "she doesn't only care about the money," I could've lived with that. But now I am seriously depressed and I might kill myself tonight.

    Good job man. Thanks a lot.
     
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    Maybe you have a shitty personality or your not her type.
     
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    every woman cares about money...itss biological
     
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    Try to build a relationship with her, if she's not interested get over it.
     
  20. Divination

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    Dude you seem to have the biggest beta mentality. The guy may not be better than you. He may not be smarter. He may not have more money. He may not have an education. She is choosing him over you because you're too much of a wimp to make a move. It's all about being there at the right time. You don't even know how important convenience is.
     
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