Well I did tutoring over skype to a few folks (at $100/hour since you're curious how much). They all learned a lot. 1 got to make money and "got it" and was able to apply enough from what I told him. He kinda had a background that helped him too. 3 of them were able to understand some healthy concepts but struggle to actually implement them because they lack the skills. 2 of those 3 pretty much chose to "forget" everything i told them and are back in the "follow the crowd mindset". What i noticed were these things (what i can think of right now, might be more):
1. They have bad expectations, opinions, ideas, habits and belief systems.
2. They think they need to be taught SEO. They don't! SEO can be summed up in about 3-4 hours and that's all you'll ever need to know about it. What they need instead is to learn to think and only think and never listen to opinions, because opinions are not facts.
3. They don't like the fact that they are incapable. It is an ugly word but that's the truth. Most people are incapable and in order to become capable they must evolve into somebody else. It is a matter of developing skills and a good mindset. It is not techniques and strategies they need, but skills and a mindset. Once you have skills and a mindset the strategies and techniques you need for SEO or anything for that matter will come easily. Implementing them will still be hard but at least at that point you get it. Unfortunately most people choose not to evolve to become what they have to become but push their heads deeper into the ground because they don't want to accept the simple truth they are unskilled at this very moment.
4. They insist. I told each of them it is not a good idea to pay me to teach them SEO because it is unlikely they will actually learn anything usable for THEM. They insisted I teach them. I told them i have a certain mindset and they will not like my mindset about SEO because they have to actually learn difficult things. They insisted I still teach them. I thought them and they said "but how do i do X thing this way". I replied that "X should not be done that way but this other way", they insisted it has to be done "that" way, because that was the only way they had the skills to do. And so on.
Trust me when I tell you, you can be shown a mindset, you can be explained strategies and techniques, you can be given all the knowledge of the Universe but unless you are at the level where you can actually understand it, it will be as useless as a bottle of salt water in the middle of the ocean.