I'm the Mod that deleted your thread as a promotional one as it had about a paragraph of content and a link to your blog (which did not offer much as it is).
Here is the thought process (that Ms. Apricot shared above) in different verbiage as it seems you may be missing the point.
BHW is not about getting as much as it is about giving. Those that give get, it is not the other way around where those that get give.
If you are offering some quality information that is helpful to at least some portion of the community you'll get opportunities to be "self promotional" as a result of it. I would not suggest that you give solely to get as that is also not the spirit of the community.
99.9% of the time, those that give get rewarded in a variety of ways, one of which would be you being allowed to link to the source, even if it is yours, at the end of a share.
My guess is you have some decent knowledge about s few things related to IM, SEO, Techie stuff, etc. Almost everyone here does (even me!).
My suggestion is that you spend some time writing out a nice 400 word share that is not self promotional on some aspect of your expertise and share it.
Then do another one in a week or two.
Then a third one in a week after that.
Maintain those threads, answer questions asked, and help people out in those areas.
Make that sort of thing a habit and you'll end up getting in return.
English may not be your primary tongue so that may be a bit of a challenge but that is the sort of thing that you need to do to get in this community.
We see the "sharing is caring" phrase posted now and then and, although it sounds like something my former wife would have said to my children when they were 5, it is a legitimate philosophy and one that BHW has as part of it's foundation.
So, to sum all that up I'll steal from JFK, "It is not what can BHW do for you, it is what you can do for BHW".
