How could this happen? I cannot believe man...
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Quality cloaking is under rated.
White River
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Man never confront someone if you don't have proof to avoid losing trust in future behavior
do the DNA test with no hesitation behind everyone's back and never show them that you have 1% doubt unless you get something to show
my brother's daughter came little dark skin and by the time she became whiten by its nature
so my advice don't precede events
do the DNA test with no hesitation behind everyone's back and never show them that you have 1% doubt unless you get something to show
my brother's daughter came little dark skin and by the time she became whiten by its nature
so my advice don't precede events
Susanta Lohar
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Well, I am black
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If you are serious, this is not the best place to ask for relationship advice.
WTF, 80% of votes to go behind her back and do a DNA Test?
She has been with you for 12 years.
Why don't you just wait a week or two? I am sure she will notice it too and will bring it up. She is not blind??. It is also her kid.
I have no experience is life. wtf do I know? But doing a DNA without her knowing... damn what has the world come to?
WTF, 80% of votes to go behind her back and do a DNA Test?
She has been with you for 12 years.
Why don't you just wait a week or two? I am sure she will notice it too and will bring it up. She is not blind??. It is also her kid.
I have no experience is life. wtf do I know? But doing a DNA without her knowing... damn what has the world come to?
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Don't act weird and don't confront as long as you don't have any proof. You shouldn't live with a doubt either. Get a DNA test and confirm it first. Then you can think about further steps. Quora is a great place to discuss such things as it has a large community of both cheaters and cheated.
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bkenn
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Gosh thats a hard one to swallow. If there is love between you and the kid, just move on. She will be the one to give her Momma a spanking !
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deal with it
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so cringy
Billy Batts
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Man, I had a friend who raised a kid from birth till he was 1yo thinking it was his and then found out it wasn't because his bitch cheated, it crushed him!!
Do a fucking DNA test!
Do a fucking DNA test!
ritafairclough
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If you think maybe its not your baby, maybe you can you swap it for an iPod?
Wooten
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Well before choosing any option, I'd wait another couple weeks, maybe the skin will change a bit more, who knows.
If that doesn't help, go with checking DNA behind her back, provided you live in a country where that is legal. In some countries, you must have agreement of both parent to have DNA tested, so... If not, before you confront her, you might wanna consult with a medical specialist about the odds of that happening. Sometimes people get ginger children, even though parents are both dark-haired ( that is actually possible ) and some other "anomalies". Maybe you are the lucky one?
12 years is a long time to fuck it up so quickly, don't make any rash decisions and don't be too hasty to drop accusations on her. Think this through and do everything that you can, and only if everything else fails, try to have a suggestive talk with her, see what she thinks.
If that doesn't help, go with checking DNA behind her back, provided you live in a country where that is legal. In some countries, you must have agreement of both parent to have DNA tested, so... If not, before you confront her, you might wanna consult with a medical specialist about the odds of that happening. Sometimes people get ginger children, even though parents are both dark-haired ( that is actually possible ) and some other "anomalies". Maybe you are the lucky one?
12 years is a long time to fuck it up so quickly, don't make any rash decisions and don't be too hasty to drop accusations on her. Think this through and do everything that you can, and only if everything else fails, try to have a suggestive talk with her, see what she thinks.
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