How can i do away with suicide thoughts?

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Foremost capability to endure with difficult circumstances is ignorance. It's okay to love everyone around you, yet a safe distance always helps. Creative pulse emerges when you're serious about making changes. When sorrounded by false influences, you're less likely to focus on making your first baby step. I know explaining this in spiritual terms may not appear intruiging. Yet, thoughts govern life.

Take a sheet of paper and write down your ideas, goals and how you plan to approach them. Ending your life isn't the cure.
Believe me, this is where winners are forged.

My riches is life, forever
- Bob Marley
 
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Stay strong!
 
htmlweeb said:
Hello guys, i know this is not an health forum but i do know that some of us here, might have passed this phase already.

I'm 26, A graduate of estate valuation in Nigeria.

Graduated with 2:1 which isn't bad compared to other grades.

I graduated in 2015. it's been 5 years now, yet i couldn't land a single job (here in Nigeria, you need to know someone who will recommend you for a job, fortunately i come from a poor family, as such, i don't know any influential person who will give me a letter of recommendation.)

I decided to go Online, probably I'll make some money.

Tried affiliate networks, but seems like Nigerians have been blacklisted by almost all the Networks (tried using Chrome VPN extensions, still without success of getting into ClickBank).

Right now, I feel like I'm a failure as no one respects me in the family anymore (Including my siblings).

Lately, throughout this week, all I've been thinking of, is Taking my own life.

I know it's not the reasonable thing to do, but i feel like i will be relieved of my pains and suffering i'm going through right now.

I'll be Grateful if i could get some advice on how to stop these thoughts going on in my head.
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if you think suicide will fix your probleme then your wrong, like if you gonna die you will be happy, no u will not, people will give billions and billions for more extra days for their life, and yet you given your life for free, no this is not how it works, dont think with your degrees you will succed with it it, i had network enginner degree and worked in building houses 'construsction' for 10$ a day yes, you need something to start and now i have good joob good life happy thanks GOD, ... anyway i think that gonna take a book to tell all,
im like 25 soon 26 old, and even while working i keep learning and learning, unstead of think about somethings stupid i use that time to enjoy it.
so start with any job even 5$aday, and keep moving forward, dont look back,

youknew i like that quote :
[ the world against me it wouldn't be fair otherwise ]


if you will born in rich familly rich country fancy life, then take my word : it would taste bad mayybe you will even lose taste of things :)
succes after strugle make it taste amazing :)
 
I always think that I am going through hard times because someone from above is having big plans for me, so he is hardening me for what is coming.
In the future, you will have your hard work story and you will be proud that you didn't give up.

You see, even we strangers here on this forum are trying to light up the world for you. We care. Be sure that your loved ones care 10x more!

We, humans, are all the same. All the things around you are created by people no smarter than you. I can, you can, everyone else can.

Exercise daily ;)
 
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1. think about god and life after death (if u suicide then u will mast go to hell)
or
2. think about your family. if u will do that then u will down you family reputation.
or
3. Marry a girl she will help you to bring back a new life.
 
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Cro7 said:
I always think that I am going through hard times because someone from above is having big plans for me, so he is hardening me for what is coming.
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Though I was the only one. Whether it's true or not, it's a great way to reframe negative situations.
 
Try to find something you are passionate about, it will keep you on the right path and bring happiness when you succeed.
Keep searching, keep trying, something will cross your path! Stay strong man!
 
You have hit a roadblock (short term). We all have this issue at some point in our lives. If you have made mistakes, failed, or backed the wrong project it means you are attempting to make a better life. You have a skillset "estate valuation" think about how you can benefit the local market.

As many people have said already think about the loved ones you will leave behind.
 
I’d say find a psychologist to speak to.
For my own advice, there are a lot more things to life than making money or being successful, envy is evil and we all need to learn to be grateful for what we have.
 
i would say it's a wicked spirit attacking you ..do not fall into this trap....maybe to stop these thoughts you should think of what will happen after you die ?
 
take a break from yourself.
take a break from the expectations you have had for yourself
take a break from the expectations others have of you
take a break from the regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow
take a break from the self you have not yet known
take a break from the self that taught you what you need
take a break from others and be in nature.

ill meet you there. be patient and remember, GOD loves you.
 
1. Search God first and everything will come into place. When you make money and finance your God, you will ultimately find they lead to nothing but despair because you can only serve one master. I made women my god for years and I suffered the consequences and thankfully, found god and I'm the happiest I've ever been. When you have the holy spirit in you, you'll never be depressed and lost. Pick up your bible.

2. You need to do your silence prayers daily (or meditation). I do 30 minutes in the morning but going to start doing it at night as well.

3. Fix your diet and check out The Mood Cure. You could have a chemical imbalance. After taking the supplements directed from the book, my depression, anxiety, and stress were gone in 20 minutes. Was going through an extremely stressful situation I wouldn't put on my worst enemy.

If you can do all 3, I can guarantee you, you'll never think about killing yourself again. I'm about to do a silent prayer now and I will pray for you brother.
 
Hi don't do that you will be inflicting tremendous amount of pain onto your family for a lifetime. You can try dropshipping opening your own e commerce site etc or working as a freelancer on up work etc there is many things you can do. Set up your own affiliate network and use affiliates to drive traffic don't ever give up the world is too big and the internet is too big to just focus on clickbank....
 
First of all get help. Now. Don't wait. Talk to a therapist. You will be amazed at how much it helps.

*Edited to add: https://nigeriasuicideprevention.com/

Also, if you aren't doing it, EXERCISE. Lot of studies have shown it helps improve your mental state and combats depression.

Second, is moving an option? Or, do you have a relative you can trust to open accounts in another country that isn't blacklisted? Then sign up for online programs using a VPN to route your traffic through the region where you relative is located, if you catch my drift...

One random job I tell some people about, that may be an option for you as a SHORT TERM solution is... transcription. It's not glamorous, the pay isn't AMAZING, but there is a ton of work if you are reasonably skilled in English. And the money can be decently lucrative especially if you are in a country where the cost of living is low compared to western nations (I am assuming this is true of Nigeria?)

Basically, you listen to audio or video files and type up what the speakers have said. That's it. I did this temporarily when I was struggling in an all-commission job where pay varied like crazy and I needed some small stable income coming in.

Hang in there dude, you took the first step which is TELLING SOMEONE and seeking some kind of help. Keep making the right choices and you will come out on top.
 
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Make life simple, be patience and stay focused. Time will heal your problem automatically.. Take care..
 
I am sure that everyone always has such moments in life when various bad thoughts appear ... You just need to overcome such moments and try to come up with a way to make money. Let's say there are freelance sites where you could offer your services ... and start making money.
 
Nigeria is a country of hardship by default. Not sure how your hardship compares to the millions of citizens, but surely, if you have had the opportunity to dangle on internet marketing, you are way above the average.

You should try to go where the average or below the average is, and live for a while with that, to gain some perspective.
 
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